I Feel So Cruel.

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Littlepig&co

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So my poor Little-pig has been alone since November the 14th when his second friend (in just 6 weeks) passed away (Dalila). Little-pig has always had company, he spent 6 days alone when Gino passed away, but he had Dalila in the same shed so he wasn't too bad. He was the happiest piggy ever when he got paired with Dalila. It was very short lived as Dalila has lots of health issues and passed away way before her time.

It was decided that I wasn't allowed any more guinea pigs as unfortunately 2015 was a very bad year with our animals, vet bills and death. Daisy cost us £1500 from February to July. I know her dental disease was severe and advanced but i was expecting more than 5 months more with her. She was the most precious guinea pig.

Then Dalila was diagnosed with arthritis then after Daisy died a month later she had gas compressing on her stomach and small intestine, she had emergency surgery to be decompressed. She then developed pneumonia, she only lived 2 months after that before her gut twisted one night and being too far gone when I went out in the morning. I only had her 11 months, she was such a gentle girl, we had really developed a bond considering how nervous she was when she first came. I always knew she wouldn't have a long life but i did not expect it to be so short, she was only around 3 years old. In that short space of time she cost £800.

In September, Gino my very confident funny boy developed sudden heart problems at the age of 8. He was breathing shallow, every breath he took his whole body moved. I felt given his age that it would be best to have him helped along.

I have not properly grieved for Gino and Dalila, I sort of deny that it has happened. I'm not sure why as they will never come back, I lost 3 of my very characteristic piggies.

So the only way I am allowed to get Little-pig a new friend is if i can have one/two on foster from a rescue and then if any really serious health issues arise send them back, which I am hoping won't happen! My parents just want that safety blanket which i understand given the money paid out last year. I really can't challenge that, it was not my fault and none were insured.

I spoke to Cottontails Rescue back in November and they are happy for me to have one/two females on foster when some come in. However it has been three months and no females have gone into rescue. Nor young males that could be bonded to him. It is so frustrating as other rescues are full with young piggies, females, the whole lot.

i feel so guilty depriving my guinea pig of it's social needs. He is a changed piggy now, he has lost lots of muscle to him, weighs 200g less than he did before being alone. He is very shy and you can tell he is not happy. He was never an overly confident guinea pig but he was a lot more happy with life. I would seriously regret rehoming him, but what choices do i have now?

It has been 3 months.
 
Ahh, honey, don't be so hard on yourself. You are doing everything you can to make him happy - you cant just conjure up a friend for him. It is possible to bring him into the house so that even if he doesn't have any other company he can have interaction with hoomans instead? Are there any other rescues near you?

You had a really hard year with them last year and are obviously a fabulous piggy owner with how much care and attention you have given them so its no wonder you are feeling so sensitive to his needs now. I can also understand your parents point of view because that is an almighty vet bill that was racked up in a short space of time - no wonder they are worried about it happening again.

Keep contacting the rescue so they don't forget about you - after all, he who shouts loudest gets what he wants first! (at least it works for my boys at feeding time :D)
 
Ahh, honey, don't be so hard on yourself. You are doing everything you can to make him happy - you cant just conjure up a friend for him. It is possible to bring him into the house so that even if he doesn't have any other company he can have interaction with hoomans instead? Are there any other rescues near you?

You had a really hard year with them last year and are obviously a fabulous piggy owner with how much care and attention you have given them so its no wonder you are feeling so sensitive to his needs now. I can also understand your parents point of view because that is an almighty vet bill that was racked up in a short space of time - no wonder they are worried about it happening again.

Keep contacting the rescue so they don't forget about you - after all, he who shouts loudest gets what he wants first! (at least it works for my boys at feeding time :D)
Unfortunately we have no space inside the house for a guinea pig cage, he is in an insulated shed so is warm. If it got very cold we would be able to make room at a push to bring him in but it would not be ideal. Would also mean he would have to be in until may time.

He also isn't that fond of human interaction, It is not like i can pick him up and cuddle him as that makes him worse. He just desperately needs another guinea pig to keep him company. I would cuddle him every day if I knew it would help him. However he is really unhappy about it all. He was fine being cuddled when he was bonded but since being alone he is nervy of everything.

It is really frustrating for sure, i am put off owning guinea pigs again after loosing 1/2 of my piggies last year. However I just want one to see my boy happy again. He has lost body condition and is just not himself, he is not ill in any way at all. He has just lost muscle as he does not exercise like he used to.
 
Unfortunately we have no space inside the house for a guinea pig cage, he is in an insulated shed so is warm. If it got very cold we would be able to make room at a push to bring him in but it would not be ideal. Would also mean he would have to be in until may time.

He also isn't that fond of human interaction, It is not like i can pick him up and cuddle him as that makes him worse. He just desperately needs another guinea pig to keep him company. I would cuddle him every day if I knew it would help him. However he is really unhappy about it all. He was fine being cuddled when he was bonded but since being alone he is nervy of everything.

It is really frustrating for sure, i am put off owning guinea pigs again after loosing 1/2 of my piggies last year. However I just want one to see my boy happy again. He has lost body condition and is just not himself, he is not ill in any way at all. He has just lost muscle as he does not exercise like he used to.
Another option (and I'm not recommending this as I do think it is quite extreme) but it would be to find Little-Pig a new home with someone else who has a single piggy. Personally, I think it would break your heart to do that as you clearly love him lots but I think it is the only other option other than waiting for a suitable piggy to come into rescue. Really all you can do is cross your fingers and hope a friend turns up soon x
 
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