garfieldette
Junior Guinea Pig
I am SO excited!
I have been, well, I suppose the police would term is as 'grooming' ,OH into accepting the idea of adopting a neutered boar to join our trio of girlies. It has been a long 2-3 month process of continuous chipping away.
Today I saw that Walsall RSPCA had 2 new lads up for adoption and bit the bullet. I sat OH down and said, look can we have an adult conversation on this where you listen to what I have to say rather than just saying no. OH grudgingly grunted accent. I laid out all the reasons why I wanted a lad to join our group. That I had built the new C&C big enough to accommodate an extra for this very reason. There was a long pause then.... grudging consent, with a short list of conditions and a couple of things I had to do in return. OH did then try to change mind but I insisted on writing a statement of agreement and getting OH to sign it so they couldn't deny it tomorrow!
Yipeeee!
I am now so over excited it is ridiculous:-)
Beki
I have been, well, I suppose the police would term is as 'grooming' ,OH into accepting the idea of adopting a neutered boar to join our trio of girlies. It has been a long 2-3 month process of continuous chipping away.
Today I saw that Walsall RSPCA had 2 new lads up for adoption and bit the bullet. I sat OH down and said, look can we have an adult conversation on this where you listen to what I have to say rather than just saying no. OH grudgingly grunted accent. I laid out all the reasons why I wanted a lad to join our group. That I had built the new C&C big enough to accommodate an extra for this very reason. There was a long pause then.... grudging consent, with a short list of conditions and a couple of things I had to do in return. OH did then try to change mind but I insisted on writing a statement of agreement and getting OH to sign it so they couldn't deny it tomorrow!
Yipeeee!
I am now so over excited it is ridiculous:-)
Beki