Hello everyone. So I'm pretty upset about the whole thing at the moment and after a rubbish nights sleep I had a pretty distracted day at work thinking about the boys.
Could do with some advice...
Have to admit I was a little confused at the next steps...just remove the divider and see what happens, go into a neutral setting and try a full on bonding, wait a bit longer etc. Think I've read too much and it's got all jumbled. So I took a deep breath and just went with moving the divider out. I didnt want to keep them apart unnecessarily and figured I had all evening to supervise.
It's been 20 mins max and here's what happened...
- initially they came straight together but this was probably because I had to move the hideys a little to free up 2 exit points
- there was then some bumping sounds (obscured by a hidey) suggesting they were having a grumping and one or both were flinching enough to hit the side of the cage and make it rattle. No other noise though but when I peered around I could see Dash was bunched back on his hind legs, although not rearing.
- they both had a little mooch round and ate some food in close proximity. Again no noises.
- they both went into one of the hideys and then there was loud teeth chattering, and sitting back on hind legs (no rearing).
I put the divider straight back in as I didnt want to let it go any further and figured apart through the bars for a bit longer with some advice from you lovely people was a better next move!
Do I try a more neutral option tomorrow with nothing but fresh fleece and a pile of hay in the play pen? Do I try again in the cage and if I do should I clean any of the bedding?
I'm also struggling to tell who might be edging it as most dominant. I think they're both willing to stand up for themselves but I cant really tell from what I've seen if there's a repeat offender for instigating.
I really dont want a full on fight if that can be avoided but I would like to be certain before I do anything more on the separation front, equally if there is a bond to be salvaged, I dont want to risk it by keeping them apart too long.