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my little man crossed over the rainbow bridge some point last night at the age of 6. we noticed 2 days ago he'd been acting strange for a few days, not eating and lethargy, but then he started vigorously rubbing his face against things and being quite wobbly. he had a vet appointment yesterday asap and the only thing they could see wrong was his bottom teeth needed trimming which was supposed to be today so i critical care fed and watered him before bed, came down this morning to see him passed snuggled up next to his best friend. i think he had a neurological issue he'd hidden very well so he was past the point of saving. i'm gutted.

his final resting place is in his old outdoor run, with his favourite log tunnel which we've turned into a flower bed as he loved the sun and eating the grass.

goodnight sweet boy
 

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BIG HUGS

I am so sorry that handsome Nugget had a more urgent appointment at the Rainbow Bridge. The current sudden much hotter weather can sadly easily tip the balance for the older and frailer piggies. We've gone pretty much from freezing nights to high summer in just a few days.

Please try to take comfort that Nugget could leave in the way he would have wanted to most at the end of a obviously very good and happy lifespan, thanks to your love and care. You have done all the right things any owner should do.

Here is what you can do for Nugget's best friend: Looking After a Bereaved Guinea Pig

Here is our grieving guide for owners. We now also have a new End of Life and Bereavement community support section if you feel you would like to talk or to have some moral support from owners who get what you are going through.
Human Bereavement: Grieving, Processing and Support Links for Guinea Pig Owners and Their Children
 
BIG HUGS

I am so sorry that handsome Nugget had a more urgent appointment at the Rainbow Bridge. The current sudden much hotter weather can sadly easily tip the balance for the older and frailer piggies. We've gone pretty much from freezing nights to high summer in just a few days.

Please try to take comfort that Nugget could leave in the way he would have wanted to most at the end of a obviously very good and happy lifespan, thanks to your love and care. You have done all the right things any owner should do.

Here is what you can do for Nugget's best friend: Looking After a Bereaved Guinea Pig

Here is our grieving guide for owners. We now also have a new End of Life and Bereavement community support section if you feel you would like to talk or to have some moral support from owners who get what you are going through.
Human Bereavement: Grieving, Processing and Support Links for Guinea Pig Owners and Their Children
BIG HUGS

I am so sorry that handsome Nugget had a more urgent appointment at the Rainbow Bridge. The current sudden much hotter weather can sadly easily tip the balance for the older and frailer piggies. We've gone pretty much from freezing nights to high summer in just a few days.

Please try to take comfort that Nugget could leave in the way he would have wanted to most at the end of a obviously very good and happy lifespan, thanks to your love and care. You have done all the right things any owner should do.

Here is what you can do for Nugget's best friend: Looking After a Bereaved Guinea Pig

Here is our grieving guide for owners. We now also have a new End of Life and Bereavement community support section if you feel you would like to talk or to have some moral support from owners who get what you are going through.
Human Bereavement: Grieving, Processing and Support Links for Guinea Pig Owners and Their Children
thankyou so much, your words truly mean the world to me despite my guilt. i do think the heat was the final nail in the coffin for him because he was hardly coping despite trying 100s of cooling methods with them.

my only worry is his best friend (teddy) is also quite old now, around the same age as nugget. nugget died in the cage so teddy has been aware he's not well and has been aware he'd passed before we were. he's been eating all day and acting completely normal, no visible signs of grief, my main point however because of his old age i worry about finding him another companion incase teddy will also pass on within a year or so. he's always been a quite solitary and boisterous fella even so having nugget with him, will even more human love be enough?
 
thankyou so much, your words truly mean the world to me despite my guilt. i do think the heat was the final nail in the coffin for him because he was hardly coping despite trying 100s of cooling methods with them.

my only worry is his best friend (teddy) is also quite old now, around the same age as nugget. nugget died in the cage so teddy has been aware he's not well and has been aware he'd passed before we were. he's been eating all day and acting completely normal, no visible signs of grief, my main point however because of his old age i worry about finding him another companion incase teddy will also pass on within a year or so. he's always been a quite solitary and boisterous fella even so having nugget with him, will even more human love be enough?

Hi

Please take mental ease from the fact that Teddy has known what was going on (piggies have a much finer sense of smell, including for illness, and that he has taken his leave from Nugget. You do not need to worry about him pining and needing to rush out to find a new friend.

Any companionship measures depend on whether you want to continue with guinea pigs and access to rescues for temporary fostering solutions for end of the line piggies, especially with older piggies. It also depends on how accepting your bereaved oldie is of new company or next door company if that is another option for you. You have about a month so you can work through the roughest of your own grieving and look around. There is sadly no ideal solution that fits everywhere but just making that effort will be worth it.

You may find also our Singles guide very helpful because it discusses all those practical aspects in more detail and in a non-judgemental way. It also contains a chapter on how to spot when Teddy is transferring his social needs onto you.
Single Guinea Pigs - Challenges and Responsibilities

Since Teddy is hanging in there, is eating and drinking you have a few weeks to think things through, make enquiries and your decision. We all encounter the guilt trap at the start of our grieving process in some form because it is a human species wiring that we reflect everything back onto ourselves and feel responsible even where we have done all the right things but what has happened was out of our control. It is usually worse if the circumstances not in our control were rather traumatic.
It is not like you have had much warning and you had Nugget seen promptly after the bank holiday with your vet unable to find the problem and its cause with the huge weather swing thrown into the balance. You have neither chosen the timing, controlled the weather and you are not a vet... but what you are is a very loving and caring owner because if you weren't you wouldn't feel all this. It is the other side of the same coin called 'love'. And your love coin is a pretty large one. ;)

Please try to be gentle with yourself and give yourself time and space to not be OK for a little while but seek help by contacting the free (UK only) Blue Cross pet bereavement platforms if you seem unable to snap out of this mind loop and it is interfering with your sleep and how you function in daily life. It has been a traumatic experiences for you.
All forum members who have spoken to them and have come back with feedback have reported that it has helped them.
Pet Loss Support

You are also welcome to either have this thread moved to our Bereavement section for ongoing support and help with finding the best practical solution for Teddy within your possibilities or to start a new thread in there in which we can give you moral support in your grieving journey and discuss all the various little and large questions, concerns and practicalities re. Teddy with you so you are not feeling so alone, trapped, helpless and guilty. What you are going through all of us do in some shape and form. All of us have to face or have faced the end of the line dilemma with all the added emotional baggage and practical hurdles that comes with that.
End of Life and Bereavement Support Corner
 
So sorry for your loss.
Nuggets was a very handsome piggy .
You gave him a long and happy life.
Be gentle with yourself as you grieve
 
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