ahhh Deb what an awlful life he must have given you, wicked man, how could he blame a child for that, he did it, men often forget this little piece of information dont they,
but like you I am a great believer in what goes around comes around, and he got his big time,
my dad was brought up in a strict way and in a home for a while so his ways are too strict for my liking he use to be too strict for me and my 2 brothers but he has got a moody moany old sod lately he is 65 but treats mum like she is nothing to him, after I got diagnosied with MS last year my whole attitide towards him changed now i stick up for mum and myself and he does'nt like it, I tell him my kids dont like to hear you talk to their nan like you do and the reason all 5 of my kids get more from us then ever is because i want them to have what we never did, and I also told him I loved my grandparents more then him, (Mums parents died in 88 and 90) but they ment everything to me,
so kelly you are a lucky lady enjoy him,