Dalila's Future

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As many of you are aware, we sadly had to have Daisy helped to her forever sleep yesterday afternoon. This has ultimately left her friend Dalila who we have had for 7 months, alone. Now we are not going to get any more guinea pigs because of several different reasons; financial, continuous bad luck with our animals for the past few years and just simply I cannot go through the heart break. I in no way do not want another, it just gets too much going through illnesses and them ultimately not recovering and passing on at the end of it.

Now I really do not want to re-home Dalila because 1) She is on long term metacam twice daily for her spinal arthritis, 2) I have become very attached to her and 3) She is settled here after taking quite some time to settle in. She seems to be so far coping okay but I am aware that it is early days and I will need to monitor her closely. Of course if I feel that she is not coping okay being alone then I will have to look into other routes.

What I am hoping is that Dalila will adapt to being alone, for the time being. She won't have to be on her own indefinitely as one of my male pairs consists of Gino (an 8 year old male) and Little-pig (A 1 and half year old neutered male). Without being too morbid there will be a time, whenever that may be that Gino will pass on due to old age. This will then leave Little-pig on his own, but with him being neutered It will mean that he can be bonded straight away with Dalila.

Does this seem like a reasonable situation? I want what is best for Dalila, her happiness and well-being is my main priority.

I have spoken to the rescue I got her from and I got this reply:

"I am so sorry to hear your news. I think your plan is a good one, you know the guinea pigs well and I 100% trust your judgement on this. Many older piggies are fine on their own, and as yours are so well looked after she is in no danger of getting cold or damp!"

So I guess we will see how Dalila adapts and go from there. She can smell the other piggies and will be able to see them from a distance when out in the run. I don't put the runs close as it causes the boys to get all excited, they are several feet away. However she will be able to see them.
 
Again let me say how sorry i am about Daisy. It sounds like you have everything under control with Dalila, and being able to see/ smell/ hear piggies may be perfectly fine for her. As you say some piggies are fine, some grieve badly, some are fine being older and just being with humans. I say yes as long as Dali;a is happy enough being on her own then no problem.
If ever she wasn't you could maybe long term foster a piggie to bond with Dalila on the agreement when Dalila passed on the piggie would go back, but one step at a time...my guess is with love and attention Dalila may be just fine on her own.
It sounds like you have thought of everything and i know you will do whats best for your piggies, your a fab parent. ((hugs))
 
Again let me say how sorry i am about Daisy. It sounds like you have everything under control with Dalila, and being able to see/ smell/ hear piggies may be perfectly fine for her. As you say some piggies are fine, some grieve badly, some are fine being older and just being with humans. I say yes as long as Dali;a is happy enough being on her own then no problem.
If ever she wasn't you could maybe long term foster a piggie to bond with Dalila on the agreement when Dalila passed on the piggie would go back, but one step at a time...my guess is with love and attention Dalila may be just fine on her own.
It sounds like you have thought of everything and i know you will do whats best for your piggies, your a fab parent. ((hugs))

Thank you Jennifer for your kind words. Dalila is only about 2 years old, well that is the age the previous owners told the rescue when they handed her over in December. So she should hopefully have a good 3 years left, I am hoping if not more. Providing that her Arthritis is managed effectively and does not deteriorate.

I have thought of this option myself, however I am not sure of any rescues that offer this? again without sounding morbid, I would only need a foster piggy for her company until something happens (god forbid) to Gino. Because Little-pig can join her straight away. But wouldn't this be a bit unfair on potential foster piggy to give them a home, then to send them back? I guess they don't think of things like we do?

Jack
 
I would see how Dalila gets on for now. You have been through an awful lot of worry and heartache, it's not a good time to be making decisions yet.
I am so sorry you lost Daisy, you really couldn't have done more you are an amazing young man.
 
Jack you are going through all the emotions of grieving. But I am pleased you are keeping all your guinea pigs. I agree with @piggieminder. Take your time. What ever decision you make now is not written in stone. Your life experiences will effect your decisions. You have a unique gift in being able to care for sick animals. Unfortunately not all illnesses have a cure. That is the same for all living things. Try and remember the good times you had with your Daisy, eventually that will become easier to do as time passes.
 
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