Hi all, I've had my guinea pigs for 10mths already. They got to the current stage of tameness very quickly, abt within a mth after I had them where they allow hand feeding and petting. However, they still hate lap time as they hate being on my lap, my young gp don't mind being petted when he is on the floor but once I place him on my lap he will try to get off immediately. N if I hold him down he will struggle, so I don't do lap time anymore cuz I think it isn't nice to do things he doesn't like. I just want them to be happy, and not 'flaunt' my superior size n strength to tell them they have no point trying to struggle. However, I've been seeing a good number of articles for the past 10mths and now even from a shelter, which often encourage regular handling n pickinh them up. I understand n believe that my guinea pigs will eventually be calm n accept that picking up isn't really harmful or a bad thing, n might eventually not struggle, making handling them alot more enjoyable. Cuz I do want to spend time with them while I do other othings too like when I watch TV or read books (which I now can't cuz they enclosure aren't in the living room n that room they are in doesn't have WiFi so everytime I spend time with them I can't do anything else, n it often gets boring cuz all I can do everyday is watch them cuz they dont like being picked up, which makes me visit them only at list twice a day) but I don't know if its morally right or if its mean if me to carry them/ have lap time against their will
a part of me think its good n they might eventually be calm abt picking up n we can even have a closer bond which they will be grateful of, but a part of me still think its morally wrong. what r your thoughts?
