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.. to feel 'happy' (not very smiley happy) that a piggy went in their own way?

I mean this morning when Peanuts went, it was her choice to give up and go peacefully....... Paula said that as she was really bad and meds weren't really helping and so pts was the only fairest option for her :(

So glad that she took this decision herself.. Not that it doesn't hurt. It does so bad, my chest hurts and I keep having asthma attacks.

She's at peace now. Pain free and not struggling. Besides Jin and Tipsy, the water feature and some beautiful flowers. Sun is shining down on the spot :)

Paula was teary too when we spoke :'( A vet that truly cares.
 
Off course not as you know that Peanut is at peace and not suffering anymore, and that her spirit is now free from her body - well that's how I feel about these things.
 
No hunny its not bad,I felt exactly the same way about Paigey wishing she would go peacefully in her sleep or something instead of hanging on and getting worse,when its their time to go they know it..its just us that suffers seeing them like that,and it hurts like hell...it makes it worse when we've fed and nursed them hoping theyll pull thru,it makes us closer in a way to them..but its so much sadder to let them go


now I'm crying
 
oh Kelly of course its not bad!

We all know how much you love your piggies (And for new people on here she loves them a LOT!!)

You didnt want her to be in pain and its horrible watching any animal go through that... you did the right thing...

She had a fantastic little life with you and now she's at peace running round with all the other piggies munching yummy grass

You did the right thing xxxxx

BIG BIG hugs & love xxxxxxxxx

Trace x
 
Thanks all. I had to get that off my chest. Actually talking (speaking) sends me in tears and nothing gets out
 
Am with you 1000% love, i too hope that the 'end' will be a piggie just going to sleep and not having to go thru anymore pain :'(
Peanuts was a very brave little girl, she must've been having lovely piggie dreams and just drifted off to a deep slumber and drifted then to the bridge :'(
 
ah hun she knew her time was up and made that difficult decision you had to make, go away ,she was in control and although we love them so much its deeper love to know they need to go and accept it, its true when they are ill and you know deep down how it will end you do start thinking please go to sleep forever dont make me choose , :'( :'( at times i wish I could have helped them go by me saying words like you can go i dont mind or go to sleep, it isn't enough most times but occasionally that has happened when I say it to them, they then drift off but then i think oh no they might think i didn't want them we cannot win, its love and understanding of them and for them peanut is happily popcorning now
 
Michellemuffin♥ said:
at times i wish I could have helped them go by me saying words like you can go i dont mind or go to sleep, it isn't enough most times but occasionally that has happened when I say it to them,
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i know just what you mean :'( :'(
 
Aww hun its not bad to feel happy... it shows how much you love her and how much you care about her... she is free from pain and I would be happy about that too :) Its really sad losing a loved pet but we should all be happy she isnt sick anymore... she will never feel pain again :)

RIP beautiful peanuts... :smitten:
 
baby-wilson said:
Aww hun its not bad to feel happy... it shows how much you love her and how much you care about her... she is free from pain and I would be happy about that too :) Its really sad losing a loved pet but we should all be happy she isnt sick anymore... she will never feel pain again :)

RIP beautiful peanuts... :smitten:
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things like that start me off crying again,I dunno why :(
 
Am so sorry Kelly. Peanuts was ready to go and just fell asleep. That's a nice way to go. :'(
 
I really understand what you mean Kelly!

When Mr Tiggy went to the Bridge he just fell asleep. It is comforting for them to go that way! Its horrible having to make the decision to let them go and I have also experienced some really horrible ends when they have started to fit just before going! :'( :'( :'(

Its always sad to say goodbye but it is nice when they go in such a peaceful way! :)
 
When they fall asleep thats the best way,I dont like watching them go,it hurts that you cant do anything to stop it :'( :'( :'( and if theyre in pain etc,having them PTS hurts too,I left Paigey in the vets arms.I couldnt stand and watch her ..ive been there done that with the dog and it was awful when they said " look at mummy " to him..that broke my heart :'( :'( but when i left the room and looked back at Paige..aww hell she watched me go.. :'( :'(
 
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When they fall asleep thats the best way,I dont like watching them go,it hurts that you cant do anything to stop it :'( :'( :'( and if theyre in pain etc,having them PTS hurts too,I left Paigey in the vets arms.I couldnt stand and watch her ..ive been there done that with the dog and it was awful when they said " look at mummy " to him..that broke my heart :'( :'( but when i left the room and looked back at Paige..aww hell she watched me go.. :'( :'(
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Oh Shaz that made me :'( :'( :'(
Hugs to you too
 
Shaz you got me in tears hun :'( Paige knew it was the best for her - she didnt want to suffer no more my darling
 
kellyandpiggies♥ said:
don't be - been a bit teary this evening
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Oh Kelly I know exactly how you feel. Feel a bit emotional myself this evening.

Its so hard when we loose them, and I dont think it ever gets any easier. I dont think its something we ever get used to. We love them so much, and when they go it leaves such a big hole in our hearts. :'(

I always think its a bit easier when they slip away themselves than that dreaded trip to the vets, when you at least have some comfort in that they have passed peacefully and with their friends.

Try to take some comfort in that Peanuts did that.

Big hugs to you as know how awful loss feels.

Deb x
 
They sure do :)

Thank you, I guess it was the support I needed in order to make sure that I was 'right' and ok to think this :)

She's an angel now playing at rainbow bridge, pain and trouble free :)
 
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