My Sweet Girly Died Monday And Now Her Sister Is Alone

Oh I'm sorry to hear that :(
i know vets are not miracle doctors and the lady who did the surgery on me Fudge is very expirienced but my biggest regreth is that i did not take her home after surgery because she might have been happier home :(
Now I'm worried that Toffee might have same problem as shes been having same diet and enviorment :(
Being here and talking everything out has been good for me but i still get the moments i just need to cry and cry :(
 
That's understandable Kadz gettin upset. Heck it's still raw.
I'm sure the vets would done everything possible to make her passing peaceful.
if you worried about Toffee then have her checked over. x.
 
Hi
We are going to monitor her but she seem ok atm. Shes coming out more and my husband and i decided we need to take her out more offten to cuddle her so she gets use to us more. Its difficult as Toffee never liked hugs and Fudge was the one who always climbed on me. She was the biter but once when she bit me hard she came over to me and gave me a kiss. Its so quiet without her because she use to chew on the metal bit of their cage when she heard the fridge door or just wanted to let us know she needed attention. I have thougt about the good memories but oh god its really raw to accept things still.
I guess more and more people tell me that dwelling on the subject makes things harder but everything just reminds me of her :(
I have added a tribute to her (accidently twice and i dont know how to delete threads) and it was really difficult but i think it was a good idea.
Thank You for Your help we really apreciate it x
Love Kadz and Toffee
 
Everything you feel is absolutely normal, grief is different for everyone in fact I would say our grief is different every time we suffer it.
Give yourself time, and most importantly be kind to yourself, none of this is your fault.
After loosing 4 pets in close succession for different reasons I decided not to have animals again it's just too hard when they leave us. 6 years later I met a little black and white guinea pig who wormed his way into my heart and then there were 4!
In october I had to have a young piggy PTS and I suffered the worst grief and guilt I'd ever suffered. It was hard to accept his illness wasn't my fault.
Sending you and Toffee my very best wishes and hugs.
 
Dear @Kadz hope today is a better day for you. Glad to know that Toffee is drinking again.
Guinea pigs grieve on a different timescale to us so it’s not about her doing better than you, it’s about you being human.
 
We have Toffee out with us longer now so she can get use to us more. She was just sitting on my husbands lap for about 15 min munching away. I have had lots of support last few days, especially from here. Bless you all for comforting me and my Toffee on this dark hour x
I am slowly accepting that my beautiful Fudge is now in piggies heaven and i have to think of her as my new gurdian angle watcing over her sister Toffee and her mommy and daddy. A good friend of mine told me today that i should think about good memories not dwelling on negative.
Its a very early days right now but i know Fudge would like us to carry on and never stop the love we have in our hearts.
My heart is still bleeding but she will never fully leave my heart.
Love
Kadz and Toffee x
 
Lovely words and well done being postive. It's hard and grief affects us all in different ways and we never know how until it happens.
Happy memories to a loved piggie who now is watching over you all. x
 
piggieminder said:
Everything you feel is absolutely normal, grief is different for everyone in fact I would say our grief is different every time we suffer it.
Give yourself time, and most importantly be kind to yourself, none of this is your fault.
After loosing 4 pets in close succession for different reasons I decided not to have animals again it's just too hard when they leave us. 6 years later I met a little black and white guinea pig who wormed his way into my heart and then there were 4!
In october I had to have a young piggy PTS and I suffered the worst grief and guilt I'd ever suffered. It was hard to accept his illness wasn't my fault.
Sending you and Toffee my very best wishes and hugs.
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Keep Strong. x
 
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