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My darling piggy has passed away

RomyAndMichelle

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Romy was 3.5 years old. I'd had her from the age of about 2 months - I adopted her and her sister Michelle from a family who realised they were unable to adequately care for them.

I love them dearly. They're also (at my grand old age of 38) my first ever pets, so this is my first time experiencing this type of grief. I've been crying for days and questioning everything that I did. I feel like I failed her 😔

Romy started off with a URI a few weeks ago. We gave her the course of medication which seemed to work, but at the follow up the vet was concerned about her fast heart rate and slightly low weight (she's always been smaller than her sister despite how much she eats).

So she then had an ultrasound of her heart, which showed thickening of the heart walls. The vet believed this and the low weight was likely to be caused by a hyperactive thyroid. She didn't want to do blood tests because the anaesthetic would have bene too risky for her. So we started Romy on the thyroid medication to see if we found an improvement in heart rate and weight gain.

A couple of days on the meds she was lethargic and barely eating. I called the vet and we agreed we should stop the medication for now. Feed her up, and try the meds again later at a lower dose.

The day after stopping the meds she seemed to be improving. She was still quiet and tired but she started eating again. And a couple of more days she was eating even more and becoming more spritely, wheeking again and jumping on top of her hideys!

On Friday she seemed mostly normal, but I noticed once or twice she was just just stood staring into space. But aside from that she was still playing a little, and eating and drinking plenty.

On Saturday morning I found her passed away. I am so so sad. I keep thinking if she'd never started that medication she'd have just been fine. I should have left the poor girl alone and not forced her to take the medication.

When I found her, she was lay with her back against the cage bars with her little head slightly poking out. I am now worried about this position. Was she in so much distress that she was biting at the bars trying to get out? Was she trying to ask for help?

Attached some pics of my beautiful late Romy, and one extra pic with her sister Michelle ❤️
 

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I am so sorry you lost Romy, it’s so shocking when you find they have passed away suddenly like that, sending hugs. Many of us have been in your position and have questioned if we could have done more, or should we have noticed something but honestly, I think you did everything you could have. Take heart you gave her the very best life and she will have known how much you cared x

Popcorn high little Romy 🌈
 
I am so very sorry for your loss and please do keep talking through your emotions and grief with our lovely guinea pig parent family on here. Guilt has a habit of finding us at our darkest time and makes us think very bad thoughts. It is hard not to be overcome by the "if I had only done" and "what if" - you did your very best for your piggy and we will all remind you of that when you are at your lowest. Don't be too hard on yourself and remember you gave your gorgeous piggy all the love and happiness that you possibly could. Sending you a big hug x
 
I’m so sorry for your loss. Popcorn high over the bridge gorgeous Romy. ❤️
 
I’m so sorry you lost your precious Romy. Many of us have been through that ‘what if’ phase whilst grieving - its human nature because you love your little ones so much. Big hugs. You clearly gave Romy and her sister Michelle a second chance in life, she was much loved and cared for by you. Sleep tight little Romy ❤️🌈
 
I'm sorry you lost your little lady, popcorn high and sleep well over the rainbow bridge Romy 🌈
 
A sad loss, such a sweet little piggy. Heart conditions can be very sudden in guinea pigs unfortunately. These small rodents are often bred without the precautions that would help to prevent diseases in the bloodlines. And yet they are usually pretty hardy right until the end, poor things. They are primed for flight and have finely tuned little bodies. They are the most delightful pets you could imagine. Snuggle well at the bridge little Romy. Sending you comforting thoughts, you are an excellent guinea pig mom and Romy had a very happy life with you ❤️🌈
 
So sorry for your loss.
Romy was clearly a very loved piggy.
Be gentle with yourself as you grieve
 
Thank you so much everyone for your kind words. It is helping to comfort me. It still doesn't feel real, I keep thinking of her sweet face (which didn't match her sassy personality) and wishing I was snuggling her. This is true heartbreak isn't it?
 
I'm really sorry for your loss. Big ((HUGS)) to you. It can be hard to treat systemic issues like heart or thyroid (I have a pig being treated for hyperthyroidism right now and it's a balancing act to figure out dosages.) In my experience, most pigs hide illness well and appear normal until shortly before they pass, sometimes only a few hours before. There's nothing you missed and nothing you did wrong. Unfortunately she had underlying issues that were hard to address. Be kind to yourself while you grieve- she was loved and you gave her a wonderful life.
 
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