Keep Oreo going or let him go?

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Summary: Our vet has said the time for euthanasia is drawing near, and we're trying to decide how long to keep Oreo going, as he seems to be happy at the moment.

The story (I'll try to keep it short, but it's a long one...)

Oreo is an unneutered male, and we think he's around 6, maybe a bit older. Several weeks back he stopped eating and was lethargic. Turns out his molars were growing together keeping him from eating. He'd dropped from 1300+g (which our vet said was a bit on the heavy side) to the mid-800s. Vet X-rayed and found an empty gut. He gave him subcutaneous fluids, prescribed Meloxicam (anti-inflammatory) and advised us to syringe-feed. Give him a couple of days and if he was doing well, we could decide about having his teeth done.

Within a couple of days he recovered quite nicely. Besides the syringe food he was eating soft veggies, moving around the cage, showing signs of happiness. On re-check his weight had risen to 1050g (our vet was ecstatic!) so we decided to go ahead and have the molars cut, which involved anesthesia.

His recovery this time didn't go as well. We syringe-fed about 5x per day, but he would not eat much on his own, even when we upped the Meloxicam (at the vet's request). We could not get weight on him; he dropped to low 900s. In the cage he was lying a lot in one spot, and we often found his left leg wet, indicating he was lying in his pee. We could not get him to move around. He appeared to have trouble getting up, though once up, he could walk. I didn't think he was drinking much water and I knew he wasn't eating pellets. We had him back for a re-check and continued syringe feeding, but saw no change and no weight gain, and in fact some loss.

Our primary concern was his comfort. Vet said we were doing all it was possible to do, but he was not bouncing back, and compassionate euthanasia might end up being our best option.

My wife wanted to wait a day or two more, which the vet thought was OK to do (we wouldn't be torturing the poor guy -- Oreo, not the vet). And then... he started eating more veggies, even a little hay, though his weight dropped as low as 820g. Still lying down a lot, still having some trouble getting up, but he became more eager for veggies, getting up and wheeking at feeding time. (We'd been feeding more often, much to the utter delight of his cage-mate, Harrison).

We talked to vet again; he said waiting a few more days would be OK. (My wife, meanwhile, got a bad flu, so I wanted to wait for that.) We stopped syringe- and hand-feeding, and his attitude improved and he started eating pellets, which he has not done since this whole thing began. Today I noticed the water in the bottle was dropping like normal. Weight-wise, he's still not gaining, but he is holding steady around 850g.

And this is where we are. No hand feeding. He's still lying around a lot (either in the open-ended "rainbow" hide or on/borrowed under hay) and and sometimes struggles to get up, and that left flank feels wet when I pick him up to weigh him. But he gets up to greet me if he thinks I'm bringing veggies and he tears into them eagerly. His activity level is reduced but he's showing signs of happiness, at least at meal time. When he's not eating, he lies aronud. He even looks pretty good -- attached photos show him eating and lazing.

So... we're kind of at a loss for what to do. We don't think he's going to spring back to where he was and I think his date with destiny is coming. We don't want to wait until he's suffering, but nor do we want to end his life if it's a happy one. (As I write this, I feel like I'm biasing what I write to keep him going.)

What are your thoughts? What would you do if Oreo was yours?

Thanks for reading and for sharing your thoughts!
 

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Hopefully the experts will reply to you soon, but I know you will arrive at the best decision you know for Oreo. From what I can read he is trying to fight which I can imagine makes making a decision harder. They are such resilient animals aren't they, mine definitely inspire me every single day. 🤍

Holding you in my thoughts during this time 🤍
 
Oh bless you. It’s always a difficult one when you get to this stage and I’m so sorry for the decisions you may have to make 😞

It doesn’t sound like Oreo is suffering but it does sound like he is holding on which will make any decisions harder.

If he were mine, I would take things day by day and treat each day as though it were his last.

Going from past experience, you will know when the time has come to say goodbye.

Sadly, only you can make the decision to help Oreo cross over the rainbow bridge as he is your guinea pig and you know him the best. But I always say it’s best a day too early rather than an hour too late.

Sorry I’m not much help. You and Oreo are in my thoughts x
 
So sorry that you are in this situation.
The best you can do is follow your heart.
You know and love Oreo so whatever decision you make will be the right one.
Hugs 🤗
 
It's a very hard and personal decision.your vet will guide you .whatever ,whenever you make a decision it will be out of love for Oreo.I'm sorry you are facing this, I send my virtual support.
 
Summary: Our vet has said the time for euthanasia is drawing near, and we're trying to decide how long to keep Oreo going, as he seems to be happy at the moment.

The story (I'll try to keep it short, but it's a long one...)

Oreo is an unneutered male, and we think he's around 6, maybe a bit older. Several weeks back he stopped eating and was lethargic. Turns out his molars were growing together keeping him from eating. He'd dropped from 1300+g (which our vet said was a bit on the heavy side) to the mid-800s. Vet X-rayed and found an empty gut. He gave him subcutaneous fluids, prescribed Meloxicam (anti-inflammatory) and advised us to syringe-feed. Give him a couple of days and if he was doing well, we could decide about having his teeth done.

Within a couple of days he recovered quite nicely. Besides the syringe food he was eating soft veggies, moving around the cage, showing signs of happiness. On re-check his weight had risen to 1050g (our vet was ecstatic!) so we decided to go ahead and have the molars cut, which involved anesthesia.

His recovery this time didn't go as well. We syringe-fed about 5x per day, but he would not eat much on his own, even when we upped the Meloxicam (at the vet's request). We could not get weight on him; he dropped to low 900s. In the cage he was lying a lot in one spot, and we often found his left leg wet, indicating he was lying in his pee. We could not get him to move around. He appeared to have trouble getting up, though once up, he could walk. I didn't think he was drinking much water and I knew he wasn't eating pellets. We had him back for a re-check and continued syringe feeding, but saw no change and no weight gain, and in fact some loss.

Our primary concern was his comfort. Vet said we were doing all it was possible to do, but he was not bouncing back, and compassionate euthanasia might end up being our best option.

My wife wanted to wait a day or two more, which the vet thought was OK to do (we wouldn't be torturing the poor guy -- Oreo, not the vet). And then... he started eating more veggies, even a little hay, though his weight dropped as low as 820g. Still lying down a lot, still having some trouble getting up, but he became more eager for veggies, getting up and wheeking at feeding time. (We'd been feeding more often, much to the utter delight of his cage-mate, Harrison).

We talked to vet again; he said waiting a few more days would be OK. (My wife, meanwhile, got a bad flu, so I wanted to wait for that.) We stopped syringe- and hand-feeding, and his attitude improved and he started eating pellets, which he has not done since this whole thing began. Today I noticed the water in the bottle was dropping like normal. Weight-wise, he's still not gaining, but he is holding steady around 850g.

And this is where we are. No hand feeding. He's still lying around a lot (either in the open-ended "rainbow" hide or on/borrowed under hay) and and sometimes struggles to get up, and that left flank feels wet when I pick him up to weigh him. But he gets up to greet me if he thinks I'm bringing veggies and he tears into them eagerly. His activity level is reduced but he's showing signs of happiness, at least at meal time. When he's not eating, he lies aronud. He even looks pretty good -- attached photos show him eating and lazing.

So... we're kind of at a loss for what to do. We don't think he's going to spring back to where he was and I think his date with destiny is coming. We don't want to wait until he's suffering, but nor do we want to end his life if it's a happy one. (As I write this, I feel like I'm biasing what I write to keep him going.)

What are your thoughts? What would you do if Oreo was yours?

Thanks for reading and for sharing your thoughts!

BIG HUGS
Unfortunately, we cannot make that decision for you; only you can. It is always most difficult when you as a very loving owner come closer to that time. There is a kind of grey zone when there is no right or wrong; just a different weighing up of the valid factors in play.

You may find this link here helpful. I have written it specifically for this kind of dilemma, so you can find out better where you stand yourself and can hopefully make your own decision with a less torn mind and heart: Operation, Terminal Care or Euthanasia? - Helpful Questions to Ask Ahead or in Hindsight

My throughts are with you.
 
Thanks all! Hoping you are right and we'll know when the time has come -- I feel like at the first sign of him not being happy to see food, that's probably the day. It seems from the responses we aren't making him miserable, and that's the most important thing.

The nice thing about being resigned to his demise is it makes the process easier. We know we're at the end, now we can concentrate solely on his behavior and his happiness.

We appreciate your support!
 
You may find this link here helpful. I have written it specifically for this kind of dilemma, so you can find out better where you stand yourself and can hopefully make your own decision with a less torn mind and heart: Operation, Terminal Care or Euthanasia? - Helpful Questions to Ask Ahead or in Hindsight
This was (and is) a great resource -- I read everything you had written before posting. One thing I learned was to pay attention to where he is lying. Earlier in his recovery he was going to the edges or corners of the cage. Now he lies in the open-ended hide or out front, facing inwards. Maybe it's a good thing I didn't read this a week ago. :) Seriously, this was a huge help, as are all the FAQs and guides on this site -- thank you for putting it together. I am convinced our pigs have led better lives because of all you have written.
 
This was (and is) a great resource -- I read everything you had written before posting. One thing I learned was to pay attention to where he is lying. Earlier in his recovery he was going to the edges or corners of the cage. Now he lies in the open-ended hide or out front, facing inwards. Maybe it's a good thing I didn't read this a week ago. :) Seriously, this was a huge help, as are all the FAQs and guides on this site -- thank you for putting it together. I am convinced our pigs have led better lives because of all you have written.

Thank you ever so much. I am happy to hear that my guides are helping you.

Having experienced those situations myself, I know how difficult and desperate they are and that what we are craving for most is some practical guidance that allows us to work things out for ourselves - a bit of a hand we can hold onto.

Virtually all guidance I found in this area (which wasn't a lot anyway) when I started writing my guides tended to gloss over the really sticky little details where you particularly wanted more specific practical help. We can all only ever generalise to a certain extend but I am glad if I can provide an amount of assurance when you feel all at sea. It is the pain of the impending loss combined with the feeling of helplessness that makes it so stressful.

In the end, all you can do is to go with your heart. You will know when the moment of 'this is it' has come. The difficult time is where there is no clear indication yet that your piggy has given up, is in major discomfort or that their body is closing down.

Please rest assured that you are doing your best by Oreo. All you can do is take it step by step. The waiting for the inevitable is one of the worst times we can go through with our beloved ones, and I totally feel for you.
 
An update (some happy news in a gloomy corner of these forums): Oreo is still looking pretty good, so we have come to a decision: As long as he's happy to see food come into the cage, we'll keep him going. When that no longer excites him, we'll know it's time. We'll keep an eye on his weight, but no extraordinary measures, I think he's been through enough.

I appreciate all the condolences, but I'm not feeling sad; rather I'm relieved that we have a good plan in place and won't stumble into letting him suffer without realizing it. If all goes well, he'll have a great rest of his life, however long that is!
 
An update (some happy news in a gloomy corner of these forums): Oreo is still looking pretty good, so we have come to a decision: As long as he's happy to see food come into the cage, we'll keep him going. When that no longer excites him, we'll know it's time. We'll keep an eye on his weight, but no extraordinary measures, I think he's been through enough.

I appreciate all the condolences, but I'm not feeling sad; rather I'm relieved that we have a good plan in place and won't stumble into letting him suffer without realizing it. If all goes well, he'll have a great rest of his life, however long that is!

I am glad that Oreo is still hanging in there. See every day more with him as a special blessing. The crucial thing is working past your fear of loss so you can treasure the remainder.

You will be grieving underneath it all and the end - whenever it comes - is going to come as a shock as you can never fully prepare for it but if you live this extra time consciously and see it as a precious gift, you can take so many positives from it that they will balance out the ultimate loss in my own experience.

I sincerely hope that Oreo will be still there with you over Christmas. :tu:

PS: In our answers we pick up on the tone and emotions behind a post and try to find a good answer for where our owners' are coming from at that time. If we can help you find a new balance and a more positive viewpoint for yourself, then that is great. ;)

We are here for you whenever and in whichever way. There is no right or wrong. Just the attempt to do one's best as one can.
 
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