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Eddie Had A Dental Today

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irene said:
My heart goes out to you! Wish there was something I could say! I can't imagine the loss you feel for your precious little guy who now is finally at peace after his brave fight!
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i just don't know how to cope with the intensity of the grief. it's just really hard. and i miss him so much it physically hurts
 
biscandmatt said:
i just don't know how to cope with the intensity of the grief. it's just really hard. and i miss him so much it physically hurts
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At times of loss like this you really have to take it almost minute by minute, can't look too far ahead that's just too hard. I know I would be feeling the same way, many don't understand how you can love a little guinea pig so much!
 
irene said:
At times of loss like this you really have to take it almost minute by minute, can't look too far ahead that's just too hard. I know I would be feeling the same way, many don't understand how you can love a little guinea pig so much!
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You have to remember that you did EVERYTHING that you could and his little body just had to give in to the need to rest and be pain free
 
irene said:
At times of loss like this you really have to take it almost minute by minute, can't look too far ahead that's just too hard. I know I would be feeling the same way, many don't understand how you can love a little guinea pig so much!
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thank you. it just overwhelms me and i start to panic. this is why i love the forum because you all get it. x
 
I'm so sorry. I can remember how gutted I was when Frenzy passed. Sometimes you do everything you can possibly do, but it just isn't meant to be. ((HUGS)) to you, and to Mollie. It's hard to see them grieve too. You did a wonderful job caring for him, and he was lucky to have you. Again, I'm so sorry.
 
I am so so sorry for your loss. Having only caught up with this thread I cannot imagine the pain and heartache you are experiencing after fighting so hard for him and then losing him so sadly. You did everything you could, and as many of us know from experience that sometimes makes it hurt all the more - I am still very raw after losing Cash in April. Everyone here knows what you're going through, give yourself all the time you need to grieve. Eventually you will feel better and remember the happier times x RIP Eddie x
 
thanks so much everyone. eddie is going to the pet crematorium today. i feel like i'm abandoning him which i know is silly. but i will get his ashes back in a couple of days and then he can be here at home again with us.

sleep tight little steady eddie bear. i miss you and your crazy sweet ways. x
 
just got a card from the vets so that's me set off crying again. nice they do that though. but it shocks me when people say he's gone. i know he has but i don't want to accept it yet.
 
the crematorium rang earlier. eddie was cremated last night and they will return his ashes to us on friday morning. i always choose a picture casket so it's like a chunky photo frame. so will get a pic printed for it and then his casket can go alongside maisie's. i also keep a little mini glass vial, like a mini corkscrew top bottle, with a bit of their hair in aswell which then gets kept inside the casket. it opens so you can keep keepsakes inside. anyway, will feel a bit better when he's back home again where he belongs. x
 
biscandmatt said:
the crematorium rang earlier. eddie was cremated last night and they will return his ashes to us on friday morning. i always choose a picture casket so it's like a chunky photo frame. so will get a pic printed for it and then his casket can go alongside maisie's. i also keep a little mini glass vial, like a mini corkscrew top bottle, with a bit of their hair in aswell which then gets kept inside the casket. it opens so you can keep keepsakes inside. anyway, will feel a bit better when he's back home again where he belongs. x
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Hugs to you both Lea x

Once he is back home, you will feel a little more settled, I always find that it is then your heart can start to heal. He had a wonderful life with you remember that, I remember when you got him, bless him such a character..

Hope little Mollie is okay x
 
sport_billy said:
Hugs to you both Lea x

Once he is back home, you will feel a little more settled, I always find that it is then your heart can start to heal. He had a wonderful life with you remember that, I remember when you got him, bless him such a character..

Hope little Mollie is okay x
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doesn't seem that long ago we got him, and yet it felt like he had always been here. he was a funny little boy. :luv: x

mollie seems better today than yesterday. still quiet but getting there i think. x
 
Was so sorry to hear your news. Love and Grief are two of the strongest natural emotions we have, that's why they are so very intense for us. Hope little Mollie is ok. Big hugs coming through cyberspace xx
 
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