My 3 girls 💔

joalison

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Hi all, you might recognise me from posting a lot about all the health difficulties my pigs have been having this year. I have lost a pig a week for the last 3 weeks, the latest was today.

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This was Sweeney. She was the first to go. She had CBS and was always a bit fragile but we had still hoped for more time with her as she was only 3yr10months old. She was my favorite girl. She had the typical "aby-tude" and was full of personality. She wasnt the kind to settle down on your lap, she was always on the go. She loved her sister, her pellets and going outside in the summer. She was my special girl..I wouldve let her get away with anything. I always said to her sister "you have to let Sweeney do whatever she wants!"
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This is her sister Queenie who we lost last week, just a week after her. Just as Sweeneys issues were coming to a head, we discovered Queenie had serious dental issues. After her dental she couldnt get back to eating properly and when the vet saw her she said she wasnt in good shape and possibly had kidney issues..I still felt I couldve kept her going for a while but I knew her dental issues couldnt be solved and she was most likely in pain. She was also a very sweet girl..she was like a big sister to Sweeney and always looked out for her. When Sweeney was in bed and it was meal times we would tell her to go fetch her sister and she would run over and let her know its time to get up. She didnt realise how ill Sweeney had gotten so she was absolutely devastated when she had to say her final goodbyes. At least they are together now. She loved going outside in the summer and eating the grass, floofing out in her hay and coming out in her cage run everyday to look around.
We have many fond memories of them together but our time was cut so short..IMG_20220810_193915.webp
Then today we lost Foxy. She was barely two and a half. She came down with a URI two or so weeks ago, baytril did not work with her and we tried two other antibiotics to no avail, the last was only yesterday. I think she had a bad reaction to it..the dose seemed very high but the vets said it was correct and she couldve even had more though. She was really unwell before this anyway due to the other antibiotics not working and she hadnt been eating properly for ages..she also had her teeth trimmed in case that was the issue..we did everything we could to save her. I syringe fed her and medicated her from morning to night everyday for the last couple of weeks. We thought..even though the baytril didnt work surely a URI cant kill a piggy so young..however she never really turned any corners and this morning after the new antibiotic she was in a terrible state so we had to rush her to the vets to end her suffering. They didnt know why either..they said maybe it turned to pneumonia. I dont know. Her sister knew she was ill and was looking out for her the whole time, because of that and her illness being contagious I didn't bring her body back for final goodbyes. I think her sister knew how ill she was and will know she is gone. We only had her for barely 18 months. She came with her sister from a not very nice situation..she always had a spunky attitude too and we bonded as she realised she could trust me. She was always coming to the cage walls for food everytime we went in the room. She loved her food and was such a good hay eater. Thats why it was so hard to see her not want to eat anything anymore. She also loved her cosy beds. She always wanted to climb onto your neck when she was being held. She was a wife (i usually say sister even though wife is more accurate) to my new boy since around October last year and he liked her a lot although he didnt understand recently that she was ill. So she has left behind him and her sister.
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I dont know if we will rehome or keep the remaining two yet. We have just been in shock from the constant trauma and vet visits and nursing these last few weeks but we are truly heartbroken. Such special girls all gone way too soon.
 
Oh how heartbreaking for you to have lost all your girls in such a short space of time, I’m so sorry 😞 They were all beautiful and will be reunited over the rainbow bridge ❤️ I am sending you massive (((hugs))) at this sad time, it’s clear how much they were all loved
Sleep tight beautiful girls, have fun at the rainbow bridge xx
 
A lovely tribute to beautiful little ladies. I'm sad for you but at least they can popcorn high together beyond the rainbow bridge ❤️🌈
 
Oh how heartbreaking for you to have lost all your girls in such a short space of time, I’m so sorry 😞 They were all beautiful and will be reunited over the rainbow bridge ❤️ I am sending you massive (((hugs))) at this sad time, it’s clear how much they were all loved
Sleep tight beautiful girls, have fun at the rainbow bridge xx
Thank you x We knew Sweeney wasnt doing well (although didnt expect her to go downhill like she did and lose her this early despite her CBS) but the other two girls issues suddenly arose at just the same time and again we never expected them to leave too 😞 I really hope they are okay up there now x
 
I’m so sorry for your prolonged period of loss. Beautiful tribute to your lovely ladies. Huge hugs to you xx
 
I am so sorry to hear you very sad news. Sending you hugs.
Together forever at Rainbow Bridge, Sweeney, Queenie and Foxy.
 
So very sorry you have lost your three girls so close together. Sleep tight gorgeous Sweeney, Queenie and Foxy 🌈❤️
 
BIG HUGS

Multiple deaths in quick succession can really take it out of you, especially when you are hit by an unexpected death or two you haven't been able to brace for - as I know only too well myself. :(

Please give yourself time and the freedom to not be OK for a while. You can process only so much at any given time even though there is much more on your plate right now than you can cope with. I call this my 'grieving indigestion' whenever I have more losses lumped together than I can cope with at once.

Try to picture your girls together at the Rainbow Bridge and mourn them as a unit; that can help you to make it a bit easier since the individual deaths do get a bit lost in the huge general mush of misery anyway. You can give them their full due later on during their different anniversaries. You will find that the not fully digested losses will come up again at some point or other; but thankfully usually (while it can happen as a bit of shock) still not quite as bad as right now, and that you can work further on processing then when you are not under quite the same pressure whenever that happens.

Here is our very practical Grieving Guide to help owners make sense of their often unexpected feelings and thought processes and offer ideas on how they can express their feelings to help themselves with their grieving process.
Human Bereavement: Grieving, Processing and Support Links for Guinea Pig Owners and Their Children

Please do not make any knee jerk decisions about your remaining piggies right now. As long as they are eating and drinking they are going to hold until your head and heart are a bit clearer and a bit more at ease again.
It is totally normal to question your ownership at this stage (it happens to any caring nd responsible owner under these circumstances) even though you are a very loving owner who has gone further than many others with their care and you haven't failed any of your piggies in any way. What is out of your control are any health issues and veterinary access - that you cannot choose or prevent. We are unfortunately wired to reflect everything back onto ourselves.

As long as you give your piggies many happy todays you do not fail them because you are giving them what they as guinea pigs want from life. A healthy average life span is very much a human concept and very often an unrealistic expectation towards yourself. Dealing with whatever pet ownership is throwing at you to the best of your ability and giving your piggies love, care and companionship along the way is a more realistic approach - and one you have definitely got right! :tu:
 
I am so sorry you have lost three of your little lady, how tragic. take heart you gave them a happy, secure and loving home and that’s what matters x
 
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Sorry for your losses. You did everything you could for your girls. They all knew they were very loved. Take care of yourself during this difficult time x
 
BIG HUGS

Multiple deaths in quick succession can really take it out of you, especially when you are hit by an unexpected death or two you haven't been able to brace for, as I know only too well myself. :(

Please give yourself time and the freedom to not be OK for a while. You can process only so much at any given time even though there is much more on your plate right now than you can cope with. I call this my 'grieving indigestion' whenever I have more losses lumped together than I can cope with at once.

Try to picture your girls together at the Rainbow Bridge and mourn them as a unit; that can help you to make it a bit easier since the individual deaths do get a bit lost in the huge general mush of misery anyway. You can give them their full due later on during their different anniversaries. You will find that the not fully digested losses will come up again at some point or other; but thankfully usually (while it can happen as a bit of shock) still not quite as bad as right now, and that you can work further on processing then when you are not under quite the same pressure whenever that happens.

Here is our very practical Grieving Guide to help owners make sense of their often unexpeted feelings and thought processes and offer ideas on how they can express their feelings to help themselves with th grieving process.
Human Bereavement: Grieving, Processing and Support Links for Guinea Pig Owners and Their Children

Please do not make any knee jerk decisions about your remaining piggies right now. As long as they are eating and drinking they are going to hold until your head and heart are a bit clearer and a bit more at ease again. It is totally normal to question your ownership at this stage even though you are a very loving owner who has gone further than many others with their care and you haven't failed any of them in any way; what is out of your control are any health issues and veterinary access. We are unfortunately wired to reflect everything back onto ourselves.

As long as you give your piggies many happy todays you do not fail them because you are giving them what they want from life. A healthy average life span is very much a human concept and very often an unrealistic expection towards yourself. Dealing with what pet ownership is throwing at you to the best of your ability and giving your piggies love, care and companionship is a more realistic approach - and one you have definitely got right! :tu:
Thank you Weibke x I know you have had a lot of losses sometimes in short periods of time too. I dont really know how you do it! Of course with me only having a handful of pigs I didnt think I would have to deal with something like this but..

I will take time to decide on my remaining two. We are going to tackle tidying up the empty cage and all the girls stuff in the next few days, rearrange the remaining cage in the room then. The boy is as clueless about this as he is in general bless him, still happy as ever. I just hope Foxys sister doesnt take it too hard and turn up with any issues now too it would be the last thing we need. She did know she was very ill so hopefully she already partly accepted that her friend might not make it.
 
Thank you Weibke x I know you have had a lot of losses sometimes in short periods of time too. I dont really know how you do it! Of course with me only having a handful of pigs I didnt think I would have to deal with something like this but..

I will take time to decide on my remaining two. We are going to tackle tidying up the empty cage and all the girls stuff in the next few days, rearrange the remaining cage in the room then. The boy is as clueless about this as he is in general bless him, still happy as ever. I just hope Foxys sister doesnt take it too hard and turn up with any issues now too it would be the last thing we need. She did know she was very ill so hopefully she already partly accepted that her friend might not make it.

HUGS

Guinea pigs have a much finer sense of smell and usually know well before us when something isn't right. Foxy's sister should OK as she has had time to say her goodbyes and as long as she has still got company. Give her time to do her own grieving. ;)

I lost three piggies in just a week (two of them unexpectedly, one a 3 year old who sadly didn't make it through the weekend for the earliest available emergency operation slot; he died just a few hours early). It was hard - especially as that was only the start of losing 22 in 24 months - several times two piggies within just a week and once only 24 hours apart just before Christmas 2022. It was the sheer relentlessness of it that got to me... But you get through it even if it doesn't look like it at times.

On the bottom line the joy my many piggies have brought me over all the years and are still bringing me outweighs the pain of losing them - never nicely spaced apart but generally in lumps. But this is balanced out in the long run by periods of perfect happiness. We just take the latter all too often for granted.

You grow in the dark times and you come out of them more mature and stronger, and with a deeper understanding of yourself and more empathy for others. They are not just all bad even though they are not something we seek on purpose and they are certainly no fun while you are going through them.

I am already up to another 3 losses this year myself after my old lady Cerian's body finally gave out on Friday. I am hoping that this is another 'London buses' wodge done with now. :(

Hang on in there but try not to put loads of pressure on yourself. It'll come right again eventually.
 
Oh I am so sorry that you have experienced multiple losses.
Your love for Sweet, Queenie and Foxy shines through your lovely tribute to them.
Be gentle with yourself as you grieve
 
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