Ok here goes...
We had a quite nigth and i thought he would be gone in the morning but no... He poked his head up a few times but was extremely weak and wobbly and couldnt stand up.
Toddyguineapig (Jacquie) texted me and it came to pass that i ended up taking him down to the CCT again today and she came and met me to pick up the two girlies Squeaky and Mum.
When i got to the CCT Vedra took him in and confirmed he was very weak and in pain. It could be his kidneys and his tongue is sore. I was asked about the hay again and i did say they are still on hay because they wont sit on anything else and he has come back to quickly to order some special stuff in from the pet shop (ours dont order in the one she suggested anyway but i was going to find another one).
ANway she said he isnt on deaths door yet and suggested to keep him to see what can be done. She has all my details and will call me.
I cried then i met Jacquie and i have spent the whole journey thinking i could have done something more for him and why did i not realise he was in pain etc...?
My little man is 2 hours away and i know he is in the best place for him and if and when he is better Jacquie will be picking him up and he will be going to live with her females and be reunited with his mum and his sister... And if he doesnt pull through then his body is coming back here to be buried.
I wish i was there with him and i kick myself for not noticing his mite infection sooner...

I am just hoping he can pull through this...
Jacquie you are an absolute star and i dont know what i would have done without you. Thank you so much and i look foward to you being a "pest"
So Bigbum needs all your good wishes to pull through guys... And thank you for all your kind words its nice to know that bigbum is being thought of
My house is now empty and i must clean up all the syringes, spilt pellet mush and blended veg and vac all the hay up... No noise and an empty space... Squeaky and Mum i know will have a great life i just wish Bigbum will join them...