Sleep Tight Two Of My Special Girls

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It's taken a wee while to write something about one of my girls, but I have lost another too and feel that the time is right.

My little April puss cat was nearly 16 years old and battled stage 4 renal failure for a few months before losing her battle. I always knew this was one that would not be won...but she fought hard to the end. I had to help my little girl on 14th March this year and it was not easy. I'd had April since the day she was born and although she was a grumpy old girl towards the end....we knew we loved each other; I miss her terribly.

BUT

While getting over the passing of April, another old girl puss cat of mine, Ruby was getting worse with her cancer. Ruby was diagnosed with an adeno carcinoma back in November and we were managing well with her treatment until about 3 weeks ago when I received the devastating news that the cancer has spread to her bladder and my poor girl was losing her fight sooner than I was ready. This cancer was aggressive and left her incontinent and in some pain. Although my ruby was always pleased to see me and have a snug snug and a purr with her mummy. I had the help my little girl only yesterday, 31st March. Ruby was 12 days short of her 17th birthday I'd also had her since the day she was born. I take comfort in the fact that both my girls are,together and have met up with their siblings and furry mummy now. I am sad, numb and wondering what to do next; I feel lost without the daily meds routine for them both.

Sleep well at the bridge my grumpy old girls, say hello to all who have gone before you. Mummy misses you both soooooooo much
 
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I am very sorry for your double loss; it is the end of an era and is going to leave a big hole in your life and affections, especially as both lived to a good age and were well looked after by you. The first few days when the adrenalin is running out and all the unthinking little ways that have connected you in your daily life bring home your loss so jarringly are the hardest.
 
Hugest of hugs to you.
It's so hard to lose such long standing members of your family. They sound like a real pair of characters who will leave a big hole,in your life. To lose them both in such a short space of time is so hard. But it sounds like they had super lives with you. Snuggle up girls at the Bridge xx
 
That's really sad, I'm sorry to read this. They were with you for such a long time and will leave a huge hole in your life.
Be young again at the Bridge sweet ones x
 
Thanks everyone. I know it's the most difficult time to deal with being a pet owner BUT I wouldn't have done without them over the years, that's for sure. They leave another 5 grumpy old ladies, that range from 15.5 years to nearly 17 again.....so i know I have more heartbreak to come but I'll enjoy whatever time I have left with all of them
I do feel better today, knowing they are both at peace and out of pain but I miss snuggles so much x
 
I am so sorry for your losses, it is always so horrible to lose a much loved pet, but too lose two so close is double the heartbreak. Huge hugs

RIP April & Ruby
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