Self Isolation Fiance keeps going out

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My fiance keeps going out and he is supposed to be self isolating. I keep trying to keep him home, our relationship is quite unstable at the moment. He wont stay in when i tell him to, and keeps going out. He is saying hes going to the shop, for a daily exercise, for paracetemol ect. But hes going out at about 8:00 and he needs to stay home due to my pregnancy. I am not sure how much he loves me up, i proposed to him. I dont know what to do, i want to keep baby safe 😭
 
Aw I feel for you. It must be so worrying for you both being about to have your daughter with all this going on. Is he maybe stressed and needing a bit of distraction going out? Sorry no answers but can't be easy for you at all xx
 
Oh, sweetheart. Sending you a big socially distanced cuddle.
You’re always welcome to private message me if you need to vent. 💕
 
So sorry to hear this and I can fully understand how anxious he must be making to feel, sending you big hugs. Is there a family member or friend of his who can have a talk to him about his outings?
 
He needs having a chat with to drive home the fact he is putting you and baby at so much risk. If he feels he can’t kerb the outings then maybe he needs to find somewhere else to stay. What does he say he’s doing when he goes out that early? I take it he isn’t working?

Sorry you’re having a tough time with having to isolate and trying to keep away from the trouble with coronavirus. 💕
 
Siikibam said:
He needs having a chat with to drive home the fact he is putting you and baby at so much risk. If he feels he can’t kerb the outings then maybe he needs to find somewhere else to stay. What does he say he’s doing when he goes out that early? I take it he isn’t working?

Sorry you’re having a tough time with having to isolate and trying to keep away from the trouble with coronavirus. 💕
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Thsnk you, and its 8:00 at night
 
Does he have any family that you could reach out to and tell them the situation? Someone he listens to and respects because it sounds very much like he me has no regard for your safety. Sorry to say that, or he just isn’t mentally equipped to deal with the situation we all find ourselves in. It is very trying times for friends, family and relationships so I good wake up call wouldn’t go amiss.

Apart from that the only other option is to remove yourself from the situation.

Best of luck x
 
Do call his mum. You can call under the guise of a catch up then slip it in when she asks how you are. Sorry it’s making things harder for you.
 
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