Goodbye Tegan - always 'my baby'!

Wiebke

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This is the tribute I have dreaded most – Tegan Syndod ‘Little Beautiful Surprise’, my little Tribe-born baby, has followed her aunt Ffwlbri to the Rainbow Bridge two weeks later and only a month after her group mate Heulwen.
When I went to refill the hay trays on Wednesday, I found her collapsed on her side in her cave from either a massive stroke or heart attack; she passed away not very long after in my arms.

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Tegan has beaten Ffwlbri by just a week to be the piggy that has been with me for longest. She was only two months from her own 8th birthday.

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Tegan’s surprise birth in October 2011 did cause quite a stir, to put it mildly! Dad dad turned out to be a supposedly safe over 5 weeks’ post-op boar (not one of the Tribe boars). Not many piggies can say that they have influenced welfare policy on a national level, but Tegan’s birth has contributed to cement the 6 weeks’ limit in the good standard UK rescue world, including the RSCPA, at a time when it was still somewhat under discussion.
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My avatar picture with Nerys carrying baby Tegan on her back for just a few seconds is one of my most favourite all time shots; but it also serves as a good back-up when pointing out the 6 weeks safety wait!

Not yet sexed baby Syndod 'Surprise' with her mother Tesni 'Sun-warmed' and her aunt Ffwlbri 'Moonlight'
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My little baby had more than a passing resemblance to my first own piggy Strolch 30 years earlier while I had adopted her stuck-in-rescue mother for her resemblance to our first family piggy.
Tegan Syndod is named after Telyn (baby name Tegan), who I’d lost very young to sudden heart failure not long ago.
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As engaging babies go, Tegan was definitely right up there! Her peru hair started growing out very quickly and gave her a very funky look before it became too long and heavy.
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Tegan joined the big Tribe group with her mother Tesni once she was weaned and grew into a very confident, inquisitive and naughty teenager. Tegan favoured her aunt Ffwlbri not just in looks but also in outlook; so it was not a surprise that she attached herself during her dominant and socially high-ranked auntie as her primary teacher during her formative weeks. The ‘Peru Mafia’ became a close-knit, if rather rough Tribe subgroup.

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Her many teenage capers can be found in Guinea Pig Magazine issue 14, which really captures her full-on complex personality!

Like jumping over (and toppling) poor Hafren!
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Begging with her childhood playmate and competitor Hedydd
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In the coming years Tegan stayed with her aunt and mother through Ffwlbri’s Tribe reign while it was at its largest and the subsequent group split at the start of 2014.

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But while Ffwlbri was openly challenging, Tegan was as clever, but sly, often taking advantage of her privileged status and at times turning into a rather sneaky bully.
This came to roost home when Ffwlbri stepped back down from her leadership role in 2016 and Tanni and Tegan came to blows over her succession. As a result the group fell apart. Unfortunately for Tegan neither her aunt (who paired up with Tanni) nor her mother (who’d long declared herself Hywel’s favourite wife) wanted their ambitious offspring/student on their own doorstep, thank you very much!

Tesni Hywel Tanni Ffwlbri and Tegan
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I took Tegan rescue dating at the RSPCA Walsall and came back with young neutered Gethin, who Tegan comprehensively dumped just about a couple of hours after her return home
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So an emergency shuffle was needed! Tegan went back with old Tribe patriarch Hywel, who was not exactly overjoyed to see her but didn’t at least protest while her then 5 years old mother Tesni took one look at 5 months old Gethin and fell in love – and never spared poor old Hywel another look…
Sadly Hywel passed away later that year just short of his 7th birthday; but no other Tribe wanted sneaky trouble maker Tegan back in their group - and as a consequence, she wanted nothing to do with ‘Them Lot’, either; even though she was clearly not happy at all!

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The arrival of 7 years old tiny Calli thankfully changed that although it took several months and a few tentative bonding attempts before the two were ready to move in with each other. But the deepening friendship between the two capricious divas was a turning point for Tegan. They became very attached to each other as time went on.
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When Calli passed away last summer after her 9th birthday, a badly grieving Tegan was finally willing to put companionship above attitude and got together with equally newly bereaved old Tribe mate Hafren (who was just 5 weeks older than Tegan).

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In January this year I created a old ladies commune with Tribe childhood mates Tegan, Hafren (whose body had started to give up on her), Heulwen and Hedydd to help bolster the inevitable series of losses for each of them; this time they were too old for all the dominance shenanigans. Hafren died not long after, Heulwen and Ffwlbri passed away in quick succession over the last month.

Tegan with her childhood playmates, sisters Heulwen and Hedydd and their 5 years old black husboar Pioden
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My last picture of Tegan and Hedydd, taken the day before Tegan's sudden death
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Only Tegan’s specially adopted baby playmate Hedydd is still left from my large 2011 class!

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My '7 years club' taken on Tegan's 7th birthday in 2018:
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While I feel blessed to have had my little baby and her friends for so long and I do not experience the usual feelings of guilt or failure at the onset of the grieving process, the sheer pain of the loss of so many dear faces after all these years is no less, and if possible even larger because Tegan has been an integral part of my daily life, the cause of many a giggle over her capers and the subject of many a sleepless night for so long…
She and her friends have been my big source of comfort and cheer through some rather tough years when I had to put my own life on hold to look after other family members.

As far as little suprises go, Tegan Syndod has definitely arrived with a bang and come with a huge load of 'and then some'!

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Tegan’s always been and will always be ‘my baby’, Age hasn’t changed that, as any mother knows!

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Sending you hugs on the loss of your very special baby. It's so hard when we lose them, no matter how old they are or the nature of their passing. Your piggies have an absolutely amazing life with you and I hope you can take some comfort from that as you grieve for all your recent very sad losses.
Run free Tegan, a legend in your own time. Xx
 
So very sorry to hear this so soon after losing Ffwlbri.
What a time of it you’re having.
Be gentle with yourself and know that you are held in my heart.

Tegan was such a lovely and special lady - that’s a lovely tribute to her
 
I’m so sorry, she lived a long life and it was time
She is watching over your tribe from the rainbow bridge, and will always love you x
She has gone to meet Ffwlbri and be with her once again
 
So very sorry for the loss of another of your beloved piggies. It must be heartbreaking.
What a beautiful tribute to your gorgeous girl.
Popcorn free across the rainbow bridge little one. 💕🌈🐾
 
Oh Wiebke....I'm so sorry, you've lost so many recently :hug:I suspect Tegan's already up to her usual antics at the Bridge, with Ffwlbri and even Calli.

I took Tegan dating at the RSPCA Walsall and came back with Gethin, who Tegan comprehensively dumped just about a couple of hours after her arrival. So an emergency shuffle was needed.

Those sort of memories are the best...where you can laugh at them now even if they're never quite as funny at the time. "To live in hearts we leave behind, is not to die."
 
So sorry you have lost your special girl, sending you hugs at this very sad time x Such beautiful pigtures, what a tribute to her.
Sleep tight Tegan x 🌈
 
So sorry you have lost another of your very special piggies.
Another beautiful tribute.
Popcorn free little Tegan with your family and many piggy friends.
Sending you massive hugs Wiebke.xx
 
So sorry for your loss of Tegan, that's a lovely tribute, what a beautiful girl she was and what a long and happy life she had with you x
 
I'm so sorry for your loss Wiebke, Tegan is playing on the rainbow bridge, Or should I say causing trouble.
Sleep tight little Tegan
 
We've known Tegan all her life. From the day she was born she was destined to be a minx. Her wild hair during her teens really set the mould for her rebellious future.
Goodnight Little Miss.
 
I am so sorry for your loss of beautiful Tegan,
What a lovely tribute to your gorgeous girl.
Rest in peace little one 🌈
 
I'm so sorry for your losses, your tribute to Tegan is beautiful. May the memories of your precious babies give you strength to get through such difficult times. Best wishes to you and your family 🌈🌠
 
I’m so very sorry to hear the sad news about Tegan. You’ve been through such a lot with your recent piggy losses. 😢 Obviously this “miracle” baby was meant to be and how blessed she was to have such a great home with you. Also amazing that she helped change post-neutering policy!
Run free with your friends Tegan. 🌈 x
 
You write such lovely tributes, they make me cry just reading them so I don't know how you have managed loosing such big personalities in such a short time. Big hugs to you and the girls 😘
 
You write such lovely tributes, they make me cry just reading them so I don't know how you have managed loosing such big personalities in such a short time. Big hugs to you and the girls 😘

It's never easy! I have known for a long time that it would be coming sooner or later; and as my oldies have all become gradually frailer and frailer, I have tried my best to cherish ever single day I woke up to them still being with me.

You can do some of your grieving process during that time, but the actual pain of the loss is never any less; it is the loss of a unique relationship. Writing my tributes is one of my coping mechanisms, calling to mind of what we shared and why I am hurting so much. The rest is a matter of time; you cannot hurry it on and it has to run its due course.

It is inevitable that some piggies are more special than others, even though I love all of them and try my best to give them as happy a piggy life as I can.
 
I remember the day she arrived, she was aways one of my forum favourites and the stories of her antics never failed to make me smile. Such a stunning girl with her crazy hair! A truly special ‘baby’ I am so very sorry buddy, she was so cherished and had the perfect life. Massive hugs to you x

Sleep well adorable little girl

RIP Tegan
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It's never easy! I have known for a long time that it would be coming sooner or later; and as my oldies have all become gradually frailer and frailer, I have tried my best to cherish ever single day I woke up to them still being with me.

You can do some of your grieving process during that time, but the actual pain of the loss is never any less; it is the loss of a unique relationship. Writing my tributes is one of my coping mechanisms, calling to mind of what we shared and why I am hurting so much. The rest is a matter of time; you cannot hurry it on and it has to run its due course.

It is inevitable that some piggies are more special than others, even though I love all of them and try my best to give them as happy a piggy life as I can.
It's so sad that in years they have such short lives it's almost as if the countdown starts the minute we bring them home to make sure they have the best life possible.
 
So sorry for your loss. You give all your piggies the best lives possible.
 
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