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princessguinea
Well, its a long story so I will make it as straight to the point as possible.
About a year and a half ago, I was engaged to a man I was with for almost 8 years. The wedding was ready to go, everything was planned and I was just waiting for the day to come. 4 months before the wedding, he broke up with me and said he wasnt ready to be married and wanted to make sure I was "the one" (he didnt know this after 8 years?!)
Anyway, it happens that he just happened to have another woman on the side that he met at work! I figured it had to be someone else. I'm not stupid! He of course swears he never cheated but I know better. That and he sister told me he did coz he told her! Well, he wanted me back coz he found out he loved me more than his new "girlfriend". But I was already with Jose and of course I dont trust him anymore so I said no. But he calls me still sometimes. I still talk to the parents coz I'm like a daughter to them. I recently spoke online with his sister. I cut bonds with her too coz she started drama before we broke up coz I was complianing that me ex was hanging out with female friends(this was when we were together), and she then told her that I shouldnt be mad coz I have guys calling me! Meanwhile these were guys from my church that I have grown up with in diapers, so I see this different! So we didnt speak after dat coz I felt betrayed.
Woo! A lot of typing! :o My question is, should I build my relationship back with her? I mean I'm not with her brother anymore so I shoulnt be mad at somthing like dat if we arent together. But then also I'm not totally at trust with her. I'm just confused about things. My ex also recently had a baby with her too! Ive moved on but of course I'm human so it hurts a little.
About a year and a half ago, I was engaged to a man I was with for almost 8 years. The wedding was ready to go, everything was planned and I was just waiting for the day to come. 4 months before the wedding, he broke up with me and said he wasnt ready to be married and wanted to make sure I was "the one" (he didnt know this after 8 years?!)
Anyway, it happens that he just happened to have another woman on the side that he met at work! I figured it had to be someone else. I'm not stupid! He of course swears he never cheated but I know better. That and he sister told me he did coz he told her! Well, he wanted me back coz he found out he loved me more than his new "girlfriend". But I was already with Jose and of course I dont trust him anymore so I said no. But he calls me still sometimes. I still talk to the parents coz I'm like a daughter to them. I recently spoke online with his sister. I cut bonds with her too coz she started drama before we broke up coz I was complianing that me ex was hanging out with female friends(this was when we were together), and she then told her that I shouldnt be mad coz I have guys calling me! Meanwhile these were guys from my church that I have grown up with in diapers, so I see this different! So we didnt speak after dat coz I felt betrayed.
Woo! A lot of typing! :o My question is, should I build my relationship back with her? I mean I'm not with her brother anymore so I shoulnt be mad at somthing like dat if we arent together. But then also I'm not totally at trust with her. I'm just confused about things. My ex also recently had a baby with her too! Ive moved on but of course I'm human so it hurts a little.