amyloulaw
01-07-11, 12:09 PM
Hi Everyone, I have had Milly & Bubble for 6 days now, Milly is 6 weeks old, Bubble 9 weeks, I got them for my daughter Amber who is 9 years old but I am already feeling very maternal towards them and where as Amber is desperate for interaction with them and disappointed that they don't seem to "love her" I am concerned about the do's & don'ts and what's best for them (of Course!!) I have been pouring through books and websites trying to find the answers I need, but feel a bit helpless. When you have a baby you have all sorts of instructions & support from professionals, other mothers, groups etc, but I feel as a new "mummy" to these two very nervous little furballs I feel a little in the dark & paranoid! So I'm just looking for a few words of wisdom and a bit of advice really...and hopefully confirmation They (and I) are doing OK!!
So here's whats happened so far, We collected them on saturday from a private breeder, a lovely old couple who have been reccomended to me by somebody who is very much an Animal lover and has two piggies herself who have beautiful temperaments and seem very happy & healthy :) The breeders told us that both piggies were very used to being handled by their grandchildren.
Milly & Bubble have a Cage 4ft x 2ft with a hidey place each and some straw balls for playing etc. They hid for 48 hours solid (coming out at night when we were asleep for food etc) On Monday Amber's freind who has had two piggies for 3 years and is very confident with them came over and showed Amber & I how to hold them etc, we then let them have a little runabout (Bubble just sat stock still the whole time , Milly was more inquisitive, sniffing around) whilst I cleaned they're Cage out, since then they have come out daily for cuddles either from myself & my husband or from Amber, we let them sit on our laps so as to not make them feel smothered, stroke them and talk to them gently and they don't seem to mind too much once they are actually out with us! They are eating fine, hay, grass substitute, guinea pig nuggets etc aswell as cabbage/carrot/red pepper / spinach etc morning and early evening. So - what's the problem you are asking?...well...
1. They just seem so constantly scared, they hide 90% of the time, I am home most of the day, but have tried leaving the TV on quietly when I go out so that they get used to noise and it's not a shocker for them everytime we're around - is this a good thing or bad thing?
2. They don't seem to be drinking ANY water atall, they have a bottle which I change daily, I have tried a titch of peanut butter on the tip to draw their attention to it, I have tried putting a bowl in, but they just don't seem remotely interested in drinking???
3. Although like I say we have had them out Daily for cuddles & once we do they seem ok, BUT, they do everything in their power to avoid being picked up, Milly's so Tiny & fast that she just darts out of my reach everytime, she really gets quite panicky and squeaky too, yesterday I just decided to let her stay "home" because I sensed the whole game of "Catch" was going to stress her out too much. I wonder should I be leaving them longer to get more used to their environment before forcing them to come out for cuddles? It just seems to upsetting for her in particular...however once she is in on our lap she'll have a little sniff around and look up at me, I can even hear a little murmuring squeak coming from her, but I can't work out whether this is nerves or contentment?? Bubble does not seem overly chuffed about being picked up and we'll dodge & try & wiggle out of my grasp, but doesn't seem as panicky as Milly & is a bit more robust!! Also although Bubble sits stock still on our laps we've found she will lift her belly right up and stand on her tippy toes, if we tickle it as if she wants more ( I presume this is what she means?)
4. I feel bad that they're not getting to run around and have floor time yet, but it seems so traumatic to them to go through the whole coming out of the Cage experience that I feel it's best to take it one step at a time, also to be honest I'm worried I won't be able to Catch them to put them back in the Cage without it all getting to Panicky for them.
I'm sure everything I've mentioned is Normal, I know Guinea Pigs are naturally nervous and understand it takes them a while to settle and build confidence, but I just don't know whether I should be leaving them in Peace or showering them with love ( whether they want it or not!!!) at the moment!
All advice & personal stories would be welcomed!!
Thanks
Amy x@)
So here's whats happened so far, We collected them on saturday from a private breeder, a lovely old couple who have been reccomended to me by somebody who is very much an Animal lover and has two piggies herself who have beautiful temperaments and seem very happy & healthy :) The breeders told us that both piggies were very used to being handled by their grandchildren.
Milly & Bubble have a Cage 4ft x 2ft with a hidey place each and some straw balls for playing etc. They hid for 48 hours solid (coming out at night when we were asleep for food etc) On Monday Amber's freind who has had two piggies for 3 years and is very confident with them came over and showed Amber & I how to hold them etc, we then let them have a little runabout (Bubble just sat stock still the whole time , Milly was more inquisitive, sniffing around) whilst I cleaned they're Cage out, since then they have come out daily for cuddles either from myself & my husband or from Amber, we let them sit on our laps so as to not make them feel smothered, stroke them and talk to them gently and they don't seem to mind too much once they are actually out with us! They are eating fine, hay, grass substitute, guinea pig nuggets etc aswell as cabbage/carrot/red pepper / spinach etc morning and early evening. So - what's the problem you are asking?...well...
1. They just seem so constantly scared, they hide 90% of the time, I am home most of the day, but have tried leaving the TV on quietly when I go out so that they get used to noise and it's not a shocker for them everytime we're around - is this a good thing or bad thing?
2. They don't seem to be drinking ANY water atall, they have a bottle which I change daily, I have tried a titch of peanut butter on the tip to draw their attention to it, I have tried putting a bowl in, but they just don't seem remotely interested in drinking???
3. Although like I say we have had them out Daily for cuddles & once we do they seem ok, BUT, they do everything in their power to avoid being picked up, Milly's so Tiny & fast that she just darts out of my reach everytime, she really gets quite panicky and squeaky too, yesterday I just decided to let her stay "home" because I sensed the whole game of "Catch" was going to stress her out too much. I wonder should I be leaving them longer to get more used to their environment before forcing them to come out for cuddles? It just seems to upsetting for her in particular...however once she is in on our lap she'll have a little sniff around and look up at me, I can even hear a little murmuring squeak coming from her, but I can't work out whether this is nerves or contentment?? Bubble does not seem overly chuffed about being picked up and we'll dodge & try & wiggle out of my grasp, but doesn't seem as panicky as Milly & is a bit more robust!! Also although Bubble sits stock still on our laps we've found she will lift her belly right up and stand on her tippy toes, if we tickle it as if she wants more ( I presume this is what she means?)
4. I feel bad that they're not getting to run around and have floor time yet, but it seems so traumatic to them to go through the whole coming out of the Cage experience that I feel it's best to take it one step at a time, also to be honest I'm worried I won't be able to Catch them to put them back in the Cage without it all getting to Panicky for them.
I'm sure everything I've mentioned is Normal, I know Guinea Pigs are naturally nervous and understand it takes them a while to settle and build confidence, but I just don't know whether I should be leaving them in Peace or showering them with love ( whether they want it or not!!!) at the moment!
All advice & personal stories would be welcomed!!
Thanks
Amy x@)