TheAurora
Adult Guinea Pig
Hi @TheAurora I'm glad that Casran seems to be a bit better, I'll cross my fingers for him. I'm also glad that you've had the help and support from member of these forums.
Today my son went to the local chippy and there was a man serving, he asked my son how he was so my son told him he was a bit tired due to him getting up every three hours with an animal (Cesaro our guinea pig) he asked what animal and my son told him a guinea pig, the man thought it was funny and tried to make a joke out of it and said you can get one from the local pet shop for £15, my son told him that he's not just going to leave a sick animal and that he was quite sensitive towards animals (he takes after me lol), he said some other rubbish which I think my son chose to ignore, he thought it was ok to do that with a dog, but not a guinea pig... When my son told me about it I said a few swear words and then said... I've told people on the forums about what your doing and they get it, they understand and think you've done well... it's times like that when you realise that forums like this are more help than you think.
Anyway, sorry for going on, I was just so bothered by what he had said then looked through this thread and thought... see, people that understand and are trying to support Dawn.
That's lovely your son stood firm to his convictions.
I guess there will always be times in life that others do not share our priorities. but all that really matters is that certain things are important to us as individuals. Our priorities can become impenetrable - unaffected by outside influences. The people that matter will care about our priorities because they care about us.
My bosses have been very supportive towards me this week ... they couldn't actually give two hoots about guinea pigs but they have shown they care about me by caring about what's important to me. People that don't care about what is important to us, really shouldn't matter to us.
Ultimately, I think we all have things in our lives that are entirely uninfluenced by the opinions of others. These things are guarded by high walls and towers. These things are so important to us that nothing anyone else can ever say will change how we feel.
Casran is one of those things. Like your son's guinea pig is to him x
