Board or leave overnight? Funeral to attend

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After some advice please.
we have a family funeral to attend on Friday and need to travel from the midlands to Cumbria. I was hoping a friend could come in and see to them but Nobody is available. We have only had our piggies a short while: it will be 3 weeks for our little one and just over a week with his new companion.
I know it isn’t ideal or advisable to leave them alone over night but I’m worried how they might fare if I have to board them so soon. Boarding would need to be for 2 days or they would be at home from Friday morning to Saturday afternoon and I would leave plenty of hay and a pile of veggies but really not sure how I feel about that. What would you do?
 
After some advice please.
we have a family funeral to attend on Friday and need to travel from the midlands to Cumbria. I was hoping a friend could come in and see to them but Nobody is available. We have only had our piggies a short while: it will be 3 weeks for our little one and just over a week with his new companion.
I know it isn’t ideal or advisable to leave them alone over night but I’m worried how they might fare if I have to board them so soon. Boarding would need to be for 2 days or they would be at home from Friday morning to Saturday afternoon and I would leave plenty of hay and a pile of veggies but really not sure how I feel about that. What would you do?
where abouts in Nottingham are you?

We left ours overnight once and they were fine.... I think overnight might be fine rather than the up heaveful as they are quite newly with you.. I would load up on HAY HAY and more HAY.. 2 fresh water bottles ... and not too many veggies as they might scoff all at once and get tummy ache.. I live in nottingham but obvs don't know you and vice versa and nottingham is a big place..
 
I am so sorry you have a funeral to attend - it's never an easy time.

In these situations everyone has to make the best decision possible that they are comfortable with given the resources they have available to them.
If you piggies seem firmly bonded and are happy together in a decent cage then you need to decide if leaving them at home or taking them to a boarding facility is the better option.
Both have obvious risks and downsides, but you are also talking about a time period of roughly 24 hours.
If you leave them alone there is always the chance that one will get ill and go seriously downhill in the 24 hours you are away.
If you take them to boarding you run the risk of them being highly stressed and developing conditions like mites as a result of the stress.

No one can fully advise you - you just need to make a decision you are happy with.
Guinea pigs can become ill and go downhill quickly, but stress is also something you need to consider.
I have had a guinea pig go from 'fine' to being on deaths door in under 6 hours, but we had actually only popped out for the afternoon so what I learnt from this are that there are never any guarantees.
If this had been one of my long days at the office, the chances are that my guinea pig would not have made it.
But if I didn't go into the office I couldn't afford to look after my guinea pigs.
And I do still occasionaly leave my guinea pigs for 24 hours under certain special circumstances.

Sometimes bad things happen that are truly out of your control - at the end of the day go with the option that you feel most comfortable with and rememebr to be kind to yourself at this difficult time.
 
Thank you for your responses. You are right that there’s never an easy option. Had we had them for longer, I wouldn’t think twice about boarding them, but I am worried what the stress might do.

we will discuss as a family and make a decision.
the other option is to find a pet sitting service who will come in to feed, clean and generally check on them, but that comes with other risks doesn’t it? Decisions, decisions. Thank you again.
 
I'm sorry, funerals are never easy. For what it's worth, I have left my pigs for a similar length of time (one night, coming home the next day) with no ill effects. I left them with plenty of hay, full bowls, a full water bottle (actually I usually give them two in those cases because I worry that they will knock it off the side of the cage when I'm away.) That is pretty much my time limit before I either try to find a sitter or have someone come in and check them, but it has not been a problem.
 
where abouts in Nottingham are you?

We left ours overnight once and they were fine.... I think overnight might be fine rather than the up heaveful as they are quite newly with you.. I would load up on HAY HAY and more HAY.. 2 fresh water bottles ... and not too many veggies as they might scoff all at once and get tummy ache.. I live in nottingham but obvs don't know you and vice versa and nottingham is a big place..
Apologies for not saying sorry for your loss... too busy thinking of advice x
 
After some advice please.
we have a family funeral to attend on Friday and need to travel from the midlands to Cumbria. I was hoping a friend could come in and see to them but Nobody is available. We have only had our piggies a short while: it will be 3 weeks for our little one and just over a week with his new companion.
I know it isn’t ideal or advisable to leave them alone over night but I’m worried how they might fare if I have to board them so soon. Boarding would need to be for 2 days or they would be at home from Friday morning to Saturday afternoon and I would leave plenty of hay and a pile of veggies but really not sure how I feel about that. What would you do?

If you cannot find another solution in a hurry, then you can leave them for that length of time as an emergency one-off as long as none of them is on medication or requires you to keep a closer eye on them.

Life can unfortunately throw you curve balls without warning and no preparation time. You run the same risk of losing a piggy each time you go to bed; when the chips are down, you have to take a leap of faith every time to go out for work or even leave the room shortly - and a piggy can die on you from a stroke or heart attack straight out of the blue while you are in the same room. :(

I prefer to not leave my own healthy piggies for more than 24 hours and try my best to find knowledgeable accommodation for any medical piggies where they are regularly checked on and have quick vet access (which has on occasion saved lives but not always), but on one extreme occasion I have had to leave my own piggies for even longer when my mother-in-law was suddenly put on terminal care with my hub leaving for Wales straight away that same evening while I had travel by train up and down from the Midland to Wales in order to spell my exhausted husband by sitting with my mother-in-law every second night in order to allow him to catch whatever sleep he could get and then return home to look after our small business and my piggies, get some crash-out sleep, prepare the piggies for another long haul and support my very upset husband and my dying mother-in-law back in Wales for another night session.
It was not what I wanted but the best I could to in an absolute emergency. Of course, the piggies were always the first and the last thing I tended to upon my arrival back home and before having to leave again.
Unfortunately none of the local pet care agencies, neighbours or more local friends (and I rang/asked them all, as many as I could get hold hold of!) was available or willing to come and feed and check on the pigs once a day in my absence. I am proud that I did still manage to feed them and look after them once a day despite a daily several hours train journey, the hugely stressful circumstances and the increasing lack of sleep.

I would however draw the line at leaving piggies to fend for themselves without once daily fresh water and hay if at all possible.

We then had to do it all over again for my MIL's funeral as hub didn't feel fit to drive home in the evening, so we would come back only in the morning. But at least my feeding neighbour was back home from looking after her own ill mother by then, so she could pop over in the evening and the morning to give the already chopped up veg waiting for her in the fridge, and refill the bottles and hay trays.
Even if you have a good support network, you can't always count on it working at all times, especially without notice - and emergencies usually don't happen with an advance notice or at convenient times. :(

There are times when you just have to try your utmost and hope for the best when you can't plan and - with conflicting priorities - have to muddle through as best as you can. You can never choose what life is throwing at you. It doesn't make you a bad owner but you learn to put things into more of a perspective and become more understanding towards people who struggle with finding support for themselves and having to somehow square the circle with very limited options.

I hope that you get through it fine. If you are really worried about leaving your piggies for any length of time, I would recommend buying a camera that you can set up. I am doing this whenever I go to Switzerland for a family visit so I can check in daily on my piggies, especially when I have a new carer coming to look after them. But in the end, however long or short you leave your piggies alone, it is always a leap of faith that you have to take. Thankfully, on the whole, piggies are more resilient than we tend to think.

PS: Have you googled for licensed local pet services? With the number of piggies I have, I boarding is unaffordable and on the whole I have found that having somebody coming in is a lot less stressful for the piggies as they are left in their comfortable surroundings.
 
I leave mine overnight, every time I'm on night duty. They get fresh water, pellets and extra hay. They can be on their own for up to 12 hours without interaction from me. ;)
 
i had to leave my piggies overnight when working nightshifts in a hospital.but i always visited the piggies before i started my shift and before i rolled into bed ! we all try to strive to do our best for our piggies.sometimes it is not possible in emergencies or due to finding sitters etc.:hug:
 
Thank you so much everyone. I really appreciate you sharing your experiences and knowledge. Fortunately, one of my daughter’s friends and her mum are going to come round and feed them, check on them etc. so I know they will be in their own environment and hopefully fine when we get home.

it is tough, trying to balance family and pet commitments. Life can be a challenge at times.
 
Stock up on Hay and fresh water.
I have a timed tray that allows you to set a time and lip pops up and i put fresh veg in and piggies don't mind. I'm sure they be fine.
if I lived near by I'd offer to help.
Sorry about the reason you leaving them
David.
 
Thank you so much everyone. I really appreciate you sharing your experiences and knowledge. Fortunately, one of my daughter’s friends and her mum are going to come round and feed them, check on them etc. so I know they will be in their own environment and hopefully fine when we get home.

it is tough, trying to balance family and pet commitments. Life can be a challenge at times.

Oh , that is good news . I'm sure you will feel more at ease knowing someone will be checking on them while you are away .

:hug:My condolences for your loss .. I hope you and your family find comfort and closure by coming together at this difficult time :hug:
 
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