I don't come on here as much as I would like as I can only come on when i can use my OH laptop but I often come and have a look around.
I have a dilema I'm trying to think isn't my problem but I just can't stop thinking about it.
A woman at work overheard me talking about my boys the other day, and pitched in that she had a little sow who lived on her own because her cagemate had died last year. I obviously asked lots of questions because I wanted to help but also the more she told me the more worried it made me :{ She lives in the spare room by herself in what sounds to be a very small cage. Her kids don't care so don't spend anytime with her. The woman clearly has no idea what to feed her so gives her 'the stuff they don't want when it's going off, she'd never even given her cucumber or carrot! She doesn't buy her any proper hay other than that awful stuff in pets at home. pow-pow She said she knows that she's happy because she squeals every morning when they get up and whenever anyone walks passed. I said I thought this might be because she's really lonely 8... and that all pigs should live in pairs. I've sent her some website links of how to care for the poor thing and suggested she at least move her into the living room.
I asked her a couple of weeks later how she'd got on with the info I'd sent and if she'd thought anymore about it but she said she hadn't had time and it all seemed fine, and that she wasn't bothered if she died anyway :0 I know I can't do anything because this woman is really senior at my work but I just can't stop thinking about it. I know she isn't deliberately abusing her and is probably doing 'the best she can' as her kids aren't interested. But it's just not good enough is it
It's made me really sad and worried and I don't know what more I can do
I have a dilema I'm trying to think isn't my problem but I just can't stop thinking about it.
A woman at work overheard me talking about my boys the other day, and pitched in that she had a little sow who lived on her own because her cagemate had died last year. I obviously asked lots of questions because I wanted to help but also the more she told me the more worried it made me :{ She lives in the spare room by herself in what sounds to be a very small cage. Her kids don't care so don't spend anytime with her. The woman clearly has no idea what to feed her so gives her 'the stuff they don't want when it's going off, she'd never even given her cucumber or carrot! She doesn't buy her any proper hay other than that awful stuff in pets at home. pow-pow She said she knows that she's happy because she squeals every morning when they get up and whenever anyone walks passed. I said I thought this might be because she's really lonely 8... and that all pigs should live in pairs. I've sent her some website links of how to care for the poor thing and suggested she at least move her into the living room.
I asked her a couple of weeks later how she'd got on with the info I'd sent and if she'd thought anymore about it but she said she hadn't had time and it all seemed fine, and that she wasn't bothered if she died anyway :0 I know I can't do anything because this woman is really senior at my work but I just can't stop thinking about it. I know she isn't deliberately abusing her and is probably doing 'the best she can' as her kids aren't interested. But it's just not good enough is it
It's made me really sad and worried and I don't know what more I can do