Genuine question here as I honestly can not understand this, and no disrespect to anyone, but why use terms like 'drudge', 'minion', 'servant/***keeper' etc etc
We have our pets, regardless of species because we want them, love them and take care of them because we want to so why use terms that make it sound like something your forced into / that it's a chore?
As I said before the original term of 'slave' has never sat well with me, I won't go into a rant about it because this thread is about stopping use of that term, which I am so pleased about, but personally, I feel that terms like servant and drudge are no better.
I don't know how to explain why these terms leave me feeling so uncomfortable without getting on my high horse/ranting, but in short I guess it feels disrespectful.
However hopefully I'm missing something here.
(It might be worth mentioning that I am autistic)
I generally feel like you.
My piggies are my Tribe (or rather Tribes these days) and I don't use a specific word for myself in relation to them when I am at home. For me, they are basically individual personalities from a species in their own right who I enjoy looking after and who I try to interact with in a kind of trade language at eye height.
And who I have the occasional tussle with as to who says when what is being fed after they found out that they could nicely train hub with their pester power while I was so badly ill.
Admittedly, I have very occasionally used 'serf' in the odd humorous comments from my piggies about me on here and very rarely piggy mummy for myself but that comes more under masking than how I actually see myself in relationship to my piggies.
I have the odd cuddle piggy who doesn't mind me but I get my real enjoyment from watching them interact with each other and being themselves or interacting with me on their own terms. I find it much more interesting trying to work out what makes them tick like they do with their individual variations and the resulting different dynamics and relationships - and the interplay between the different groups. I still love them all, each differently.
But there isn't actually a word in English or German that really covers that. Furry house mates?
Like you, I am autistic and I am aware that I tend to tick somewhat differently to the big bulk in that area.
However, I also enjoy being creative with language and words. I do love puns, including groaners. That is part of why I enjoy this thread. It makes me smile when I really need a smile. So please bear with me in that respect.
But I have no problem whatsoever with anybody who is not comfortable and who doesn't share this. I certainly respect you for expressing your own feelings on this subject because not everybody wouldn't have the courage to stand up for their own corner. But this is how it should be on this forum.
I also love this thread for reflecting the whole human range of different accesses and relationships we have as owners with our piggies, which have all their own equal right and value even if some names leave each of us uncomfortable, baffled or just simply cold in turn - as long as they all result in good, loving care for our pigs. And it makes all of us stop and think.