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Darky
07-02-07, 08:56 AM
I've had my cat Tiger, a tabby/persian girl, since I was about 9-years-old.

I've seen her pregnant, give birth to a lovely kitten who now belongs to my God Father, went along to a far-away Vet with my parents in the freezing cold so that two more kittens could be removed, was unable to sleep during the night when one died, had the joy of seeing the last kitten - Spike - grow up into the adult he is now.

I skipped school to be at home when she vanished for a couple of weeks and finally turned up in our back garden - completely in a world of her own, extremely skinny and quite sick, on the verge of death. I ran out to pick her up and bring her indoors, and almost missed an exam to stay home and keep an eye on her when she was wrapped in blankets, recovering.

I am now 18-years-old. She is my absolute best friend. I recently moved to Milton Keynes with my guinea pigs to be closer to the love of my life - a short walk from her house instead of two hours away. We got to see each other every day instead of once every couple of months, it was absolutely brilliant! But... Without Tiger, I just was not truly happy. Every morning I would wake up and feel her feet on me like I would at home, but nothing was there. So I moved back after three weeks, despite the fact that being home generally makes me very unhappy and isn't good for my emotional issues - I had to do it for her.

A little while before Christmas, she had a swelling on the side of her mouth. We took her to the nice new local vet, and he said that it was possibly a tumour - he gave her a steroid injection and asked us to keep an eye on it, I also had anti-biotics to give to her.

It pretty much remained the same, but.. As soon as I moved out - it suddenly started swelling, making it look like she'd been punched in the face. Then it started getting a bit goopy, like an infection. The fact that it occured whilst I moved away was a bit.. Scary.

I took her to the vet this morning and he gave her another steroid injection somewhat early and gave me anti-biotics, and.. He said that, by checking it, it is most certainly a tumour.

So it's all just a waiting game now.

Luckily for me, she is eating properly at the moment - he even commented on how well-fed she looks. She's just as clingy and happy (she's currently taken over my bed), so I just have to wait for her to be in too much discomfort to eat properly.

It hasn't really settled in, to be honest.

I've had this shock before - when she had infected gums and I was told it would probably be cancerous, but she recovered.

When she had kitten stuck inside her.

When she vanished because she most likely thought she was dying from being sick, 'thus starving herself.

When I was first told it might be a tumour - when I ended up holding her in bed crying, saying that I didn't want her to die.

I know that most people are attached to their pets.. I've had pets die. Pets I've been close to for years. But none of that can compare to this feeling. She is extremely special to me, and I'm sure that some of you will know exactly how I feel. I gave up being with my future fiance for her, I would give up anything for her. Because through all of my life I have been extremely lonely and I have gone through a lot of crap, and the only person that has been there for me has not been a person, but a cat.

I just wanted to make this thread to notify y'all of her situation. Please - hope for the best, like I am.


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http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c58/brooder_geek/Tigerrrr.jpg
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bunpig
07-02-07, 09:13 AM
oh dear, poor Tiger :(

she is not just a pet she is your companion, she loves you unconditionally, you have a special bond with her and one that i can relate to. when i was a teenager i too had the good fortune to have a special relationship with a cat (charlie) through an unsettled early life. i really hope that the vets can treat her tumor and that she goes on to live for many more happy years with you. charlie came from a rescue centre (he was abused by his previous owners and had cigarette burns) he was already 10 years old when i got him and went on to live 'til 23!!! i really hope the diagnosis from the vet is good for your dear little Tiger please keep us updated.

Darky
07-02-07, 09:24 AM
oh dear, poor Tiger :(

she is not just a pet she is your companion, she loves you unconditionally, you have a special bond with her and one that i can relate to. when i was a teenager i too had the good fortune to have a special relationship with a cat (charlie) through an unsettled early life. i really hope that the vets can treat her tumor and that she goes on to live for many more happy years with you. charlie came from a rescue centre (he was abused by his previous owners and had cigarette burns) he was already 10 years old when i got him and went on to live 'til 23!!! i really hope the diagnosis from the vet is good for your dear little Tiger please keep us updated.


Unfortunately, because of the placement of her tumour - it cannot be removed. It simply wouldn't be possible to remove it all, as it's all on the side of and inside her mouth.

So, basically.. I just have to wait until it looks like she can't cope anymore. It's particularly horrible as she is only about 9/10 years old.

Having to watch your best friend deteriorate so that you can decide their death is not something that I look foward to.

Jane
07-02-07, 05:00 PM
Aww, I'm so sorry :( Come on Tiger, you can do it :'( I hope she pulls through this, I'll keep her in my thoughts xx :-* :-*

Darky
07-02-07, 06:21 PM
Aww, I'm so sorry :( Come on Tiger, you can do it :'( I hope she pulls through this, I'll keep her in my thoughts xx :-* :-*


It's really highly unlikely.

cavykind
07-02-07, 06:42 PM
Sorry to hear this. Please consider homeopathy for your girl, the link below might help you find a vet in your area who uses it.
My dog is seeing a homeopathic vet on Friday, it's worth a try?
You'll need to ask your own vet for a referral letter if you go ahead.
Take care and healing thoughts to you little one.
Barbara

British Homeopathic Vet Association (http://www.bahvs.com/vetmfhom.htm)

darkest.dreaming
07-02-07, 06:47 PM
What a beautiful cat. I hope she is ok. :'(

Darky
07-02-07, 07:21 PM
Sorry to hear this. Please consider homeopathy for your girl, the link below might help you find a vet in your area who uses it.
My dog is seeing a homeopathic vet on Friday, it's worth a try?
You'll need to ask your own vet for a referral letter if you go ahead.
Take care and healing thoughts to you little one.
Barbara

British Homeopathic Vet Association (http://www.bahvs.com/vetmfhom.htm)





Unfortunately I do not know enough about homeopathy to try it if it may risk her health - and checking that website, it seems that there isn't anyone practising it near enough to me anyway.

cavykind
07-02-07, 07:32 PM
Sorry to hear this. Please consider homeopathy for your girl, the link below might help you find a vet in your area who uses it.
My dog is seeing a homeopathic vet on Friday, it's worth a try?
You'll need to ask your own vet for a referral letter if you go ahead.
Take care and healing thoughts to you little one.
Barbara

British Homeopathic Vet Association (http://www.bahvs.com/vetmfhom.htm)





Unfortunately I do not know enough about homeopathy to try it if it may risk her health - and checking that website, it seems that there isn't anyone practising it near enough to me anyway.


There didn't appear to be one near me but I rang and there was. These are professional vets and they would not do anything to harm your cat. But if you don't feel this something you wish to consider, then fair enough :)

Take care and love to Tiger.
Barbara

Billies Mum
08-02-07, 07:25 AM
Thinking of tiger

Lucinda
08-02-07, 09:55 AM
Sweetheart, I'm so very sorry to hear about Tiger.
Sending love your way xxx

Glynis
08-02-07, 10:08 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this :'( :'(
Your love for her is so obvious in your thread GULP it's very emotional and very moving :'( :'(
I'm wishing you both all the best and i hope that Tiger realises how much you love her and that it somehow works out for you both.
The photo was enough to totally undo me, that was a beautiful pic :-*
I'm glad she's got you as her companion cause you're the best of friends and you've had the best time together what a very special time you've had :-* :-*

KimmiesGuineas
09-02-07, 02:37 PM
What a beautiful cat. I'm so sorry that this is happening, but at least she had a wonderful home for nine years. She's in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope she gets better.

Kimmie