@Rochester Piggy: Not even the best owner can prevent illness or death. You are NOT omniscient and omnipotent God, you know - and by expecting yourself to be god-like with absolute control you are inevitably setting yourself up for a fail. It is as simple as that and has nothing to do with being a good or bad owner, but everything with giving yourself unrealistic and unobtainable expectations.
A good owner should:
- provide their guinea pigs with a decent sized cage/hutch that is protected from the extremes of cold and heat and that is safe from predators and if possible regular run time.
- make sure that their guinea pigs are fed and watered at least once a day, cleaned out once or twice a week and groomed/checked at least once a week.
It does NOT include killing yourself and putting yourself at risk when you are very ill or have an emergency and don't have a partner/family member to take over your duties as long as your piggies are not going hungry or thirsty. It does NOT mean that you cannot leave the house or go on holiday and dare not trust any strangers to look after your piggies well enough.
- see a vet when you notice that something serious is amiss and have it seen and treated within a reasonable period.
It doesn NOT mean rushing a piggy to the out-of-hours vets every time it sneezes or has a single funny poo, only when it is in serious distress, like bad bloat, runny diarrhea, very crackly or heaving breathing, lethargy and totally of its food.
Being a good owner does NOT mean that you hover over your piggies every minute of the day checking for the least sign that something could be amiss and instantly searching the internet for all the horror stories that come with any set of symptoms. If that is the case, it is you that needs to see a doctor, not your piggies!
It is normal to be more jittery after your lost a piggy unexpectedly with similar symptoms, but try to take a deep breath if you catch yourself at that. Coincidences can happen, but they are rare.
It is very important that you keep in mind that you have your pets on loan only so for so much time, but you cannot control for how long they live and what they ultimately die of - the same goes for the humans you love. All you can do is to give them a happy life as much as you can and to enjoy and treasure every day you have with them. What counts is not the quantity, but the quality of life you give them - that is the area you are responsible or and can control. It doesn't mean being perfect all the time, just caring.
That is what being a good owner is about - to go on a journey into the unknown and to enjoy this journey with all the getting lost and found again, the dead ends and the jumps across fences. Being a pet owner is an adventure; if you turn it into a tightly scheduled safety-mad trip, you take all the fun and the good bits out of it. Let each piggy or other pet teach you a bit more about love and joy and who they are. Let
yourself go to be open for the new so you can then carry your gained knowledge onwards to the benefit of future pets. Be aware that you often learn more from your mistakes than from desperately avoiding to make the least mistake. Pet ownership is a life long learning curve, it is not a "know it all and be perfect right from the start", as sadly so many new owners (and parents) seem to think they have to be.
