Mr Nosy and Mr Sulky

Lorcan

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I've put off doing this for what...six months now? I didn't really want to do it for a while, because I didn't lose the boys because they died. I lost them because life circumstances were the biggest load of crap I'd had to deal with for quite some time and for my own sanity, I had to move somewhere where they wouldn't allow me to bring them with me.
I yelled the place down at the time. I've always been told I speak too quietly (I lack an "outdoor" voice) but you could hear me that day. I had to call Sue at Cavy Corner and apologise because I couldn't take them back, and it nearly broke me. It was the second time I'd lost piggies in similar circumstances, and you always think you're going to be able to give them the best lives they could have, right up until it ends, and it's a damn privilege to be able to do it.
I wasn't meant to have piggies in the first place, lol. I walked into Pets at Home and walked out with the pair of them, complete with a basic Ferplast because it would do until their permanent cage would arrive. They got what they needed....and I didn't realise then I'd got exactly what I needed too. I live alone, and at the time I had no family and no close friends nearby. I was very much on my own around a bunch of people who still had issues understanding what I said on a regular basis. Comet and Blitzen didn't give a fig about that. They were two very different piggies from the out. When they were being sexed in Pets at Home, Comet was fine...Blitzen tried to pick a fight with the guy. Start young, guys. First time they had floor time, Blitzen preferred to hide in a corner. Comet preferred to get his nose into everything...and to try and eat the towels and the letterbox. The entire time I had him, he always tried to eat the letterbox. He was not the brains of the outfit - Blitzen stole his dinner on a regular basis and Comet always complained when he did it...but he did the same thing every mealtime, and Blitzen knew he was on to a good thing.
Comet was a very gentle pig. He would always let me hand feed him, but if he thought he'd bitten me even by accident, he'd stop, and then try again to get the food, not the fingers. He used to love sofa time, til it had to be stopped because he kept making kamikaze leaps off the edge. When my parents were over, my dad was sitting on one half of the sofa and I had Comet on the other half...and had to pick him up within 30 seconds because he kept trying to get at the blueberry punnet on the sofa arm. He caused an incident at the vet where it took 3 of us to calm him down and he screamed the entire time. I got some funny looks going back into the waiting room, you'd've thought we were torturing him. He never did like the vet after that. When I was in hospital and unable to leave for long periods of time, he ended up needing tooth spurs filed and through the help of this forum I managed to get it sorted - I could drop him off for the surgery, and someone else could keep him overnight to make sure he was okay, and he was. Anyone who met him said he was a lovely chap who could wheek for Ireland (I know, I'm in England, but home team represent!) and you definitely didn't dare rustle a plastic bag within 5 miles of him because he just knew.
Blitzen took much longer to come round. He was a big pig but he felt like he weighed as much of a feather, I figured it was due to the fact he was built like a slinky. As someone put it once, he actually looked like he had a waistline. He hated being groomed unless he was sitting in one particular position, he repeatedly bit anyone clipping his nails, and as previously mentioned he wouldn't come to me for food, preferring to nick it off Comet instead. But he started to mellow - I can't explain how excited I was when he finally took some food from my hand. HE ACTUALLY DID IT. It was the best feeling ever.
I will never understand how they got on, they were like chalk and cheese. Blitzen would be trying to sleep in the same hidey Comet was trying to move to create his zoomies circuits. Comet would forever be coming back for his dinner within 2 minutes with this look on his face like "it happened...again" - yessir, it did. Comet liked his zoomies, Blitzen preferred to popcorn - full body in the air, with his fur flying around like he was headbanging. They'd tipped water over each other, headbutted each other, argued with each other, refused to share food with each other, and at the end of the day shared a hidey to fall asleep in. They slept next to each other often, would frequently look for each other if they were too far apart, groomed each other.
I miss them, far more than I can ever explain. Knowing they've gone to a good home helps, but it still doesn't hurt any less 6 months later. I'm sorry that in the last few months I couldn't give them 100%, but that didn't stop me from spending £140 a week when I was in hospital going back and forth to give them as close to 100% as I could. They were my saving grace, just being able to watch these two adorable boys going about their daily business, giving me something else to focus on when I needed it most. I couldn't give them 100%...but they gave me 200% easily.
Wherever you are now, you beautiful pair of eejits, I hope you're still raising hell. And thank you, for giving me a way forward too.
 

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HUGS

I am ever so sorry that Comet and Blitzen couldn't come back to you! They sound like two wonderful guys and they have been truly loved and are still loved by you today.

You will never stop loving them or missing them because they will always be yours in your heart. You grieve just the same when they go on to another place as if they had died even when you know that you have done the best you could for them and that they are still there.
But I am very glad for you that you seem to be getting through the worst bit of it now and are able to speak about it and relish all the precious memories you have - these at least cannot be taken from you!

I wasn't able to visit Caron for quite a while in her new home at first when she went to a friend with a similar set-up to mine who had adopted a sister or close relative of hers. Caron had lost a lot of weight through bullying after a failed bid for the top spot of group. Unfortunately, I'd been unable to find an internal solution for her. At first it was just too heart-breaking for me to see her until I had got through the whole grieving process.
However, she always remembered and recognised my voice and knew when I was on the phone, and she was super relaxed whenever I cuddled her on my visits (sadly not many as she was living quite a way away). I knew that she was much happier than I could make her, especially when she found true love, and that I had made the right decision. But that didn't lessen the pain I felt in the place that was hers in my heart. While I was happy on her behalf, I continued to be sad on mine.
Caron passed away three years ago this month, so the emotional conflict has settled down and I can cherish my memories of her even more now.

I sincerely hope that you can eventually do the same. I was very upset myself and ached for you when you were not allowed to keep your boys in your new place, but I am glad that you have continued to stay on with our forum nevertheless!
 
Hold tight your precious memories of your beautiful Comet and Blitzen x
 
I too am so sorry that you couldn’t take your gorgeous and funny boys with you but they had a amazing home with you and Sue at Cavy Corner would have found them a fantastic home to go too (((hugs))) keep hold of the memories and one day, I’m sure you will give another pair of piggies a loving home too xx
 
I saw this last night but didn’t have the chance to reply.

I remember when you found out that you were not allowed to take “crazy and bossy” with you. I have a feeling the respite made sure not to tell you beforehand to make sure you’d move in and get better. It was a horrible trick of them not to tell you until it was too late but I can also see that they did it in your best interests and wellbeing.

I felt so sad when you had to give them up, I know how much you loved and still love those gorgeous boys. Maybe one day further down the line you will be able to have pets again. Please don’t see it as a failing in any way, you were a dedicated pet owner who did a wonderful job of looking after your little fuzzy loved ones. Sometimes life just throws us in the deep end, I’m glad you grabbed your rubber ring and swam out of it. :hug:

I think we ALL miss your two lovable iiijits.:D Just make sure you stick around here!
 
“crazy and bossy”
"nosy and sulky" "crazy and bossy" "naughty and grumpy" they really were a pair, weren't they? May they never change.

Thank you everyone - Wiebke, Bill & Ted, Claire, Pawz, Flutterby. I really appreciate it.
 
I'm so sorry you had to give up your boys - I can't imagine what it took to say goodbye to them. Well done for posting - it is so brave.

At some time, when you're able, I'm sure you will give some new piggies a home and lots of love. Until then, please stick around enjoy the antics and ups and downs of other piggies and their slaves
 
I adopted 2 female piggies from cavy corner in May. And I’m pretty sure I met your beautiful boys at the time and even had a cuddle.

I completely fell in love with them. Sue introduced them to me as a pair that had been very well looked after and come from a very loving home. She explained that their owner had no choice but to give them up and was incredibly sad about it.

When I went to cavy corner I had gone with the intention of adopting girls. For no other reason than I had had female piggies before and wanted to stick with what I knew. I did almost change my mind though when I met your boys! I did keep following Comet and Blitzen on the facebook page as I wanted to know that they’d been rehomed. I was happy to see that they found a new home within a week or 2 of me meeting them. They had me soft on them and only met them for a few minutes!

Small world. I’m so sad for you, But you gave your piggies an amazing start in life and I’m sure that Sue made sure they were rehomed to a lovely family. I almost wish I’d adopted them now so I could give you more reassurance!
But I wouldn’t swap my girls (who I suspect did not have as good a start in life as your boys).
 
It’s lovely to see your tribute to your boys.
I remember what an awful time it was for you and how heart- wrenching it was to give them up.
I hope your situation is better now and I ‘m glad you’re still with us on the forum.
That’s a lovely tribute to Comet and Blitzen- they are missed on the forum
 
Lorcan the love you have always had for your piggies has shone through in all your posts to them, a lovely tribute to your piggies and their huge pigsonalities. Giving them up is a brave thing to do and the grieving process is the same as them passing. You gave them an amazing life and they gave you so much in return also.

Have a huge hug buddy x
 
You did what was best for your boys given your circumstances, you still have the memories and no one can take those away from you. Massive hugs, hope to see you soon x
 
These were in my phone, which is why I didn't post them originally. I wanted to share them as a way of saying thank you, to all of you. I know they went to a great home and one day I can pass on the favour to another couple of boars.
 

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These were in my phone, which is why I didn't post them originally. I wanted to share them as a way of saying thank you, to all of you. I know they went to a great home and one day I can pass on the favour to another couple of boars.
Lovely pictures Lorcan. Happy piggies :)
 
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