Having a bad day today....

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Its Friday, I'm stressed out and making it all 10 times worse is its the last day I have my babies, I'm taking them to their new home tomorrow and all I want to do is go home but instead I'm stuck at work.

Today really is not a good day, god knows what I'm going to be like later when I get home, I just want to cry 8...
 
Oh lovey! i'm sure it will soon be time to go home and you can cuddle them all night long.

Big big hugs x
 
HUGS!

Make sure that you get some pictures tonight.
 
is anybody ever ready to lose their babies? At least you arent just dumping them, just enjoy the time you have left with them...you will always have your memories x
 
is anybody ever ready to lose their babies? At least you arent just dumping them, just enjoy the time you have left with them...you will always have your memories x

Thank you, I know, Ive just never had to 'give pets up' before so I'm finding it hard, I know they are going to the best place so that makes me happy, I just feel I'm letting them down
 
Your not letting them down at all. Huge hugs for you x x
 
Aw honey, you aren't letting them down, you are doing what is best for them, they are going to a lovely new home where they are going to be loved so much and spoilt wrotten, Lacey will soon have Jo wrapped around her little paw.

You would be letting them down if you sold them to any old person on gumtree or just left them behind, or worse took them to p@h adoption.

x
 
Hugs to you, it must be so hard but you're doing it for them and you know they will have a great life :)
 
Huge hugs from me and the boys.

You are absolutely doing the right thing for them and although it's hard and feels horrible just now you never know when in the future you might be in the position to help a pair of piggies start a new life again.

Treasure the moments you have and remember them everytime things feel rotten. x
 
Hi all, just a quick update really on how it all went.

We left London at 7.30am and got to Cornwall at 12 Noon, we were greeted with open arms and of course me sobbing. Lacey and Darcy did really well in the car, just hid under the fleece and slept, we stopped a few times on the way to check them and feed them but I think they were quite content.

I gave my babies one final cuddle before handing them over to Jo and put them in their new home, which they absolutly loved, probably because it was full of fresh hay and boy did they munch.

We had a coffee and a chat and lots more tears as I watched them make themselves right at home before we had to leave as we were driving back to London in the same day.

Needless to say my OH drove back as I was just sobbing having to leave them behind.

The couple that took them are so dedicated to their animals and I just felt so happy knowing my babies would be so spoilt and loved and fussed over all day long. They have invited us back at anytime to see them and already given me updates on email so I feel a lot happier about my decision now.

I did go home Sat night and as soon as I opened the door I called up at them, that was hard so I'm staying at my OH's this week until I can get used to the fact that they have actually gone.

Thank you again for your kind words and support throughout all of this. xx
 
Aw love, I feel for you :(
Your piggies sound as though they have a wonderful future ahead and you found the best people possible to lavish your babies xx>>>
I cried reading this thread as I know how much you love them and they loved you as much :)
Sending lots of hugs :laluot_29:
 
Aw love, I feel for you :(
Your piggies sound as though they have a wonderful future ahead and you found the best people possible to lavish your babies xx>>>
I cried reading this thread as I know how much you love them and they loved you as much :)
Sending lots of hugs :laluot_29:

Thank you x
 
You nearly had me in tears too but I was at work so had to hold back, it sounds like you've found a great home for them and it's good that you can get updates (not that it makes it any easier) hugs x
 
You nearly had me in tears too but I was at work so had to hold back, it sounds like you've found a great home for them and it's good that you can get updates (not that it makes it any easier) hugs x

Thank you, I went home last night for the first time since Saturday as Ive been staying with my OH, again I walked in and called for them, I had to wash all their fleeces last night and that was hard as I'm sending them all to Jo today.

Ive packed a bag and going to Russ's tonight, just too lonely at home on my own 8...
 
I am so sorry for you, it must be really awful. Washing the fleece's must have been very hard. It's a good idea going to your OH's for a while, get out of your house were you were in a routine..

You have done everything right for your little ones and have found them a fantastic home. big hugs to you x
 
I am so sorry for you, it must be really awful. Washing the fleece's must have been very hard. It's a good idea going to your OH's for a while, get out of your house were you were in a routine..

You have done everything right for your little ones and have found them a fantastic home. big hugs to you x

Thank you, its very weird with them not being there but I know they are happy and like you say its routine so need to get used to it.

We are going to France in a couple of weeks for a visit and sort stuff out so I have that to concentrate on and arrange so should keep me busy
 
It will take time to get over, It is grief you are going through, just remember how well you've looked after them. We're all here for you. x
 
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