Goodbye My Baby Graham!

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This is baby Graham. He passed away this morning, he was my boy that I loved I cared for from all my heart. Since November he was having health problems which we thought we managed to pull through but they cought us again. I fought for him for so long and made sure he has all he wants and needs, obviously it wasn't enough. I blame myself for his death but I guess I am not the only one that feels that way after loved animal dies.
All I can do today is cry and cry. I didn't even took him out yet for a burial as I don't want to see him like that. My partner (who loved him dearly) will be doing it for me.
Thank you for all your support here and I'm begging for some kind words today as my heart is braking into pieces when I think my boy is gone

LOVE YOU GRAYHAM FOR EVER AND ALWAYS! I MISS YOU!
 
Oh I really am so sorry you lost your precious boy. There is no way you are to blame. You did all you could for Graham and loved him so much. You will be in shock as it has only just happened. Be kind to yourself. I am glad your partner is with you.
 
Poor you.Hurts like hell.You did everything you could.Whenever I lose an animal I always question wether I did everything I could.BIG HUGS.I lost a texel last year and still miss her loads.She was my baby .I have eight at the minute, got three after she went but she has never been replaced in my heart
 
I'm really sorry for your loss. Definitely don't blame yourself, sometimes no matter what we do the outcome is sad. R.I.P. Graham. xx
 
So sorry for your loss. You loved him dearly and did everything you could for him - no one could have asked for more from you. Grayham was a gorgeous little man and you need to take time to grieve for him. Sending you big hugs.

Run in peace Grayham

x
 
I'm so sorry about Graham and please don't blame yourself, I'm sure you did all you could and we're an amazing owner for him and he would have known that. x
 
Aw bless you, so sorry to hear about your loss. You obviously cared for him very deeply. He will leave a Graham sized hole in your heart but please don't beat yourself up I'm sure you did everything you could for him. Allow yourself time to grieve - he was a family member and it is natural that you would be heartbroken. Big hugs to you. Popcorn free little one x
 
Really sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy, it is natural when we lose a piggy to blame ourselves. You did all you could for him and obviously fought so hard through illness. Sometimes all we do is not enough and it is just their time. I am so sorry. Huge hugs

RIP Graham
x x
 
I'm really sorry to hear about the loss of your little Graham. He was so beautiful. Hopefully my Caps is keeping him company x:hug:
 
I am so sorry to hear about your little one, it certainly sounds like you did everything you could for him. RIP little one, I hope he's met lots of other rainbow pigs and is running free up above x
 
I'm so sad to read this, I hope you can let go of blaming yourself as it sounds like you did everything possible for him. It's obvious you loved him very much and I'm sure he felt that x
 
HUGS! Don't blame yourself; you did all you could and you didn't fail Graham at all! Without your loving and determined care he wouldn't have lived for as long as he did; you have bought him that extra time. We are not God and we can do only so much for what is a small and not very sturdy body.

Feelings of guilt are very natural for the initial stage of the grieving process; they are directly connected to your strong sense of caring and responsibility - the stronger you care, the worse the feelings of guilt usually are until you learn to recognise them for what they are. We all have them in some form or other!

Grieve for Graham; he was very special for you and will always have a place in your heart. Make sure that you create some kind of memorial, either a framed picture, an album, plant a shrub or pot rose or sponsor a rescue piggy with chronic health problems in his name...

RIP Graham - what a lovely chocolate boy he was!
 
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