Bereaved Sow

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Does anyone know how to get out the cycle of constantly bonding pigs and having them for eternity?
I now have a 4 year old sow on her own.

She has never bonded to any of my other 4 cage mates. I had 3 sows and a lovely friendly boar that started off well in a trial date in the Rescue and ended up badly after 48 hours. He has now sadly passed over the Rainbow bridge .

Her behavior is;
Firstly completely ignores any other pig after she gets her own way and separates.
Gets very aggressive/anxious when confronted with a variety of cage mates. Chases, goes head on for a fight, not distracted by food, definitely not any other bonding I have seen on you tube . Really awful. She is neutered.

She is eating fine after the Boar died . Weight stable . Completely content. I don't get her out more than once a day for checks and a combing . I don't want to be her companion but she is lovely.

She should be with other pigs but very set in her ways. I have reached out to some Rescues but they all seem to be full up with taking singles at the moment.

I think she would suffer with companions and couldn't handle it.

Don't know what to do ? I don't want more piggies and start over again . Even thought of asking a Vet for advice ( if you know what I mean ...)

HELP.....
 
I’ve no advice sorry but I hope you can find her a suitable friend.
 
I now have a 4 year old sow on her own.

She has never bonded to any of my other 4 cage mates. I had 3 sows and a lovely friendly boar that started off well in a trial date in the Rescue and ended up badly after 48 hours. He has now sadly passed over the Rainbow bridge .

Her behavior is;
Firstly completely ignores any other pig after she gets her own way and separates.
Gets very aggressive/anxious when confronted with a variety of cage mates. Chases, goes head on for a fight, not distracted by food, definitely not any other bonding I have seen on you tube . Really awful. She is neutered.

She is eating fine after the Boar died . Weight stable . Completely content. I don't get her out more than once a day for checks and a combing . I don't want to be her companion but she is lovely.

She should be with other pigs but very set in her ways. I have reached out to some Rescues but they all seem to be full up with taking singles at the moment.

I think she would suffer with companions and couldn't handle it.

Don't know what to do ? I don't want more piggies and start over again . Even thought of asking a Vet for advice ( if you know what I mean ...)

HELP.....

Hi

You are quite obviously a very caring and loving owner. See how she does on her own. Most piggies are better with company and stimulation through the bars but there is a small group that don't. There are always exeptions to the rule.

You may find this guide here very helpful. It deals with singles in a range of different situations and also contains a chapter about how to spot when your single is becoming depressed or is transferring her social needs onto you: Single Guinea Pigs - Challenges and Responsibilities
 
Thank you.

The problem must be quite common with a single pig left

I'm just concerned with her quality of life . I am fairly certain that she would find a herd very overwhelming but I have seen the 'retired ' ladies in a Rescue together and they seem very calm. I can't get another pig for other reasons. .

I'll read the guides again .

I had 4 at one time but once they start going it gets awkward.

I had single pigs as a child in the 1960's and this seems cruel now !

Meanwhile. She has had her cumber this afternoon, wee'd on my lap and had a nap. Happy as anything....... 🤔
 
Oscar with my rather confused spayed Hafren, after he failed to show the least interest in her!

From your single guide .

Made me laugh out loud . Even looks like my Maria.
 

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Thank you.

The problem must be quite common with a single pig left

I'm just concerned with her quality of life . I am fairly certain that she would find a herd very overwhelming but I have seen the 'retired ' ladies in a Rescue together and they seem very calm. I can't get another pig for other reasons. .

I'll read the guides again .

I had 4 at one time but once they start going it gets awkward.

I had single pigs as a child in the 1960's and this seems cruel now !

Meanwhile. She has had her cumber this afternoon, wee'd on my lap and had a nap. Happy as anything....... 🤔

Our first family piggy in the 70ies was a single as well, and he lived for nearly a decade. Like you, I vowed never to have singles again...

I have had nearly 100 piggies pass through my life and at one point I specialised in adopting difficult to bond, stuck in rescue piggies to find them companionship, which worked with most, even though it took me one and a half years and a very tricky slow bonding with dumped ex-single, totally human orientated Beryn to find her the squishiest and gentlest of friends in Betsan - sadly, she died just before the Pandemic hit fully so I couldn't find her new company and had to make do with neighbourship with one of gentles boars and the closest bonding fail as the only neighbour she would tolerate for the rest of her life.

But in my own experience older sows fall into two categories: the ones who value company over any dominance and the ones who will not accept new mates once their last companion passes and who will also ignore any neighbours except for telling them off if they feeling intruded upon.

If you have access to a rescue you can date her and return the company after her death, then that would certainly be your first option; but they are rather hit and miss - and your girl would need to be able to bond. And unless you can return the companion, you are just continuing the see-saw. :(

I am not saying that your girl may not profit from next door company but there is no one rule for end of the line options; you have to go with what is available locally and what you can provide if an introduction fails.

If you have sow that is already single and you do not want more piggies, then it is worth trying to see whether she can hack it without stimulation first and then explore companionship options later; but you then know better what your last standing piggy actually needs. If you can provide that companionship and increased interaction yourself and your girl remains happy with that, then that is fine. |

Like humans, piggies come in all sorts of personalities and quirks. Life with them is not necessarily about fulfilling the socially accepted brief but exploring their personal needs and concentrating on making their individual life happy within your own constraints. With some piggies you need to think outside the box and not feel bad about yourself for doing so. ;)

I hope that this helps you? Please really take the time to read the singles guide. You should find it very helpful as it tackles many of the issues I have touched up in more depth and detail.
 
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