A Message From the Admin...

[Glynis]

I just can't answer that, that's why i wanted and hoped it could be resolved by phone as then it could be discussed....
OMG i feel so awful i feel like i've let everyone down too, i'm so sorry to you all i just wanted to chat to people i did not think that it would hurt anyone, i would not deliberately hurt any of you...
sorry :'(

 

[kellyandpiggies]

I have the brunt of this. They are not my forums and was alwaus going to stay an active member like I have done with all other forums that I am on.

To save any more upset and for my health. I will be leaving

 

[baby-wilson]

Okay... so all of this has been caused by another forum being made?
I dont see the big upset.... theres nothing wrong with some members making a new forum?

 

[Ali-1991]

Okay... so all of this has been caused by another forum being made?
I dont see the big upset.... theres nothing wrong with some members making a new forum?

there is upset when the forum is spammed for users joining that site though (if that is what HAS happened)

 

[squeakypigs]

Okay... so all of this has been caused by another forum being made?
I dont see the big upset.... theres nothing wrong with some members making a new forum?

No, thats not the problem. The problem is that this forum, was being used for advertising another forum whilst saying not very nice things about this forum too.

It is getting sorted out now, so nobody else needs to reply to this thread.

 

[starshine]

Funnily enough me or my Mum haven't been invited along to the other forums either. It's the lies and deception that have really caused the damage.

Anyone is entitled to belong to any other forums they want to - it is a free country. I also belong to a couple of other forums - no one would ever have a problem with that. The issue is that no one from the mods or admins were told about the new forums and the fact that sly, sneaky way that this has all been done.

 

[baby-wilson]

Okay... so all of this has been caused by another forum being made?
I dont see the big upset.... theres nothing wrong with some members making a new forum?

No, thats not the problem. The problem is that this forum, was being used for advertising another forum whilst saying not very nice things about this forum too.

It is getting sorted out now, so nobody else needs to reply to this thread.

I wouldnt call it advertising - they were letting a friend know of a new forum they had made! if you made a new forum, would you not tell us? would that be advertising?
Also - Nothing mean was said :-\

 

[squeakypigs]

Okay... so all of this has been caused by another forum being made?
I dont see the big upset.... theres nothing wrong with some members making a new forum?

No, thats not the problem.  The problem is that this forum, was being used for advertising another forum whilst saying not very nice things about this forum too.

It is getting sorted out now, so nobody else needs to reply to this thread.

I wouldnt call it advertising - they were letting a friend know of a new forum they had made! if you made a new forum, would you not tell us? would that be advertising?
Also - Nothing mean was said :-\

Baby Wilson - You do not know the full facts of this.  One message wasn't sent, and slagging off this forum via PM and getting others to join is against the rules - any normal practice or forum would hold the same rules too.  I will be locking this thread now as we are trying to get things sorted.

 

[squeakypigs]

I would also like to add that NOBODY was banned from the forum. There has been a misunderstanding about that....