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Yesterday morning a colleague of mine asked me if I ever felt bored of my job, my response was that I'm bored of my life
I just feel that I'm totally stuck in a rut with everything atm. Work & homelife.
I don't mind my job but I feel like I'll be stuck doing it forever, there are no other jobs around here which I can do for the same money & I can't afford to take a pay cut to do something I actually want to do.
At home I just can't be bothered to do housework etc... mainly because OH doesn't really help. He'll do the dishes, when we don't have any clean ones left to use. Doesn't see that the room needs hoovering or dusting etc... I don't think he's ever cleaned the bathroom in the 4 years we've lived here?
I blame his Mum, never had to do that kind of thing when he lived at home but hey ho I knew that when we moved in together and I'm not in for drawing up chore rotas. I'd just like not to have to ask for something to be done.
I know people have far bigger problems than me, and I've not done this to get loads of replies or anything. In fact it probably seems really trivial. I'm just p**sed off because I was at work 12 hours yesterday & today. He was out last night & I got in from work tonight and the house is exactly as it was when I left it this morning (hoovering/ironing to be done) and I had a go at him about it, so now he's basically ignoring me.
I'm mad so I'm shouting and needed to get it off my chest.
Sorry")
I just feel that I'm totally stuck in a rut with everything atm. Work & homelife.
I don't mind my job but I feel like I'll be stuck doing it forever, there are no other jobs around here which I can do for the same money & I can't afford to take a pay cut to do something I actually want to do.
At home I just can't be bothered to do housework etc... mainly because OH doesn't really help. He'll do the dishes, when we don't have any clean ones left to use. Doesn't see that the room needs hoovering or dusting etc... I don't think he's ever cleaned the bathroom in the 4 years we've lived here?
I blame his Mum, never had to do that kind of thing when he lived at home but hey ho I knew that when we moved in together and I'm not in for drawing up chore rotas. I'd just like not to have to ask for something to be done.
I know people have far bigger problems than me, and I've not done this to get loads of replies or anything. In fact it probably seems really trivial. I'm just p**sed off because I was at work 12 hours yesterday & today. He was out last night & I got in from work tonight and the house is exactly as it was when I left it this morning (hoovering/ironing to be done) and I had a go at him about it, so now he's basically ignoring me.
I'm mad so I'm shouting and needed to get it off my chest.
Sorry")