Missing My Boys So Much

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Julesie

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On thursday night I noticed my eldest boar Romano wasn't acting correctly. I know him well and his behaviour. I couldn't figure out what was wrong and rushed him to the emergency out of hours vets. They gave him a look over and he was having trouble breathing. They agreed it was old age. On the way home he passed away in my arms.
I was absolutely heartbroken. He's the longest living piggie I've ever had. As sad as I was I was glad he passed away in my arms that day as I was away for the weekend.

I came back from my trip monday morning and when I got home my mother started crying and told me the bad news. Ryou had passed away the night before. I'm utterly heartbroken. I went from five piggies, two boars and a boar and his ladies down to three.

I miss them both so much. It hurts knowing I wasn't there for Ryou in his time. Romano was the sweetest boy I've ever had. I rescued him from a horrible petshop and he's been there for me in so many times and helped me through rough patches. He's been an angel with no health problems through his whole life. I know he had an amazing life and he's back with Matthew now but to have him gone... I feel so empty.

Ryou was so young at almost four years old and he was such a naughty boy that I'm missing his behaviour. He drove my family nuts with bar chewing like a maniac, constantly breaking free of his cage and terrorising the girls but he was my little man.

Romano was such a gentle sweet boar, even in his old age he'd run around like he was 1, popcorning and using his pigloo as a turtle shell, pushing it around and bumping into objects then analysing it and pushing it out of the way. He was the dominant piggie but he never tried to hump or force it onto his submissive cagemates.

They both held huge areas in my heart. I miss them both so dearly.

RIP Ryou and Romano. I hope you are at peace and with your brothers. xx

Romano is my long haired black piggie and Ryou is my chubby white piggie in the pictures below.

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I am so sorry! it is not uncommon that a long term companion follows their best mate to the Rainbow Bridge, either by acute pining (refusing to live) or by an underlying issue coming to the fore in the wake of the shock of a loss.

Having lost Maelog and then very unexpectedly 3 days later one of his wives in February/March, I know how upsetting this is. I try to find consolation that they are together at the Rainbow Bridge and keeping each other company.
 
I am so sorry! it is not uncommon that a long term companion follows their best mate to the Rainbow Bridge, either by acute pining (refusing to live) or by an underlying issue coming to the fore in the wake of the shock of a loss.

Having lost Maelog and then very unexpectedly 3 days later one of his wives in February/March, I know how upsetting this is. I try to find consolation that they are together at the Rainbow Bridge and keeping each other company.

Strangely Romano and Ryou weren't companions. Ryou was downstairs in another cage and the two had never seen one another. Bakura was Romano's cagemate and Ryou was with the girls. Their friends are still alive and Bakura is the alone one at the moment.
Matthew was Romano's cagemate so I try to find comfort knowing they are back together. They used to be cuddled up every time I saw them.

Thank you for your kind words
 
Julie, I am really sorry for the loss of your handsome piggies. To lose two so close together is devastating and heartbreaking.

Please don't beat yourself up for not being around when Ryou crossed the bridge, you couldn't have done anything honestly. We never know the time those we love will leave all we can do is make the most of what we have and you are one of the most caring dedicated piggy owners on here, Your boys have had the most wonderful of lives and times with you. Be kind to yourself while you are hurting

Huge hugs

Sleep well boys

RIP Ryou & Romano
x x
 
Oh that is hard to lose 2 separately so close too, I feel so bad for you, I can only understand what it feels like to lose one, so my heart goes out to you.

Very sorry xx
 
I'm so sorry :( *huge hugs* sleep tight beautiful boys x
Thank you so much *hugs*
I'm so sorry Julie.
Thank you Helen, and for answering when I was struggling x

Oh that is hard to lose 2 separately so close too, I feel so bad for you, I can only understand what it feels like to lose one, so my heart goes out to you.

Very sorry xx
Thank you so much. Its awful and I really wouldn't wish it on anyone. Been giving my remaining 3 a lot of love and tormenting them with it :))
 
Julie, I am really sorry for the loss of your handsome piggies. To lose two so close together is devastating and heartbreaking.

Please don't beat yourself up for not being around when Ryou crossed the bridge, you couldn't have done anything honestly. We never know the time those we love will leave all we can do is make the most of what we have and you are one of the most caring dedicated piggy owners on here, Your boys have had the most wonderful of lives and times with you. Be kind to yourself while you are hurting

Huge hugs

Sleep well boys

RIP Ryou & Romano
x x

Thank you so much x

Thank you for saying that honestly it means a lot. I've been beating myself up over it. Every other guinea pig has died in my arms and I've been around to help them but not to be there for Ryou at the time he needed me most... it's been breaking my heart just as much. I'm glad he had my mother around at the time of his passing as he knew her the second most. She'd look after them often for me if I was unable to so they knew her well too.

*hugs* x
 
I'm so very sorry to read this. It's devastating to lose a much loved member of the family but then to lose a second so soon after the first must be heartbreaking for you. But you can't blame yourself for not being there when Ryou passed. You couldn't have known that it was his time and he passed peacefully. Hugs to you. Popcorn free beautiful boys xx
 
I'm so very sorry to read this. It's devastating to lose a much loved member of the family but then to lose a second so soon after the first must be heartbreaking for you. But you can't blame yourself for not being there when Ryou passed. You couldn't have known that it was his time and he passed peacefully. Hugs to you. Popcorn free beautiful boys xx
Thank you so much Vicki. I keep blaming myself. To lose him so soon after Romano, you wonder if its anything you've done? I don't know if it was but I certainly hope not. Thank you so much for your kind words x
 
It won't be anything you've done Julie - just an unhappy coincidence. Don't beat yourself up. Just be there for your other piggies they will be hurting too and wondering where their friends have gone. Romano and Ryou will be having a lovely time over the Rainbow Bridge meeting up with old friends and making new ones. It sounds like they had a lovely life with you and you should comfort yourself with that.
 
It won't be anything you've done Julie - just an unhappy coincidence. Don't beat yourself up. Just be there for your other piggies they will be hurting too and wondering where their friends have gone. Romano and Ryou will be having a lovely time over the Rainbow Bridge meeting up with old friends and making new ones. It sounds like they had a lovely life with you and you should comfort yourself with that.
Thank you Betsy.
I'm certain Romano is back with Matthew. They were almost lovers they were so close and Ryou will be reunited with Gilbert who he was very briefly cage mates with before Gilbert died. I hope they are safe and having a lot of yummy grass together.

I know they had a lovely life with me. They were my two friendliest guinea pigs of the 5. I just wish it had been longer. :( x Thank you again
 
On thursday night I noticed my eldest boar Romano wasn't acting correctly. I know him well and his behaviour. I couldn't figure out what was wrong and rushed him to the emergency out of hours vets. They gave him a look over and he was having trouble breathing. They agreed it was old age. On the way home he passed away in my arms.
I was absolutely heartbroken. He's the longest living piggie I've ever had. As sad as I was I was glad he passed away in my arms that day as I was away for the weekend.

I came back from my trip monday morning and when I got home my mother started crying and told me the bad news. Ryou had passed away the night before. I'm utterly heartbroken. I went from five piggies, two boars and a boar and his ladies down to three.

I miss them both so much. It hurts knowing I wasn't there for Ryou in his time. Romano was the sweetest boy I've ever had. I rescued him from a horrible petshop and he's been there for me in so many times and helped me through rough patches. He's been an angel with no health problems through his whole life. I know he had an amazing life and he's back with Matthew now but to have him gone... I feel so empty.

Ryou was so young at almost four years old and he was such a naughty boy that I'm missing his behaviour. He drove my family nuts with bar chewing like a maniac, constantly breaking free of his cage and terrorising the girls but he was my little man.

Romano was such a gentle sweet boar, even in his old age he'd run around like he was 1, popcorning and using his pigloo as a turtle shell, pushing it around and bumping into objects then analysing it and pushing it out of the way. He was the dominant piggie but he never tried to hump or force it onto his submissive cagemates.

They both held huge areas in my heart. I miss them both so dearly.

RIP Ryou and Romano. I hope you are at peace and with your brothers. xx

Romano is my long haired black piggie and Ryou is my chubby white piggie in the pictures below.

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Hi. I'm sorry about your loss. Upset cos it hurts. I lost my guy Pedro last Thu on way home from the vets after getin a ok after his mot. Oh it's a struggle but let's wish they all popcorning together. x
 
Hi. I'm sorry about your loss. Upset cos it hurts. I lost my guy Pedro last Thu on way home from the vets after getin a ok after his mot. Oh it's a struggle but let's wish they all popcorning together. x
Thank you so much. I'm sorry you lost Pedro the same day I lost Romano :(
I hope so x
 
Thank you so much. I'm sorry you lost Pedro the same day I lost Romano :(
I hope so x
Thank you so much. I'm sorry you lost Pedro the same day I lost Romano :(
I hope so x
Guilt is rattling around me. but these people on this forum have made me see that I should not. As you should not also. I've never been so upset as I am with lose in Pedro. That guy as your Romano depended on us. But we gave them love and tlc in buckets. I owe him nothin and he made me so bloody happy that's why we are sad. Big Hugs. I belive Pedders and Romano are playin in the Rainbow Bridge with millions of lost and well loved Animals. Dave. x
 
Guilt is rattling around me. but these people on this forum have made me see that I should not. As you should not also. I've never been so upset as I am with lose in Pedro. That guy as your Romano depended on us. But we gave them love and tlc in buckets. I owe him nothin and he made me so bloody happy that's why we are sad. Big Hugs. I belive Pedders and Romano are playin in the Rainbow Bridge with millions of lost and well loved Animals. Dave. x
Thank you. I always did my best for them and I know Romano certainly knew as he refused to leave my side and cuddled up with me before his passing. He's usually a very well behaved boy but he jumped out of his carrier and curled up in my lap. I think he just wanted to be with me in his last moments.
I'm sure they are. Thank you again x
 
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