Me & My Ron Bean

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Beautifulboars

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Hi,

I have just joined the forum as I have been struggling with the loss of my first guinea pig.

It was love at first sight with Ron when I went to a garden centre in Edinburgh for a random visit. He was in a pen with one other guinea pig and when I spoke, he came running over and was wheeking to get out. When I held him he licked my chin and we were bonded forever.

I was going through a really rough time and was very ill with depression. Having Ron stopped me from taking my own life as I knew no one would be able to look after him the way I could. He was a very sick piggie when I bought him as he had mange which meant a lot of vet trips.

We went everywhere together, to each new flat I rented, to each new city I moved to, and we settled down in Glasgow in March 2010. Prior to this I bought another guinea and called him Rufus. He moved with Ron and I as well.

Ron loved his cuddles and was a cheeky wee thing. Always squealing for food when he heard the fridge opening and strangely enough, whenever he heard me rustling a plastic supermarket carrier bag :)

On Tuesday, I came home from a job interview and Ron wasn't at his cage bars to greet me, he was asleep in his bed. I noticed his food had not been touched and neither had his water. Even his favourite cucumber was left. I tried to take him out and he bit me, something he had never done before. I took him to the vets where he was diagnosed with a tumour. The vet also found he was dangerously underweight and very depressed. I had noticed the cheeky glint of mischeif was not in his eyes. The vet then gave him an antiobiotic, painkillers and some fluids and told me to call them tomorrow to update them. It was at this point that I realised that if he didn't improve overnight, the phone call to the vet in the morning would be a heart wrenching decision to euthanase my beloved boy.

When I got him home, I held him in my arms for over 3 hours, crying into the scruff of his neck - he didn't move the whole time. When it was bedtime, I moved his cage into my bedroom next to my bed so I could be near him. I woke up to him making a strange choking noise at 4am and lifted him into bed with me. When he was a baby, i used to wrap him up in an old fluffy pink dressing gown, and so I did this again. He slept in my bed wrapped in thi dressing gown until 7am.

When I put him back in his cage, he seemed a lot more perky and had a nibble at his food. Within half an hour though he was back to being depressed and kept sleeping in his housie :'( I knew then what had to be done.

I took him back to the vets later that afternoon and was taken into a private consultation room. One of the nurses gave him some apple (another favourite) and he turned his nose up at it. We spent what felt like forever saying goodbye in the room but it wasn't long enough. He fell asleep with his head on my shoulder. When the nurse picked him up, his ears and nose were wet with my tears. I had cut a piece of the old dressing gown and so wrapped this around him for the nurse to take him away.

It felt like they were gone for an eternity but when she came back with him, he just looked like he was sleeping. He was so beautiful, and was my best friend. I didn't want to let him go and was immediately regretting my decision as I felt like I'd let him down.

I constantly think about how he saved me yet I couldn't save him from the tumour. I haven't slept since he died and if I do doze off, my pillow is soaked from my tears.

I still have Rufus, he's lovely and timid, and has been a rock. He was never one for long cuddles but has been sitting with me for a good hour since Ron passed and has even licked the tears from my cheeks.

I just can't seem to get over losing Ron, we went through so much together and I miss him so much.

RIP my little Ron Bean - have fun over the rainbow bridge with all the other lovely piggles, love you always xxxxxxx
 

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I'm so sorry to hear your news
Keep strong

RIP Ron Bean
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I'm sorry to hear you lost your beautiful boy - it's never easy when they go to the bridge :(!

Hugs - time is a great healer. xx
 
I cried writing it. All I do is cry because I miss him so much.

I received a card from my Mam today which said inside that he would be grateful because he's at peace now - I howled my eyes out
 
awww how very sad, i am so sorry for your loss, he was a proper cute boy.

RIP Ron Bean sleep well at the bridge x
 
I am so sorry; Ron was indeed a very special piggy and he will forever hold a very special place in your heart and your memories. That was a very heartfelt tribute that made cry!

You did what you could and with his wellbeing your first consideration. I have lost my own special first piggy after a desperate long battle only to have to finally decide when was the right time to have her pts, so I can feel for you!

Please accept your grieving as a measure of the depth of your bond with Ron; you can't hurry it up, but you can try to turn it something that helps Ron's legacy to carry on.

I hope that you can be strong for Rufus and find him a new friend of his liking in a rescue eventually. Let him choose, as no mate of his will be able to compare to Ron.

BIG HUG
 
So sorry about Ron :( reading this made me cry.
He sounds like he had the most amazing life with you and was a very special boy indeed.
I hope you & Rufus are ok, its always so hard when they go. xx
 
So very sad, he sounds a very special boy. A very heartfelt tribute that made me shed a few tears. Love and hugs to you xx
Run free Ron xx
 
So sorry for the loss of your special little boy. You made the right decision out of love for him and you did everything you could for him. It is obvious that you loved him very much and he loved you also and he must have been so happy with you. He will always be in your heart. *Hugs to you and Rufus*

RIP Ron Bean
x x
 
Firstly hello and welcome to the forum to you and dear Rufus :)
Whee are so very sorry to hear about your darling Ron Bean 8...8...8...
RIP Ron Bean run free at the bridge, enjoy munching on the sweet dandelions and clover and popcorn thru the lush green meadows, you'll be so very very sadly missed by your devastated mummy and mate Rufus, but NEVER ever forgotten xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and lots of loves from Glynis, Velvet and Onyx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Another little star now twinkling in the sky ............ :(


Thankyou so much for sharing Ron's life with us.........he was so obviously a very much loved piggie x)
You'll find lots of comfort and understanding on here as whee've all been thru this.......... HUGS xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
I am so so sorry for your loss, he looked a gorgeous boy :(

PiggyLove kindly posted this a while back when we both had lost ours, you may find it helpful:
http://www.theguineapigforum.co.uk/showthread.php?t=71747

RIP Ron Bean run free at the Bridge


Hi Poppy's Mum,

Thank you for sending this onto me, I'm going to give them a call next week. This forum is lovely, it's helping me knowing there are people who genuinely understand.
 
What a moving tribute to a very special piggie. Your love for each other was obvious and its so hard when no matter how hard we try our piggies have to go to the bridge. Sleep well lovely boy, you helped your mummy through a very difficult time and she will miss you so very much. So very very sorry..
 
Oh my goodness that made me howl :0:0

I know EXACTLY how you are feeling. Lost my special boy 1 month ago today at 7pm after an operation to remove a bladder stone and I have cried my eyes out every day since. He was my baby, and I do feel like Ive lost a child.

How you are feeling is totally natural.

I'm so sorry that you lost him, he sounds like he was a very special little character x

RIP Ron Bean
 
Oh my goodness that made me howl :0:0

I know EXACTLY how you are feeling. Lost my special boy 1 month ago today at 7pm after an operation to remove a bladder stone and I have cried my eyes out every day since. He was my baby, and I do feel like Ive lost a child.

How you are feeling is totally natural.

I'm so sorry that you lost him, he sounds like he was a very special little character x

RIP Ron Bean


It's absolutely heartbreaking, not one day goes by where I don't cry. I wake up at 4am every morning and my pillow is soaked from my tears 8...

Do you think you will rescue/buy another?

Rufus and I are sending you massive hugs

x
 
It's absolutely heartbreaking, not one day goes by where I don't cry. I wake up at 4am every morning and my pillow is soaked from my tears 8...

Do you think you will rescue/buy another?

Rufus and I are sending you massive hugs

x

Thank you for the hugs :)

I woke every morning at 4am for about 3 weeks, couldnt get back to sleep so just lay in bed for hours thinking about him and crying till my alarm would go off at 6am.

I'm not ready to get anymore yet, I know there are many many piggies out there that need a new forever home but I am so busy with work at the moment that I'm travelling away a lot, and dont think it would be fair to on any new piggies.

My sister and her family are talking about getting some now though, so I can have lots and lots of piggie cuddles as she lives really close, but without the poop! lol :(|)
 
I lost my job about 3 weeks ago now so in a way I'm grateful because with everything that's happened I would have crumbled even worse!

It's good that your sister lives nearby so you can still get your piggy fix x)

x
 
Oh you have no idea, it's been a really bad 4 months. I'm actually glad I had Ron and still have Rufus - guineas are amazing at picking up on human emotions and always wheeeking looking for a cuddle and some veggies. Good distraction :)

x
 
Totally! I have posted on another thread here started by William&Keith about how clever they are.

Rodders was always extra snuggly if I was upset/stressed/ill. Theyre such beautiful little creatures, I can see me being an old spinster living in a house full of GP's when I retire lol!

I really miss the interaction I had with my piggie, the house just isnt the same without him.
 
How old was Rodney?

I know what you mean, I want to move to a bigger house so I can have bedrooms dedicated to rescue piggies x) x)
 
Ron was going to be 4 in December - do you think that's a good age? Some place say that they live to 7 or 8 but when I was at the vets with Ron, they said he was quite old :(

Ron was a rex too, beautiful breed x)
 
yeah I noticed he was x) Did he have curly whiskers too x)

I think at that age they are classed as seniors. There are a lot of much older piggies on this forum, in fact there is someone on here with a piggie thats 10! How fabulous is that!?

I think 4 - 5 is a good age, when you read how many people lose theirs much younger :(

It depends what you read as to average life span, Ive seen some that say 3-5 years and some that say 4-7.
 
You can almost see his crinkly whiskers in this pigture:

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I originally thought that when he first lost the weight that it was an age thing so was referring to him as being an old piggle.

He had a good life and was spoilt rotten each and every day, as I'm sure Rodney was and had as well :rose I like to think they're playing together, popcorning away :)
 
x) beautiful boy, great photo!

Yep, he was very much loved thats for sure. I loved him more than I loved my ex! lol and I'm more upset about losing Rodders than I was when I split up with Peter!
 
I can totally relate to that! I was engaged and with the guy for nearly 2 years, when we split I didn't cry a fraction of the amount that I have cried over Ron-a-Lon. I reckon I'll be a single pringle forever but as I always say now, if you wanna love me, you've gotta love my pigs x) x) x)
 
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