YES or NO. PIGGIES.

David Piggie Lover

David Piggie Lover

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This hurts IMG_8102.webp
You’ve seen this area full of loved piggies seeing this is breaking me heart
This is First time in years since I stole Pedro (gosh I miss him) that I’m without a piggie.
I love my piggies all I’ve had were deeply loved and cared for.
I’ve never had a time without one so this is a moment I’ve not had.
Heart say getting another 1/2/3 is replacing what I had and slightly disrespectful to the wonderful life we had.
Head say man up and get some…
Guys those who know me and followed our adventures and those who don’t my fault as with work etc ive slightly been off the forum
What do you think I should do pls….
 
If you have the room in your house, life and heart then I say yes, have some more piggies in your life.
You will not be replacing the ones you had there's plenty of room in our hearts for those that went before and those that are yet to come.
There's no need to rush into finding new piggies though Dave, if you are not sure take your time before making a decision. I have a feeling your next little loves will find you.
 
I would see it more as, your previous much loved piggies legacy is leaving behind a loving home with room for more piggies in need, rather than replacing them.

Each one is unique in their own way, you can never replace any of them. But you can take what you learned from them, and the love you have to give, which is being carried as grief, and give it a new outlet.

You'll never forget your previous piggies or the special bond you had with them. You will just be adding to those memories.

There's no rush to make a decision, I am sure you will know when the opportunity presents itself to add new piggies. It's like making a decision with a coin flip, whatever the result you will know what you hoped would happen.
 
I would counter that there's nothing wrong or disrespectful with getting new piggies. We never replace any of our pets- we know very well that they were one of a kind and are not able to be replaced. I've never forgotten any of the pets I've lost over the years. But I have the time and space and ability to provide a good home for other pets, and why wouldn't I do that if I'm able to? It makes me happier to have them here and they are living a good life with someone who loves them, so we all win.

There's a poem I like called 'A Dog's Last Will and Testament' that always makes me tear up- it talks about how, if he could, a dog would leave all he has on earth, including his place with his owner, to another dog in need. I think about that sometimes when I get a new pet. I'm positive that the biggest tribute I can pay to pets I've lost is to say that, despite the pain of losing them, having them as part of my life was so wonderful that I'm willing to open my heart up and do it all again.
 
We're just the same at the minute - we lost our three pigs over the past 2 months or so, and the final rescue residents went to their new home today. We are now without any pigs for the first time in over ten years 🙁

We're going away this weekend for a week, once we get back we'll see how we feel. We do think we will welcome more pigs into our lives again soon, by reopening the rescue fully. So we have pigs here again, but find them loving new homes before the inevitable happens.

Theres no rush - just see how you feel. It's good to have a break to grieve and process everything before making any decisions.

Perhaps you could foster pigs for a local rescue, if that's something that happens in the US?
 
I would say to seriously think about getting some more David. It’s not disrespectful and it isn’t about ‘replacing’ your rainbow piggies but it’s about giving a fantastic loving home to some more needy piggies.

I no longer have guinea pigs, it’s coming up to two years at beginning of next year and I miss them so much and my heart is empty but my circumstances mean now isn’t the right time for me to have anymore.

But if you have space in your heart, your home and if your finances allow, I say go for it xx
 
Freela said:
I would counter that there's nothing wrong or disrespectful with getting new piggies. We never replace any of our pets- we know very well that they were one of a kind and are not able to be replaced. I've never forgotten any of the pets I've lost over the years. But I have the time and space and ability to provide a good home for other pets, and why wouldn't I do that if I'm able to? It makes me happier to have them here and they are living a good life with someone who loves them, so we all win.

There's a poem I like called 'A Dog's Last Will and Testament' that always makes me tear up- it talks about how, if he could, a dog would leave all he has on earth, including his place with his owner, to another dog in need. I think about that sometimes when I get a new pet. I'm positive that the biggest tribute I can pay to pets I've lost is to say that, despite the pain of losing them, having them as part of my life was so wonderful that I'm willing to open my heart up and do it all again.
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Very powerful and I thank you for taking the time to reply and to let you know it’s now 3…O
 
Claire W said:
I would say to seriously think about getting some more David. It’s not disrespectful and it isn’t about ‘replacing’ your rainbow piggies but it’s about giving a fantastic loving home to some more needy piggies.

I no longer have guinea pigs, it’s coming up to two years at beginning of next year and I miss them so much and my heart is empty but my circumstances mean now isn’t the right time for me to have anymore.

But if you have space in your heart, your home and if your finances allow, I say go for it xx
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Claire that my dear coming from you means hell of a lot.
Your honesty about many things are to be applauded
You given me a boost my dear…. HUGS
Defo got space in me heart and home
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Wheekallweek said:
We're just the same at the minute - we lost our three pigs over the past 2 months or so, and the final rescue residents went to their new home today. We are now without any pigs for the first time in over ten years 🙁

We're going away this weekend for a week, once we get back we'll see how we feel. We do think we will welcome more pigs into our lives again soon, by reopening the rescue fully. So we have pigs here again, but find them loving new homes before the inevitable happens.

Theres no rush - just see how you feel. It's good to have a break to grieve and process everything before making any decisions.

Perhaps you could foster pigs for a local rescue, if that's something that happens in the US?
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Thank you for reply.
My issue and ok don’t laugh but I sit hours with me pigs and it hurts
I’ve put pictures up and beautiful drawings and talk as tho they are here ….
 
Freela said:
I would counter that there's nothing wrong or disrespectful with getting new piggies. We never replace any of our pets- we know very well that they were one of a kind and are not able to be replaced. I've never forgotten any of the pets I've lost over the years. But I have the time and space and ability to provide a good home for other pets, and why wouldn't I do that if I'm able to? It makes me happier to have them here and they are living a good life with someone who loves them, so we all win.

There's a poem I like called 'A Dog's Last Will and Testament' that always makes me tear up- it talks about how, if he could, a dog would leave all he has on earth, including his place with his owner, to another dog in need. I think about that sometimes when I get a new pet. I'm positive that the biggest tribute I can pay to pets I've lost is to say that, despite the pain of losing them, having them as part of my life was so wonderful that I'm willing to open my heart up and do it all again.
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I’ve re read this and I admit
My loving and caring for piggies is stronger because of the ones I’ve had
Pedro was my Zeus
 
If you have room in your heart, then do get some more piggies. You aren't replacing your past piggies, you are giving some that are in rescue the chance of a wonderful life.

You will also be freeing up rescue space for other piggies that are need.
 
YvonneBlue said:
If you have room in your heart, then do get some more piggies. You aren't replacing your past piggies, you are giving some that are in rescue the chance of a wonderful life.

You will also be freeing up rescue space for other piggies that are need.
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Defo a rescue or unwanted piggies
Shop or p@h no…
 
Every piggy is taking you onto a new journey. I've had nearly a 100 piggies passing through my life in some form or other but I have to wind down due to age and now added health reasons. It is a very bittersweet time for me. But each of them has been unique, loveable in their own way and none has taken anything away from any of their predecessors.

What I can say is: Love is not finite; every new love is finding its very own space in your heart; hearts are wonderfully expandable places.

Love is also not a well that dries up naturally after a while. It is much more like a river that keeps on flowing. The piggies in your past were part of a younger river and you still carry them on with you as droplets in the form of your memories and your personal experience.
The piggies of your future will journey with a different river along different banks and create different experiences. They do not take away from each other; they just become a new and different part of the same river and you will make new experiences with them and have a new relationship with them. But they can all be carried by the same river without taking away from each other. ;)

If you still love piggies, then by all means go and adopt more. If you feel that it is too painful after even a break, then find something different to give your love to. Love only dies if it is withheld.
 
Wiebke said:
Every piggy is taking you onto a new journey. I've had nearly a 100 piggies passing through my life in some form or other but I have to wind down due to age and now added health reasons. It is a very bittersweet time for me.

What I can say is: Love is not finite; every new love is finding its own tying in space in your heart. It is also not a well that dries up naturally after a while. Love is more like a river that keeps on flowing. The piggies in your past were part of a younger river and you carry them with you as droplets in the form of your memories and your personal experience.
The piggies of your future will journey with a different river along different banks and create different experiences. They do not take away from each other; they just become a new and different part of the same river and you will make new experiences with them and have a new relationship with them. But they can all be carried by the same river without taking away from each other. ;)

If you still love piggies, then by all means go and adopt more. If you feel that it is too painful after even a break, then find something different to give your love. Love only dies if it is withheld.
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It’s defo going to be piggies
It’s really hard to explain but I’m preaching to the converted
Pedro got to me tho a disgusting start in life to a wonderful bond we formed after I got him. To this day I can’t write words what that little guy did for me.
You my dear are a wonderful person and not only the piggies you had but the countless others you have helped me including
I can feel the feeling of new squeeeks to be sought. Thank you x
 
David Piggie Lover said:
It’s defo going to be piggies
It’s really hard to explain but I’m preaching to the converted
Pedro got to me tho a disgusting start in life to a wonderful bond we formed after I got him. To this day I can’t write words what that little guy did for me.
You my dear are a wonderful person and not only the piggies you had but the countless others you have helped me including
I can feel the feeling of new squeeeks to be sought. Thank you x
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Give yourself time to grieve and for a proper deep clean and then start searching around. I am sure that there are some out there for you.

If you want a break from your heartbreak with your girls, go for piggies with different/looks/genders/combos or ages that are guaranteed to take you into a new direction. Don't rush, give yourself time to find some that speak to you.
 
Wiebke said:
Give yourself time to grieve and for a proper deep clean and then start searching around. I am sure that there are some out there for you.
If you want a break from your heartbreak with your girls, go for piggies with different/looks/genders/combos or ages that are guaranteed to take you into a new direction. Don't rush, give yourself time to find some that speak to you.
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Deep clean done
I had time to think when Moo slowed down.
 
People who love eating talk about always having 'food noise' in their head. I can go for a long time living with my pigs and then the 'pig noise' starts in my head. And it gets louder and louder until I give in and we are all off to the rescue for a new friend. I recognise the signs. You, my friend, have pig noise. And I think it's loud. Don't worry about thinking it's too soon, you know what feels right in your heart. Only one way to stop that pig noise. And put a smile on your face again 😊 All your girls would say 'go on Dad, go for it'.
 
I’ve read your posts and the love for your piggies shines thru ❤️
As everyone has said you aren’t replacing your previous piggies but adding to your piggy family
These little creatures climb into our hearts and never leave ❤️
Any new piggies will give you joy and fun and lovely times which will help you thru your grief
I think you’ve answered your own question …
Good luck and we are all looking forward to hearing about your next steps 🥰
 
Yey. Go for blast off. Get some lovely little guinea pigs. When the time is right.

After I said goodbye to the last member of the herd I thought that there would not be any more. I moved house and my rabbit numbers gently and naturally decreased and I have fairly recently bought two second hand sows from one of the pet websites.

Best of luck. Look forward to updates.
 
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