Very Tough And Sad Decision

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After much thought recently I have decided, with a heavy heart, that it will be for the best to re-home my beautiful boys.

I love them dearly and have done everything I can to provide them with the best possible home but I am aware that there are others who could do an even better job with them. The reality is I have had a particularly difficult time this year at uni and at home and as a result it looks like there is going to be a lot of upheaval in the coming months, on top of that my plans for the future now mean I may not be able to afford a home big enough to house my boys or a salary to pay for their food and bedding or any unexpected vet fees. It is also looking like I might be working extremely long days which would be unfair to the boys.

It has been extremely difficult to make this decision as every time I think about it I try to talk myself around to ways of making it possible to keep them, but it would be purely for my benefit and not in the best interest of the boys - really they deserve someone who can give them so much more than I can. For that reason I feel it will be best to re-home them sooner rather than later so they can settle into their new life as soon as possible. I have asked a friend of mine if she would like to take them on because she loves them as much as I do and it would mean I could still see them regularly and know how they are getting on. Unfortunately I can't see that she will be able to fit them in as she has a small flat and is already full with gerbils! I also think once I give her a run down of the costs and care regime she may decide it's too much for her to take on. I'm hoping that if she can't take them on I will be able to get advice from you lovely people about how to go about finding them the best new home possible.

I would like to say thank you to everyone on this forum for all the guidance and support I've had in creating a wonderful home for my piggies, I do believe they've had a good home with me and really wish I could continue to keep it up but I know that with the changes to my future it just won't be possible. I hope that you can all understand that this is the last thing I ever wanted and is not a decision I've made easily - when I took my boys on I was passionate about ensuring this would be their forever home and I am devastated that I can't keep that promise. What I can do though is ensure that they progress to the best home and that it is conducted in the least traumatic way possible.

A recent pic of my beautiful, beloved Sam and Frodo xx

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Oh sweetheart I am so sorry you have had to make this decision but this goes to show how selfless and caring you are. I hope someone on here can take on the boys so you can keep in touch with them. If not then maybe your nearest rescue will have space. I hope you will stay on here to keep in touch. I wish you luck.
 
Thank you. I am hoping that I will be able to stay on the forum even if I don't have piggies I will always love them! It would be nice to get a fix of them until such a time I can take on another pair in the future.

@Goth Mummy I did consider the fostering idea but the reality is that my future looks very turbulent at the moment and I just can't guarantee when or if I would be able to take them on again and seeing as this is technically their third home already I wouldn't want to risk any more upheaval than is necessary.

I have a few months until I move so hopefully that will be enough time to find them a new home and if not then I will consider my options then, by that time I will hopefully have a little more clarity about where I'm going and what I'm doing. At the moment I literally have no idea where I will be living past the 3rd of July!
 
You are being very brave and such a good owner in planning for your piggies. Wish you all,the best in re homing them.
 
I'm so sorry you've had to make this decision, it must have been so hard. I'm sure you'll find them a loving home. Like Gigi says, would be great if they could go to someone on the forum so you could keep up to date with them!
 
What a tough decision to have to make! :( You are being very brave and I hope that everything works out smoothly for you all x
 
That's a very hard decision to make, it's very clear it's been thoroughly considered too. I really hope you can find them a loving home either close by or with someone on the forum so you can keep up with them still.

Good luck with all your plans!
 
I'm so sorry you have had to make this decision, hopefully the perfect home will come up over the next few months. If not you could see if Hutches rescue have space?
 
I'm sorry it has come to this but its so lovely to see you putting the boys needs first. My friend in Glasgow used to have piggies, I will mention this pair to her but she has recently (as in a few weeks ago) had a baby who is very poorly and he has had to have several heart operations already so I don't think she would be in a position to take them in at the present moment in time.
 
Aww. Sorry to hear that news. :( you love your boys too. I know it's a decision you wouldn't have taken lightly. ((((Hugs))))
 
What an awful decision, and one I understand having to face. I hope you manage to find a lovely home for your boys, I know you will do everything in your power to ensure they go to the right place.
 
Thank you everyone for all your lovely messages. I have spoken to my friend who has decided she's not equipped to take them on so I'm officially looking for a new home for them :(

Am I allowed to create a thread for them in the rehoming section on here or is that just for rescues? Any advice for rehoming them to the best possible home would be greatly appreciated, thanks
 
Aww. That's a shame. I wish I could take them but I feel 4 piggies would be too much for me permanently. If it was a foster I may have been able to help.
 
I've linked this thread to a group on facebook, as someone is looking to take two sows or boars in, they're willing to travel. Sorry :( Just realized you're in Australia, a bit too far. :(
 
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@BonBon2010 Thanks, as Julie M says I'm in Scotland so not quite as far as Australia! Unfortunately due to my uni schedule at the moment I can't travel too far to meet anyone half way so I guess it depends how far someone is willing to travel to take pick them up. I'm going to start a rehoming thread for them this evening after I've got through a little more uni work as I've fallen behind this weekend!
 
I know how you feel.I had to rehome four of my girls as couldn't cope financially or physically with ten piggies.I have a good rescue near and she rehomed them for me.They went to a lady that has given them more space and more piggies company.Good luck in finding th a new home
 
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