I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I hand feed them but once they grab the food they scurry away. They love it when I come near, they squeak and do popcorns but I can't seem to even pet them. I want to carry them but they run off. I have watched every video and looked up every article but a majority just say patience and hand feeding. I've been doing that but nothings changed, what am I doing wrong?