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I've just had an email from someone enquiring my guinea-pigs I'm looking to find new homes for, and I thought I recognised the name and email address.

I gave them an old hutch a while ago on Freecycle but they told me in that email they're a hobby breeder AND also rescue pigs! mallethead

Now I'm really :x'd off with myself as I wouldn't know if that hutch was going to be used for bringing more into the world or rescuing any :(
 
Oh my god! That is awful. Thank goodness you did not let them go to somebody like that.
 
Oh my god! That is awful. Thank goodness you did not let them go to somebody like that.

I'm thankful she told me because she's only in a local village, could have easily handed them over without a clue!

I also had another enquiry from someone yesterday who's mum breeds but 'loves her piggies very much' even though sells them to 3 random pet stores in the area, which I bet one is the local P@H because its the main one in their town rolleyes Not having some breeder with my pigs, even the boys, I don't want them bred from :(

Can't see how someone can rescue and breed at the same time, just can't get my head round that one! mallethead I got hutches from someone who called herself a rescue AND bred the animals she rescued! Luckily no pigs, but there were rabbits, rats and mice she rescued and bred. Just awful :(
 
It's awful what you have to work against isn't it...!

I have had a few enquiries about sows but I don't have any sows up for re-homing... Most of mine have been adopted or are permanent residents...
Would you concider homing outside your local area if you had rescues do the home check for you...?
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Hi, I have a large out door guinea pig pen and shed in which I could house 3 more young sows. They would be allowed to breed with my boar so would need to be under 9 months old. I will happily take them off your hands and give them a super home.

This is the third email I've had from breeders! Absolutely FUMING right now! grrrr

Must take a few moments away from my laptop before I throw it out the window! grrrr

*wanders off to scream*
 
It's awful what you have to work against isn't it...!

I have had a few enquiries about sows but I don't have any sows up for re-homing... Most of mine have been adopted or are permanent residents...
Would you concider homing outside your local area if you had rescues do the home check for you...?
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I wouldn't mind that, as long as it was ones on here, if they could anyway.

I just don't like the idea of them being IN rescue, when I've read so many heartbreaking stories of mad rushes to rescue some and to be honest they need the space for those pigs. I can keep mine as long as possible but, I must email tillythepig soon as my mum's not going to be able to do the journey to take them to him. Unless of course he sees this thread lol

As long as they're in the right home now, I don't mind. Anything to stop these stupid people saying they'd like to breed from my girls :0 that's upset me so much!
 
I just don't like the idea of them being IN rescue, when I've read so many heartbreaking stories of mad rushes to rescue some and to be honest they need the space for those pigs. I can keep mine as long as possible but, I must email tillythepig soon as my mum's not going to be able to do the journey to take them to him. Unless of course he sees this thread lol

Could you not transport them by train or some other public means?
 
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I wouldn't mind that, as long as it was ones on here, if they could anyway.

I just don't like the idea of them being IN rescue, when I've read so many heartbreaking stories of mad rushes to rescue some and to be honest they need the space for those pigs. I can keep mine as long as possible but, I must email tillythepig soon as my mum's not going to be able to do the journey to take them to him. Unless of course he sees this thread lol

As long as they're in the right home now, I don't mind. Anything to stop these stupid people saying they'd like to breed from my girls :0 that's upset me so much!

I was just thinking about this...
If you had any enquiries about your pigs.... If you just 'mentioned' that you have contacted a rescue or RSPCA etc... And they will be helping you home check and vet potential homes it might out some of the idiots off... :{
Even if you don't want the help for a rescue or RSPCA if you just say you have then it might make your life easier...

I understand your choice not to put them in rescue... It's tough...
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Hi, I have a large out door guinea pig pen and shed in which I could house 3 more young sows. They would be allowed to breed with my boar so would need to be under 9 months old. I will happily take them off your hands and give them a super home.

This is the third email I've had from breeders! Absolutely FUMING right now! grrrr

Must take a few moments away from my laptop before I throw it out the window! grrrr

*wanders off to scream*

I received an email like that to the rescue email address... People are so stupid...!
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Could you not transport them by train or some other public means?

I can't travel by train, even with people. I don't know how I could, unless by car. I mean, my dad drives (he's an AA driving instructor) but he would never take me either :(

I was just thinking about this...
If you had any enquiries about your pigs.... If you just 'mentioned' that you have contacted a rescue or RSPCA etc... And they will be helping you home check and vet potential homes it might out some of the idiots off... :{
Even if you don't want the help for a rescue or RSPCA if you just say you have then it might make your life easier...

I understand your choice not to put them in rescue... It's tough...
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I had done, but I got no replies. I also had mentioned I didn't want breeders contacting me, so now I've removed both details, I'm getting floods of breeders coming to me, and people from like miles and miles away, like 2-3 hours drive or something stupid like that.

I'd feel so guilty to a rescue giving them up and taking up valuable space :(

I received an email like that to the rescue email address... People are so stupid...!
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I know! I was shaking with anger as I edited, and re-edited and re-re-edited my email to the woman, because I wanted to tear the idiot apart with my words! I just said that their attitude towards taking on someone's beloved pets, is why I wouldn't allow my girls to go to her, simple as that!
 
Sorry, unless I've missed something here but why did you still have your piggies up for rehoming when tillythepig was taking them in ? In my opinion, any ads would have been removed ?/
I rescued from a hobby breeder to stop three young Himalayan sows being bred from as their poor mother had died from back to back breeding :o I couldn't let these beautiful girls have the same fate for greedy people so took them off her hands.
Totally confused here :{
Concerns of breeding etc. would be 100% out of the window with them going to rescue and only the best homes guaranteed :) It is impossible to say what would happen if they go to the wrong or inexperienced people - rescues would be my choice god forbid if I had to let my babies go as I'd only have their welfare and future at heart - rescues yes, someone I don't know or have no idea what happens to them is a no no. At least you can contact a rescue to see how they're doing and if adopted by a member on here, could see updates on them :)
 
it would appear that these guinea pigs are no longer coming to us but kind of thought that right from the start again,wont be offering again.
 
Guinea pig slave, I'm fully aware of what homes I need for my pigs so no, inexperienced people will not be taking them on.

tillythepig, among other things, I was asking a lot of my mum to travel through 2 counties just for my pigs.

I shall continue to find them adequate homes myself. Wish I hadn't mentioned anything on here at all but just keeping my options open seeing as this is a guinea-pig forum.
 
Guinea pig slave, I'm fully aware of what homes I need for my pigs so no, inexperienced people will not be taking them on.

tillythepig, among other things, I was asking a lot of my mum to travel through 2 counties just for my pigs.

I shall continue to find them adequate homes myself. Wish I hadn't mentioned anything on here at all but just keeping my options open seeing as this is a guinea-pig forum.

So you will be vetting the homes and be able to offer support for the rest of their lives like rescues ?/ The piggies can go back to the rescue if the new owners have a change of circumstances etc. or even find piggies are not the ideal pets. You're obviously comfortable for them be rehomed yet again to someone who may be even less savoury.
I'm not going to comment any more on this thread - you had places with tillythepig and the 'travelling' is now a problem.
I just hope for the piggies sake that you find the 'right' home because personally think you have thrown the perfect opportunity back at a very experienced and caring rescuers face and pray you don't regret it :{
You'll never know though will you...
 
Guinea pig slave, I'm fully aware of what homes I need for my pigs so no, inexperienced people will not be taking them on.

I haven't commented in your rehoming threads as i know the decision for you to give them up must be a difficult enough - however what Guinea Pig Slave has said is 100% true. I'll be honest some of the stipulations you have placed on them being rehomed and your general attitude (i know you care for them deeply and this passion comes from that love) is probably the main reason why you are attracting the 'wrong' sort of crowd wanting to take on your pigs.

You cannot know the sincerity and honesty unless you are personally carrying out the homechecks - there are some very dishonest people out there who will say/do whatever they need to in order to get what they want. As someone else asked - where are your pigs advertised? this could have a lot to do with the type of people who are contacting you.

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tillythepig, among other things, I was asking a lot of my mum to travel through 2 counties just for my pigs.

The travelling wasn't just for your pigs though was it? it was also for your peace of mind knowing that your girls/boys will not potentially end up as:

- breeding slaves for some dishonest backyard breeder
- a forgotten pet, unloved and not cared for
- live food

Travelling a mere 2 counties means your pigs will be perfectly matched to a 5star home and will have lifetime support from the rescue involved.

Sometimes your love can hinder your true goal - you say you want nothing but the best for them - but is an ad on some random site giving them that?
 
Just out of curiosity, where are you advertising them?

On various advertising websites.

So you will be vetting the homes and be able to offer support for the rest of their lives like rescues ?/ The piggies can go back to the rescue if the new owners have a change of circumstances etc. or even find piggies are not the ideal pets. You're obviously comfortable for them be rehomed yet again to someone who may be even less savoury.
I'm not going to comment any more on this thread - you had places with tillythepig and the 'travelling' is now a problem.
I just hope for the piggies sake that you find the 'right' home because personally think you have thrown the perfect opportunity back at a very experienced and caring rescuers face and pray you don't regret it :{
You'll never know though will you...

Of course! That is what I'll do, I'll let any old bod take my pets without me giving a monkey's about going to visit them first, learning their experience with guinea-pigs, making sure I can be in contact with them for the rest of their lives... rolleyes

Sorry but that's exactly why I have so many, what you could call, 'rules' for anyone wishing to take my pigs on!

I haven't commented in your rehoming threads as i know the decision for you to give them up must be a difficult enough - however what Guinea Pig Slave has said is 100% true. I'll be honest some of the stipulations you have placed on them being rehomed and your general attitude (i know you care for them deeply and this passion comes from that love) is probably the main reason why you are attracting the 'wrong' sort of crowd wanting to take on your pigs.

So by saying I want an experienced owner who doesn't breed, hasn't got very young children and is local to me so I can personally go and meet them first is causing me to attract the kinds of people I don't want taking on my pigs?! How exactly?!

You cannot know the sincerity and honesty unless you are personally carrying out the homechecks - there are some very dishonest people out there who will say/do whatever they need to in order to get what they want. As someone else asked - where are your pigs advertised? this could have a lot to do with the type of people who are contacting you.

See above.

The travelling wasn't just for your pigs though was it? it was also for your peace of mind knowing that your girls/boys will not potentially end up as:

- breeding slaves for some dishonest backyard breeder
- a forgotten pet, unloved and not cared for
- live food

Travelling a mere 2 counties means your pigs will be perfectly matched to a 5star home and will have lifetime support from the rescue involved.

Sometimes your love can hinder your true goal - you say you want nothing but the best for them - but is an ad on some random site giving them that?

If you'd like to know what happened in this conversation with my mum, I'll explain, but firstly, a 'mere 2 counties' is a lot for my mum even if it was something for her personally! She doesn't HAVE to do anything she doesn't want to! I have NO other means of transport apart from my dad, but he would never do the journey either, he wouldn't even take my 2 miles into town, even though he knows I can't do it myself!

I become to panicked asking my mum to do something for me, and she also dreads it herself, because of how dependant I am on her. When she has put her foot down about things, you have NO chance! The fact I had to push it with her meant we had an argument, so I told her to forget it. Next time I saw her, I showed her how far tillythepig was and she just gave in, which I feel absolutely terrible about because I know how hard she works, drives me and my brother places, how much she has to do at home where no one helps, and how very little she sleeps. We were arranging this Wednesday as my brother and her take our nan shopping, plus its the only day my mum has off basically so my brother was going to go with nan and mum was going to take my to tillythepig's. So we were all set about it, I'd even bought extra carriers knowing I'd need them to transport the pigs! It's just that last night we were talking when she brought my brother home from work (and he works over half hours drive away, she does all the driving for him at the weekend too!) and looked completely out of it, like she usually does, and I just asked her in general if everything was still ok for Wednesday, and she'd forgotten about it (which is common now.. she has so much to think about) and said ok, with a huge sigh. I feel so guilty about this because yes of course I want my pigs re-homed, but I'm not about to make my own mother ill over it.

Thanks for all your help and consideration, but my mum comes before my pigs!
 
Of course! That is what I'll do, I'll let any old bod take my pets without me giving a monkey's about going to visit them first, learning their experience with guinea-pigs, making sure I can be in contact with them for the rest of their lives... rolleyes

So you are now willing to travel to do homechecks, but not travel to hand them over to a reputable rescue?

Sorry but that's exactly why I have so many, what you could call, 'rules' for anyone wishing to take my pigs on!

So by saying I want an experienced owner who doesn't breed, hasn't got very young children and is local to me so I can personally go and meet them first is causing me to attract the kinds of people I don't want taking on my pigs?! How exactly?!

What do you class as experienced? Ive only owned guinea pigs for two years - would i be classed as experienced enough for you? Do you think that someone who's had guinea's for 10+yrs can offer more love to a 'first-time' guinea owner?

My daughter was coming up to 8yrs old when we got our first guinea pig (she is now 10) - i recall in one of your rehoming posts you didn't want a family with children under a certain age rehoming them - my 8yr old is as caring,loving,and as grown up as any 16yr old when it comes to our pigs!

I'm not local to you - does that make me not worthy of rehoming your guinea pigs?

I also recall in your rehoming ad that you didn't want anyone that played loud music, computer games etc because of the noise - i do all of that and all 10 of my pigs are the happiest around - would i not be classed as good enough to house your pigs then, because i choose to play my music?

Can you not see that all your rehoming restrictions are doing just that - they ARE restricting you finding the perfect home - if i was put off and immediately hit the back button, i would imagine loads of other genuine people have done the same via these 'advertising websites'!

Thanks for all your help and consideration, but my mum comes before my pigs!

Unfortunately, my pigs are like my babies, i would give them the same courtesy as my own children - i wouldnt just list them on some random site and expect genuine people to respond...

I was trying to be tactful in my reply and offer some support - but since you felt the need to rip it to shreds (and not the first time one of my replies to you has been met with some hostility) - i'll also do as others and leave this thread - although i will offer one peace of advice before i leave

if you must advertise your beloved pigs on dodgy sites and only receive dodgy replies, don't be too surprised - i personally give those sorts of places a wide birth due to the dodgy people who frequent/advertise there!
 
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I recently helped an old gentleman re-home two guinea pigs for company, but a week ago he called to say the nurses had decided they effected his health and they had to be re-homed or else he wouldn't be allowed his life saving operation, it killed me to have to take them away from him, they were all he had, they had a night light next to there cage, they had the radio on when he went out, they ruled the roost and they had cheered him up beyond belief,
I couldn't take them on myself and had to make the decision to take them to a rescue, i found it really hard to do because like you i didn't want to be taking up valuable space when in my mind i could just find them a home, but knowing that in a rescue, was an experienced loving home where they'd get home checks and good advice with a forever place at the rescue if it didn't work out, you really need to way up whats more important rehoming your guinea pigs or trying to meet specific standards of your own, guinea pigs dont ask for much but food and love and so many people can give that.
To make me feel better I'm volunteering at the rescue i sent the pigs too, cleaning out cages etc. you could do something similar, the rescue i contacted where even willing to collect them from me, they know that in alot of cases people cant travel to them, and they can work around you,

Theres alot of people that will help you but only if you let them,
 
the worst part of this is my wife will be passing your doorstep quite literally on her way to see her parents on the 14th/15th,unluckily the places that we held for you have now been taken.Thanks for not bothering to email/phone or pm me first before announcing your intentions.

you will cry wolf once to often one day,
 
It's such a horrible shame....

I have just rehomed a sow from tillythepigs. I live in London, I drove for over an hour to get there. I don't have children, I don't play video games, my piggies are all kept in huge C&C cages, I've recently spent over £700 on one of my guinea pigs because he needed vet treatment (he's fine now - but it cost alot to do the tests to work out what was wrong with him), I don't watch much television (I'm unusual like that, but honestly I don't have the time), my piggies have everything they could ever want - new fleeces, cosys, tunnels, houses, hay racks, dangling hay balls.... an entire chest of different toys, I even have a guinea pig hospital incase one is poorly. My place is piggy proofed for them to go wild and run around till their hearts content, they get the creme de la creme of food, they get fed breakfast and dinner with a variety of veg - I don’t care if I'm throwing food out because it won't keep for the length of time it takes them to eat it - e.g a normal meal consits of, romaine lettuce, red peppers, carrots, cucumber - while alternating the foods they are only meant to have in moderation broccoli, sweetcorn, parsley, spinach, (obviously three piggies can't get through that much food in the space of 3 days - so the remains get thrown if I haven't managed to eat it). I buy the best hay - Timothy Hay by Alfafala King at £8 per kilo, and burgess excel dandelion and marigold, i give them bags of the dried salad stuff (e.g woodland parsley and mint salad) and sprinkle it over the hay. They get a range of dried food, burgess excel normal, oregano and blackcurrent, meusli sprinkled on top - all to keep them engaged and not getting bored with meal times.

I probably spend about £250 per month on keeping my guinea pigs in a life of total luxury with the best food, hay, toys, new cosies. That's not the way people need to keep guinea pigs but that's the way I choose to keep them, they are my babies, I will do anything, spend anything, travel anywhere, meet anybody, speak to everyone, whatever I need to do, I do it......

By not allowing your piggies to go to tillythepigs for proper rehoming- you've prevented them from coming to a home like mine. Tillythepigs rehomed Eve to me for exactly that reason, he knew she was coming to the very best.....that's what rescue's do and tillythepigs with his years and years of experience, is one of the best at doing it. His set up is incredible, his total dedication to the piggies in his care is phenomenal, you only have to see him holding one, they are complete putty in his hands.

It's just such a shame.....
 
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