Lots of losses…..

[EmiliaAriel]

I’ve only recently discovered the wonderful companionship of guinea pigs. It has been a phenomenal experience and I am absolutely in love with these animals. I’ve had the pleasure of adopting 3 boys at different points in time. We lost 2 in just under 3 weeks. Our first loss was due to GDV, completely unexpected and absolutely excruciating. I had no idea it even existed…..About a week later we adopted Ode from a shelter to keep Razielle company. Unfortunately we lost him in just under two weeks. He died in my arms on our way to the ER. Our surviving boy Raz is undergoing a second surgery in a 6 month span to remove more bladder stones, which sadly is a genetic predisposition. It’s been a month of back to back visits to the ER and lots of tears. Despite the medication, strict diet and hyper maintenance/diligence I have failed my babies. I understand shelter pigs are risky. There’s always a chance they might have underlying issues and I try not to fault myself, but guilt comes easier than helplessness. I want to get another pig for Raz but I am absolutely petrified to undergo another adoption. My partner is very much against the idea as the losses have taken quite a toll on me. I don’t want Raz to be alone, I know they are social creatures and need a companion. Any advice on this issue? I find this forum incredibly helpful especially for comfort and support. I really can’t thank you all enough…..

 

[Mrs Tiggy Winkle]

I'm so sorry you've experienced so many losses in such a short time!

Please don't think you've failed your babies. You adopted them from a shelter and they may well have brought unrecognised health problems with them. Also, you say yourself that guilt comes easier than helplessness. Comes easier doesn't mean it's the correct answer. So long as Raz is eating and not visibly pining, you can wait a little while to get him a New companion.

I know there are a few guides on the forum all about bereavement, but I can't link them atm. They should be pinned at the top of this board. I found them very helpful.

 

[piggieminder]

I am so sorry for your losses, please don't think you failed those piggies because you did not. You gave them a home and love at a time when they needed it the most.
I have linked a guide thread below if you scroll to the bottom you will find the three titles I hope you find helpful. I am sorry I can't link these separately at the moment for some strange reason the forum is not letting me do it.

Behaviour, Bonding & Bereavement Guides