Miss You Little Jack It Hurts Whenur Gone

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Beautiful, but then so are the others, maybe you should go to an animal counciling service, Hopefully it helps. You are going to be fine Kiera, now hurry up so you are back to the nutty person we all know. Come to think of it we're all nutty.
 
Tiamolly123 said:
Beautiful, but then so are the others, maybe you should go to an animal counciling service, Hopefully it helps. You are going to be fine Kiera, now hurry up so you are back to the nutty person we all know. Come to think of it we're all nutty.
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cant do this anymore
 
Jack would want you to remember him and he happy darling. The animal councelling service seems like a great idea ! You can get through this x
 
What will you achieve by constantly thinking of Jack let him go Kiera, I strongly believe that people & animals look down on us. Jack will be saying move on, it isn't your fault I died it happened. I love you now give other animals your love.
 
@kiera I lost my first piggy abruptly and I blamed myself for awhile. What if I went to this vets? What if? What if.... I was adamant for a long time that I wouldn't get another piggy because I'd 'failed' Vinny. I like you had loads of other beautiful pets looking for my love bit all I could think of was the huge space where Vinny should be. As soon as I stopped going WHAT IF and thought well Vinny was happy,she went peacefully and with no pain knowing I loved her. The vet did his best but he didn't know and at the end of the day piggies are still not 100% curable- I felt better.

Now I have Mo along with all my other little critters. I'll admit I bought him on a whim when my heart just went "I want another piggy". Vinny would want me to have another and hey let's make it my goal to do better (hence my presence on the forum). Mo is ,I hope, a happy piggy with love ,food and more love. I don't know if he'll be here this time next week or here 6 years from now but I DO KNOW that he is happy now and I am doing everything for him.

I still miss Vinny as you do Jack but please don't fall into the trap of blaming yourself or questioning everything- or worse still forgetting the other furbabies who need your love. They're not Jack no but they (ifor you look hard enough) will have bots of Jack in them and they are missing him too. Mo is so similar to Vinny sometimes that I swear she's in there and other times not. Stay strong. Huge hugs.
 
I am sorry Kiera, I truly am. Love and loss are sides of one coin, we can never experience one fully without the other. I now it hurts, and you always miss them. I urge you to talk to someone about your loss try the Blue Cross they are supposed to be very good Pet Bereavement Support
Please take time to be kind to yourself through the pain of grief. Huge hugs x
 
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