Betsy
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Not good if I'm honest but getting there. Meg not wheeking loudly for veggies got me tonight. It all seemed very quiet out there at veg time.This and your new signature made me cry all over again.
How are you doing now?
Not good if I'm honest but getting there. Meg not wheeking loudly for veggies got me tonight. It all seemed very quiet out there at veg time.This and your new signature made me cry all over again.
How are you doing now?
It takes time - longer than we think.Not good if I'm honest but getting there. Meg not wheeking loudly for veggies got me tonight. It all seemed very quiet out there at veg time.
Aw I'm crying again now @BetsyHello Slaves
Christian here. I just thought I'd tell you about my very odd day. It started as usual with Slave giving me my normal morning weigh in and yummy Metacam and then we had our "breakfast time" of yummy pellets. Velvet didn't want any as she'd been feeling poorly these last few days. Slave came back which I thought was strange and she said Velvet's name so I jumped in front of the wicker arch Velvet was in so that Slave couldn't take her away. Slave just lifted the wicker arch anyway and picked Velvet up, put her in a nice fleecy hidey and popped her in the "going to the vet" travel basket. A while later Velvet came back and was put in the hutch and I found her in her forever sleep. Well I licked her to say goodbye and went away and came back and licked her again and repeated it several times. Meg was a bit scared as she didn't like to admit that the one pig she looked to for guidance wasn't going to do that ever again. It took her a while to come out of the circus tent to say goodbye but she did in the end. Then Slave took out Velvet and placed her in a paper bag with hay in and put her gently in a plant pot and covered her with earth and planted a lovely plant on the top. Now Velvet can come with us when we move to Piggy Grandma's house in a few weeks.
We have been a bit subdued all day and Meg didn't enthusiastically wheek for veg tonight. She is usually so excited at veggie time I'm sure the whole road can hear her. We still ate the yummy veg though. Yes it's been a very odd day.
Love from
Christian
You mustn't feel guilty @PigglePuggle. I knew her time was up yesterday but wanted her to come home to say goodbye to Christian and Meg and have one last night with her piggy family.Aw I'm crying again now @BetsyI feel really guilty somehow my piggies went to the vets today and came home ok... sending even more hugs and piggy kisses, for you and the piggy friends she's left behind x
I want to click like now because you are being so brave and kind but I don't think I should because I dont want to like Velvet being gone xYou mustn't feel guilty @PigglePuggle. I knew her time was up yesterday but wanted her to come home to say goodbye to Christian and Meg and have one last night with her piggy family.

When we meet again at Salisbury you can have a big hug from meThanks! I need lots of hugs atm. I still can't believe she's gone.![]()
I think that tears are a natural response to losing her. She isn't where your brain and heart expect and hope her to be and little things and memories are a reminder of the wrongness of her absence.A bit better thanks. It helps that I am busy atm. When I remember that Velvet isn't here anymore I do burst into tears which is only natural I suppose - part of the grieving process.