I'm sorry Desi

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I lost my boy Desi on Saturday. He had been ill on and off with a UTI and teeth problems and was in and out the vets constantly. Everytime I brought him to the vets he would perk up and be sent home with meds, then on saturday morning he looked terrible, all hunched up in a corner, his little eyes watering. He looked miserable, I rushed him to the vets again but he was barely moving and was going cold and so I had to make the decision.

I can't believe he's not here anymore and I can't help but feel ashamed that I couldnt protect him. I loved that little pig with all my heart and I just hope he's at peace now. The only comfort I got just before he was taken to be put to sleep was Desi and his cagemate Tribble laying their little heads on eachother as if to say goodbye.

I'm sorry if this post is a mess, I just had to get my thoughts out as i'm sure most of you will relate to the lack of understanding people have when it comes to the grief of losing a guinea pig.

Sweet dreams desi boy, I love you and miss you more than I can describe
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You did the best you could for Desi and he is now out of pain. It is the last act of love we can give our pets. He went off to the Rainbow Bridge knowing he was loved having said goodbye to his best mate. He is now young again in the prime of his life and running zoomies and popcorning.
 
I am so sorry for your loss.
You gave Desi the best possible life and that last gift of letting him go which is the hardest decision we make.
It will take time to grieve so be patient and gentle with yourself.
 
loverdoll56 said:
I lost my boy Desi on Saturday. He had been ill on and off with a UTI and teeth problems and was in and out the vets constantly. Everytime I brought him to the vets he would perk up and be sent home with meds, then on saturday morning he looked terrible, all hunched up in a corner, his little eyes watering. He looked miserable, I rushed him to the vets again but he was barely moving and was going cold and so I had to make the decision.

I can't believe he's not here anymore and I can't help but feel ashamed that I couldnt protect him. I loved that little pig with all my heart and I just hope he's at peace now. The only comfort I got just before he was taken to be put to sleep was Desi and his cagemate Tribble laying their little heads on eachother as if to say goodbye.

I'm sorry if this post is a mess, I just had to get my thoughts out as i'm sure most of you will relate to the lack of understanding people have when it comes to the grief of losing a guinea pig.

Sweet dreams desi boy, I love you and miss you more than I can describe
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HUGS!

Desi was a gorgeous boy! You have made absolutely the right decision. Please do not feel guilty; you have done for him what you could. When the chips are down, guinea pigs are small and rather frail animals. Feelings of failure and guilt are very normal for any loving and responsible pet owner at the onset of the grieving process. We all have them to some degree or other.

He will always have his special space in your heart and your memories. It can help to write a diary about your feelings and all your memories, small and large ones or compile a photo album.
If you continue to struggle, the free Blue Cross pet bereavement line is a place where those forum members that have used it have always come back feeling better; talking with somebody who understands is the best cure!
SupportLine - Problems: Pet Bereavement: Advice, support and information

PS: I have had to make the same decision for my old lady Iola on Monday; old age, frailness and the heat had become too much for her and my vet couldn't give her anything that would have significantly improved her quality or her length of life. :(
 
loverdoll56 said:
I lost my boy Desi on Saturday. He had been ill on and off with a UTI and teeth problems and was in and out the vets constantly. Everytime I brought him to the vets he would perk up and be sent home with meds, then on saturday morning he looked terrible, all hunched up in a corner, his little eyes watering. He looked miserable, I rushed him to the vets again but he was barely moving and was going cold and so I had to make the decision.

I can't believe he's not here anymore and I can't help but feel ashamed that I couldnt protect him. I loved that little pig with all my heart and I just hope he's at peace now. The only comfort I got just before he was taken to be put to sleep was Desi and his cagemate Tribble laying their little heads on eachother as if to say goodbye.

I'm sorry if this post is a mess, I just had to get my thoughts out as i'm sure most of you will relate to the lack of understanding people have when it comes to the grief of losing a guinea pig.

Sweet dreams desi boy, I love you and miss you more than I can describe
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Firstly, I am very sorry to hear this news and send my deepest condolences. Desi was a stunning boy who was clearly loved by you and his friend.

It's always hard losing a pet- especially when you have to decide that it is the end. I've been in the situation myself numerous times and it never does get any easier. And I know that every time you get the voice asking "what if?". You just have to remember that you did the right thing by Desi and that in that moment there was no other way and that was the only decision.

I know that no number of comments will ease your grief, but try and take comfort in the fact that Desi is at peace now and will forever live on in your heart and the memories you made together.

Rest in peace little Desi. Xx
 
I am so sorry, you couldn't have done any more so please don't feel guilty or feel you could have done more.
 
Wiebke said:
HUGS!

Desi was a gorgeous boy! You have made absolutely the right decision. Please do not feel guilty; you have done for him what you could. When the chips are down, guinea pigs are small and rather frail animals. Feelings of failure and guilt are very normal for any loving and responsible pet owner at the onset of the grieving process. We all have them to some degree or other.

He will always have his special space in your heart and your memories. It can help to write a diary about your feelings and all your memories, small and large ones or compile a photo album.
If you continue to struggle, the free Blue Cross pet bereavement line is a place where those forum members that have used it have always come back feeling better; talking with somebody who understands is the best cure!
SupportLine - Problems: Pet Bereavement: Advice, support and information

PS: I have had to make the same decision for my old lady Iola on Monday; old age, frailness and the heat had become too much for her and my vet couldn't give her anything that would have significantly improved her quality or her length of life. :(
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Thank you for your kind words. I'm so sorry about the loss of your old girl. the pain of losing them seems worth it though when you think of how happy they made things when they were around
 
Hello.
What a beautiful tribute to your piggie.
You made the lasting decision to let go and yes it's not easy but no one on here would question what you did.
Keep with us and trust me you have wonderful piggie slaves who will be happy to hear about your piggie life.
Rip Desi.
 
So sorry for your loss.
You made the right decision for all the right reasons. Please don't feel bad. It's never easy to let a loved one go.
I understand completely how you feel, as do many on the forum.
Desi looked gorgeous and a lot like my rainbow bridge piggy Basil.
Sleep tight little Desi.xx
 
I am so sorry for the loss of your stunning little piggy, you made the right choice PTS is often the last act of love we can make for our little ones, you did all you could. Massive hugs

Sleep well little one

RIP Desi
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I’m so sorry that you had to take this decision for your piggy. It shows just how much you loved him. Sometimes you have to love them enough to let them go. Popcorn free x
 
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