babyandtheo1
New Born Pup
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Do guinea pigs form a bond with its owners (me)? They are 8/9 months old. I don't really pick them up every day like I should and so I feel like when I do pick them up, they don't enjoy it. And sometimes they'll bite me. I feel like I've been a really bad parent. I feed them when I can though and when I do pick them up, sometimes they'll enjoy me rubbing their belly (well one of them) and will lay there for a little bit. They used to sleep on me when they were really young. I feel like I'm trapping them in a cage and don't let them run around enough. And this is while I'm NOT working. They also squeak a lot. But they also popcorn a lot which I think means they are happy?
I'm currently looking for a job and when I get one, I plan to move out and I'm not sure if I should take them with me. Normally when I'm not home or feel too depressed to leave the bed, my mum will feed them but I won't have her there when I move and I can't leave them with her. Also if I don't take them I don't have to specifically look for places that allow pets so I'll have a bigger option. But I just feel so terrible about selling them, like why did I take up the responsibility of taking them at 5 weeks old if I couldn't stay with them forever. And I truly do care for them, I just don't feel like they love me back? and maybe someone else will be able to give them a lot more attention and love than i do because apparently, they are social creatures? And maybe me not picking them up every day and only like once a week will affect their development? Or is it too late at 9 months?
They also help me when I'm feeling blue if I pick them up. But I don't want that to be the only reason to keep them. Advice please?
I'm currently looking for a job and when I get one, I plan to move out and I'm not sure if I should take them with me. Normally when I'm not home or feel too depressed to leave the bed, my mum will feed them but I won't have her there when I move and I can't leave them with her. Also if I don't take them I don't have to specifically look for places that allow pets so I'll have a bigger option. But I just feel so terrible about selling them, like why did I take up the responsibility of taking them at 5 weeks old if I couldn't stay with them forever. And I truly do care for them, I just don't feel like they love me back? and maybe someone else will be able to give them a lot more attention and love than i do because apparently, they are social creatures? And maybe me not picking them up every day and only like once a week will affect their development? Or is it too late at 9 months?
They also help me when I'm feeling blue if I pick them up. But I don't want that to be the only reason to keep them. Advice please?