And this is why I have moved the entire last thread to the Moderator section. This one could end up going the same way......
You have been on an emotional roller-coaster and a lot has happened in a short amount of time. You have been upset recently and stressed, and have been figuring out what to do for the best for you and your piggies, and have changed your mind a few times.
But I think because there's been several changes of heart in such a short amount of time I do think people are getting concerned and when people are concerned some will comment, rightly or wrongly. When people are left to figure out what is going on and why the sudden change of mind, people start jumping to conclusions. It doesn't always seem fair, but it is human nature to do so.
I also know from your other posts that you are keeping your sows and your new boar separate. I think the fear that you may put them all together comes from all the quick changes of opinion you have had about your own piggies recently. Like I say, I know things have been stressful, but I do suspect that all of these changes have left people wondering what you may decide to do next.
That seems to be the heart of the issue, from what I can tell.
I hope everyone can take a step back and go back to being supportive of one-another, but perhaps some honest discussions on your own concerns may be of help before you make your next decision. I know you don't have to 'report' yourself to us, it's not like that, it's just that sometimes when you discuss your concerns or how you are feeling before you go ahead with decisions people will be able understand where you are coming from better, if that makes sense? As it stands everything reads as quite impulsive, and whether or not this is correct, it reads that way. It just does, even if you don't realise it, and therefore other forum members are bound to get concerned, and some will be annoyed.
I'm sorry
@kiera that you have read some comments that have upset you, we are here to help and we want the best for you and your piggies, but so many contradicting announcements in a short space of time has left people concerned and confused. I think at the heart of it everyone wants the best for you and your pets.