Thankyou, it means so much to have you all here that understand. I'm not looking forward to facing the crematorium tomorrow, it's always so difficult leaving them.. but once that hurdle is over and they're back home, things start to feel better.
We're thinking when the dust settles, we will look for someone to join Treacle and Ebony, it's becoming more and more obvious Treacle (and Cinnamon) were older than we originally believed.. I would hate for anything to happen to her and for Ebony to be all alone again, plus I think another friend would help bring Treacle out of herself a little more, she has certainly come on in leaps and bounds since meeting Ebony.
But that's a thought for another day, they're both doing as well as can be expected for now, so no need to rush anything.