Unsure how to help surviving piggy

[Emrob]

Hi everyone,
I am the lucky mom to two female Guinea pigs (Megs and Mel). Unfortunately, Megs has passed away a couple days ago. It absolutely breaks my heart and I can only imagine how Mel is feeling. Mel is 5 years old, and has always had more of a shy, timid personality. So I’m nervous about incorporating an other guinea pig, because I don’t want to cause her any more stress. But at the same time, I know it’s not good for her to be alone. I try my best to always spend lots of time with her, and even more so lately but I’m not sure if that’s enough. Also, there’s no Guinea pig rescue or adoption available near me, so my only option would be to get a new young pig. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for this sort of situation. Thanks in advance

 

[h.h.lovecraft]

I'm very sorry you lost your little Megs. It sounds like you and Mel loved her a lot. As you just recently lost Megs, I am sure you are still grieving and it can be difficult to navigate these decisions while dealing with grief. There are many lovely guides on here about grief and how to look after a bereaved piggy which I would highly recommend taking a look at.

Looking After A Bereaved Guinea Pig

Human Bereavement: Grieving, Coping and Support Links for Guinea Pig Owners and Their Children

Generally, it is recommended to find a new friend for a bereaved piggy. Many people have great luck bonding an older piggy and a young piggy due to their natural heirachy and a younger pigs desire for guidance from an elder. I think it would still be a very good idea to make sure they are compatible beforehand however. That can be difficult when there are no rescues in your area that can set up bonding dates with other piggies though. Hopefully another forum member more familiar with your area will be able give some advice in terms of rescues and adoption options. A rescue or adoption center will be the most fool proof way to ensure you find a happy, healthy connection for Mel and a new friend of any age.

If you do decide to just get a baby pig for Mel, you may want to keep in mind that in the worst case, a bond can break once the younger pig reaches teenage years. This would only be the case if Mel and the new pig wouldn't be compatible. They would still benefit from living side by side, but you would have to consider everything that comes with that. I think it's really great that you are already thinking about what you can do to help Mel.