Dollyx
Junior Guinea Pig
Not sure if this is the right place to put this thread, sorry if it isn't 
I've just been really weighing my options for past month or so and I'm stuck, I don't know what to do. In February, I took my girl Dolly to the vet as it seemed a bladder stone had come back, which it did. Fortunately though, it was small enough and Dolly passed it on her own, which the vet confirmed with a x-ray. During that vet visit the vet also recommended that I get Dolly spayed, as she is 4 years old and exhibiting hormone symptoms(if that's the right way to put it) i.e. crusty nipples.
The problem I'm having is that I am very nervous about putting Dolly through another surgery. She did good with the bladder stone removal surgery last September, but my anxiety was through the roof with that and I don't know if I want to put her or myself through that again. It also sucks as during the stone removal, it was planned to have her spayed at the same time but due to complications, they didn't have the time to do that. I feel incredibly selfish for holding back on the recommended spay as I know that could improve her QOL down the road (she also has cysts but as far as the vet and I'm aware, they aren't causing issues) and I know I'd never forgive myself if I did go ahead with the spay and she'd die from surgery. The same would go for if I'd have to put her down if she developed cancer at all, or if the cysts were affecting her.
I truly have no idea what I'm going to do, or what I should do. Another problem is the costs, as it's never cheap. If it was absolutely necessary, I'd spend that money in a heartbeat but I just don't know if it is.
Here's a picture of my girl for reading my rant


I've just been really weighing my options for past month or so and I'm stuck, I don't know what to do. In February, I took my girl Dolly to the vet as it seemed a bladder stone had come back, which it did. Fortunately though, it was small enough and Dolly passed it on her own, which the vet confirmed with a x-ray. During that vet visit the vet also recommended that I get Dolly spayed, as she is 4 years old and exhibiting hormone symptoms(if that's the right way to put it) i.e. crusty nipples.
The problem I'm having is that I am very nervous about putting Dolly through another surgery. She did good with the bladder stone removal surgery last September, but my anxiety was through the roof with that and I don't know if I want to put her or myself through that again. It also sucks as during the stone removal, it was planned to have her spayed at the same time but due to complications, they didn't have the time to do that. I feel incredibly selfish for holding back on the recommended spay as I know that could improve her QOL down the road (she also has cysts but as far as the vet and I'm aware, they aren't causing issues) and I know I'd never forgive myself if I did go ahead with the spay and she'd die from surgery. The same would go for if I'd have to put her down if she developed cancer at all, or if the cysts were affecting her.
I truly have no idea what I'm going to do, or what I should do. Another problem is the costs, as it's never cheap. If it was absolutely necessary, I'd spend that money in a heartbeat but I just don't know if it is.
Here's a picture of my girl for reading my rant

